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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Theodore Brenner. We will remember him forever.
January 18
January 18
Dad, we miss you and Mom so much.. Wanted you to know that I sold Hilton Head (and a good deal too!), that Lisa now has 4 children, and Sarah has one! Sarah has moved to Va. and is close to Lisa, Michael is being a great ATC although they are all terribly unhappy and working so much, and Brian has a wonderful girlfriend, Laura . And Lynne and Bill now have a house in Columbus near her kids, and Eric has a baby also. And on a sad note, looks like it might be a Biden-Trump matchup again....you would have hated it! 
October 25, 2021
October 25, 2021
Dear family,
Thank you so much for sharing these wonderful memories. As Lisa mentioned I remember going to dinners and swimming and each time was such a treat with all of you. We were all so very fortunate to have family that showed they cared for all of us so much. Much love to you all. ❤
February 17, 2021
February 17, 2021
Ted would come into Herb’s Tavern right when breakfast stopped and lunch started. When I was running the line in the kitchen, I knew what time it was when Ted’s first Herb Burger of the day would come thru on my printer. Breakfast was over. Lunch began.
He always had a smile for everyone, and of course , his Peppermint Patties.
Such a kind man. We all were happy when we saw him every week. He always had a pep in his step.
He is missed , but gave us great memories.
Kim Berry and staff.
February 8, 2021
February 8, 2021
So sorry for your loss. Ted was a regular at the restaurant and we got to know him well. He always ordered French toast and runny scrambled eggs. He was so kind, generous, and easy going. Ted always had a smile on his face and never a shortage of peppermint candies that he would leave for the staff. He will be missed. 
January 30, 2021
January 30, 2021
Most of my favorite childhood memories with Dad were full of laughter and fun!...As young kids, so many nights after dinner, we, along with half the neighborhood, would pile into the station wagon and Dad would take us to Rocky River Park to play and explore. Sometimes, on our way home from the park, he would pull into Baskin Robbins and we all got ice-cream. But it was always a surprise, because if we asked, he would just give us a sly smile and remain silent. I remember the cheers that filled the car when he did pull in for ice cream, and the conversations later amongst the kids that nobody else's dad ever took us, and it filled me with pride , even at that young age, that he was MY dad!                                                            

As we grew older, we always had dinner together as a family, and at times, Dad would get us laughing so hard, nobody could stop laughing long enough to answer the telephone! (These were the days when people DID answer the phone, regardless of who was calling)  Aside from the laughter, Dad was always the one we went to for homework help but (frustratingly) he would NEVER just give us the answer but tried to "lead" us to it instead. I still remember struggling with logic problems in High School--sometimes the light never dawned for me but he was always patient and available!

When Mom passed away suddenly, Dad was able to carry on with some adjustments. With no interest in cooking for himself, he started going out for his lunches and dinners. It became our routine for everyone in the family that was in town and available, to join him one night a week. It was a wonderful way to touch base with family members weekly and to stay connected to nieces and nephews when they were back from college or visiting from out-of-town jobs. I know Dad really enjoyed it though he was generally quiet throughout the dinners, listening to the chatter of the younger ones...;-)

There was never a time that I don't remember Dad being there, willing to listen or to help when we needed it. It was difficult to get advice out of him but when he spoke, everyone knew that his words would be thoughtful and measured so they carried a lot of weight. As an adult, with kids of my own, he was still my dad. After he helped me out on a particularly bad day some 20 years ago, I sent him a thank you card with a picture on the front of a stick- figure person in a boat, up a creek. (with a helpless look on his face) At the beginning of the creek, on the shore, was a paddle.....(Up the creek without a paddle...;-) A few days later, Dad appeared at my door with an oar from his old sailboat. He had had a small metal plate made for the oar that said "Lynne's Paddle". He said it was so that I would never be without a paddle, even if he wasn't around. To this day, "Lynne's Paddle" hangs in my house as a reminder that Dad will always be with me.... Thank you, Dad. for being there for us whenever we needed you, and thank you for leaving us with such wonderful memories of our time with you---I love you, Dad..

January 25, 2021
January 25, 2021
Some of my strongest memories of growing up with Grandpa revolve around food! Sitting down to dinner with him while we were wrapping up an afternoon of swimming was a really special treat (Grandma made the most delicious food - I'm a meat and potatoes lover, just like Grandpa). Eating all the cereal we were never allowed to have at home after we were done swimming - although my favorites were always the ones Grandma had bought for Grandpa instead of all the kids! Meeting the family for our weekly breakfasts/lunches/dinners - whatever meal of the day we were planning, it was so nice to know I had at least one time during the week where I would get to see everyone all at once and catch up on life! We were really lucky to be able to grow up so close to Grandpa and see him so frequently, something I wish I could give to my kids too!
January 22, 2021
January 22, 2021
To Luann, Lynne, Steve and their families. So sorry for your loss. You know how special your parents were to me. Your Mom was my second Mom and I miss her still. After her passing, I would email your Dad about once a month. He would send me corny jokes that me laugh. The past few years his emails were more about his health and what was going on in your lives. I will certainly miss his smiling face and his quiet, peaceful personality. Love to all.
January 22, 2021
January 22, 2021
A home away from home is wherever love resides.
Ted, the candy man, radiated love.
His home at, The Gardens, was just a short stroll off the main lobby.
That was good for Ted and equally good for all who worked and lived at, The Gardens.
He greeted us all with his powerful gift of giving.
One chocolate mint and childlike grin at a time.
I personally have plenty of room in my heart to house all the good feelings and love that Ted so freely gave out in the disguise of a chocolate mint!!


January 22, 2021
January 22, 2021
I am so sorry to hear about Ted passing away. He was such a kind & generous next door neighbor.
He opened his pool to the neighborhood families. His blue flag was a sign of summer happiness for the kids. Ted always had a smile, a kind word & a York peppermint candy for everyone.
Ted also had a place in his heart for the neighborhood dogs - Eddie, Duke, Ella & Otis. He shared his "doggy bag" of steak with them & made sure everyone got an equal amount! Ted gave them a treat every day. He would walk around the backyard fence handing out treats & talking to the dogs while they gobbled them down. All the dogs would wait at the fence every morning for him.
Ted remained a big part of our neighborhood even when he moved to his new apartment. We always asked each other, "How is Ted doing? Have you heard from him?" Updates were quickly passed quickly from house to house.
Rest in peace,Ted.
I am keeping the Brenner family in my thoughts & prayers. Thank you for sharing your Dad with us.
Kathy
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Luann,
  What can I say? As friends growing up and living right across the street, your home was like a second home to me. When I think of your dad, I remember him always reading. He always knew what was going on in the world, and seemed to have his finger on the pulse of what was new in the world of technology. You were the first family I knew to have this new thing called an Amana Radarange!
  I remember going on your dad's sail boat, and one 4th of July when we were going to go out on the water to watch fireworks; just before getting on the boat, the weather turned really bad, and your dad made sure we all got into the marina safely. Seeing your dad walk your dear Beagle, Sandy, was a daily occurrence. And your dad was always ready and willing to help any of the neighbors in any way he could.
  Your dad always had such a calm, kind demeanor. There were so many times when he would say something that at first I would just take at face value. Then about a minute later, it would hit me that "that was really funny," or "I think he was trying to tell me something a bit more profound."
  Your dad certainly made this world a better place, and isn't that what life is really all about? He undoubtedly made many parts of the world better through his business. He certainly made West Asplin a better place by being such a great neighbor to all. And he made my small corner of the world a better place by giving me such a great friend, and always welcoming me into your home.
  Thinking of you, Lynne, Steve, and your families at this time.
  

January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Only knew Ted for a few years when he moved to Gardens at Westlake where my husband Leo and I were also living at the time. We knew about him, tho, from his neighbors Judy and Tom Blue. Judy is our daughter. He was just as nice a man as Judy had told us. He would give us, and others, a nice mint patty, so we called him the Candy Man. So glad we got to know this special nice man for a few years. Ted and I were the same age. That was a nice story of his life.
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
   Not many people can say they have a rich Uncle, but I could. That was fun to say, everyday. Because he was so innovative at a young age, my mom would tell me how successful he was.
   Uncle Ted was even richer in personality. He was kind and fun loving. When I was a kid he would come to visit us in California and spend some time with my brothers and I. When we visited Ohio, he took us
to the park.
   When I got married at age 16, My Uncle came to my wedding. At the reception he spiked all the punch with champagne! We all enjoyed that. On one of his visits he helped my husband and I move from one
apartment to another. Then he bought us all icecream.
   He had a very special bond with his sister, my mom. She loved to have him come to CA and she loved to visit him in Ohio. She always experienced a warm welcome from her brother and her nieces Luann and Lynne and their families. They had fun things planned for her stay.
   We had an amazing family reunion in Ohio in ‘89. Uncle Ted put us all up in a very nice hotel and rented a van to take us all around town. It was so great to see everyone, our old home, and the town and river. When it was time to fly out, I got the departure time wrong and he had to speed to get us to the airport on time. He wasn’t upset at all.
   In ‘98, he helped give my mom her 80th birthday party at the Welk Center in CA. That was such a wonderful surprise for my mom - to have a big party and with some of her Ohio family flying out to be there! What a kind brother she had.
   My Uncle Ted was very generous. He gave my mom a monetary gift every year for several years, which made her feel secure in her retirement years. Because of his help she was able to stay at her property and then pass it on to her children. That made it possible for me to buy my own home.
   My Uncle Ted was very generous to me as well. He gifted my brothers and I a couple of times. One of those times it paid for an operation, that if we hadn’t gotten, my youngest son wouldn’t have been born! I’m not exagerating!
   In my middle aged years I was a single mom and at one point I was about to lose my house to a property tax sale. My Uncle loaned me the money to pay it. Then he forgave the loan.
   We emailed back and forth and I really enjoyed his jokes and dry sense of humor. His kindness and generosity really affected my life. I was so blessed to know him as my dear Uncle Ted.
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
When we grandkids were little we all performed in a family directed documentary about the founding of TJB Couplers. Somewhere this footage still exists, and while needless to say the acting wasn't great, I'm still thankful to have taken part in honoring an incredible man for one of his greatest life achievements. TJB was also the topic of a fifth grade research report that I vaguely remember. I'm sure at the time that I didn't fully comprehend just how remarkable his achievements were, but I know I've always admired and looked up to grandpa for his passion and work ethic displayed in his business.

Despite his many accomplishments and success, grandpa remained a humble man enjoying a simple life. I'll always remember his regular attire of khaki colored jumpsuits, and him driving the hell out of that old wood paneled station wagon for as long as my memory goes back. The jumpsuits would probably be a bold fashion statement today, and he did eventually replace that Oldsmobile once he discovered that benefits of a modern luxury sedan, but all told he was a very 'no frills' kind of man who always put his family's well-being before all else.

Grandpa had a brilliant mind that was always turning, even into his old age; he was a man of few words, but when he did speak you would listen, because it was always full of insight and intelligence. Ted was a warm and caring person, and I know I'll miss him dearly. But I'll take solace knowing that he lived a full life and left an indelible mark on his family, friends, and undeniably the world at large.
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
Tom and I were so sorry to hear about Ted’s passing. He was the BEST neighbor ever! An inspiration to all who knew him, to always be kind. Shortly after we moved across the street from him, he stopped over to ask Tom what shift he was working, as he didn’t want to mow his lawn if Tom was trying to sleep! Rita and Ted also told us that if the blue flag was flying on the garage, then it was ok for neighbors to use their pool. We will tell you that our young boys always knew when the flag was out and were disappointed if we didn’t go over to use it! Ted and Rita often sat on the back patio with us while the boys swam in the pool. Ted never used the pool, but kept it open for the neighbors even after Rita passed away. Ted could fix anything! And was always willing to help with lawn mowers or snow blowers. We all had a good laugh when Ted and Tom couldn’t fix the rope pull on our rototiller, but I was able to do it with a crochet hook.... Ted always seemed to have the latest gadgets....computers, huge satellite dish in the back yard. When Ted no longer wanted to take care of the pool, he offered it to each neighbor. Ted was also known for giving out York Peppermint Patties to everyone he encountered. He continued to pass out the mints to the staff and residents at the Gardens. At the Gardens, he was known as “the candy man”. His kindness was never ending. He will be in our hearts forever.
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
Lynne, our sincere condolences. Your dad was a great man. Dan and I were just speaking fondly of him this past Sunday. I know how much you will miss him and there are no words to relieve that heart ache.
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
Dear Lynne,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. I loved hearing stories about him. I remember you telling me he liked to pass out Peppermint Patties to the staff at his assisted living facility. Hugs to you, Bill, Steve, Darla, and your entire family.
Jean and Bill
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
To our Dad,
Thank you.
Thank you for loving us so much.
Thank you for the wonderful life you gave us.
Thanks for teaching us the value of hard work.
Thank you for making us laugh with your silly puns and jokes.
Thank you for your opinions on the news and politics.
Thank you for our weekly family dinners and lunches.
Thank you for marrying our mother.
Thank you for putting up with all the tech products I introduced to you when you really didn't feel any need for them.
Thank you for getting so good with video on the computer, which allowed us to communicate with you during this awful covid year.  
Thank you for giving me the best sister in the world.
Thank you for learning to use the two cell phones you had so we could reach you.
Thank you for loving our children and providing for their education.
Thank you for putting up with a pool in your yard just to entertain your grandchildren.
Thank you for offering advice when asked for, but also for being non-interfering.
Thank you for sticking around as long as you did...we loved every minute of it...
We love you so much, and will never forget you.
January 19, 2021
January 19, 2021
For all the reasons we have talked about over the years Ted played a very big role in our lives. He was always kind and sweet, and a great neighbor. He was such an influence on us all - beginning with when Ted was over 70 years old and snow blowing our driveway when we first moved in, the kids in the pool, feeding the dogs, and of course your families final generous act of letting our kids have the opportunity to buy the house when Ted moved out. Our thoughts are with you and the rest of your family - I'm glad you could spend time with him at the end. A pretty darn full life I would say!

I know Kate and Jeff think of Ted and your families often as they may change some nails and paint, but keep all the love that shines from Ted and the rest of you. I feel his presence in that house.

God bless Ted and you all. I suspect that after Ted gets settled in heaven, Duke and Ella will find him and visit daily for a treat and some pats on the head. I wish I were there to see that.

Love

Stu and Korby.

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January 18
January 18
Dad, we miss you and Mom so much.. Wanted you to know that I sold Hilton Head (and a good deal too!), that Lisa now has 4 children, and Sarah has one! Sarah has moved to Va. and is close to Lisa, Michael is being a great ATC although they are all terribly unhappy and working so much, and Brian has a wonderful girlfriend, Laura . And Lynne and Bill now have a house in Columbus near her kids, and Eric has a baby also. And on a sad note, looks like it might be a Biden-Trump matchup again....you would have hated it! 
October 25, 2021
October 25, 2021
Dear family,
Thank you so much for sharing these wonderful memories. As Lisa mentioned I remember going to dinners and swimming and each time was such a treat with all of you. We were all so very fortunate to have family that showed they cared for all of us so much. Much love to you all. ❤
February 17, 2021
February 17, 2021
Ted would come into Herb’s Tavern right when breakfast stopped and lunch started. When I was running the line in the kitchen, I knew what time it was when Ted’s first Herb Burger of the day would come thru on my printer. Breakfast was over. Lunch began.
He always had a smile for everyone, and of course , his Peppermint Patties.
Such a kind man. We all were happy when we saw him every week. He always had a pep in his step.
He is missed , but gave us great memories.
Kim Berry and staff.
His Life

97 years in a nutshell....

January 20, 2021
This is all based on my memory of stories I have been told, please send me corrections and additions!  I know I have lots of other notes somewhere else, and I will add to it as I find them.  

Ted was born to Joseph Brenner and Anna Meunsch (sp?) on Oct 27, 1923 in Cleveland Heights, Ohio.  His Dad was a tinner/roofer, his Mom was a homemaker.  His Mom came to the United States from what was then called Transylvania when she was 19, to visit her Uncle.   World War I broke out and she never returned home and I don't think she ever saw her German family again.  When in Cleveland she met Joseph Brenner and they settled into life together.  According to Ted's older sister Emma, Joseph was born in Transylvania also, but I do not think they met until they were in the United States. They were married in Canton, Ohio in 1916.  Joseph died in 1953 at age 63.  Anna died around 1969.  
Ted had a normal kid's life, graduated from Shaw High School.   During the depression (around 1930-31 ) they moved out of their house (3383 Lownesdale Road in Cleveland Heights) and rented a house on Lonsdale (14601 Strathmore in East Cleveland), and rented their own house out.  His mother opened a restaurant, cooking many foods, including German dishes, during this time to keep the family afloat.  It was during this time when they lived in the rented house that he lived next door to Rita Eileen Mcshane (14605 Strathmore).  Rita was 4 years younger, but Ted was good friends with her older brother Mac. After the depression, they moved back to their house on Strathmore, but he never forgot Rita or her brothers!

Upon graduating from high school in June 1941, he went to work for Cleveland Trencher running one of the machines.  With the beginning of WWII, he elected to enlist in the Navy for 4 years to avoid being drafted.  They sent him around the country for training on repairing the 'computers' that ran the gunfire controls--it was very complicated machinery.  At first, he was stationed at the Great Lakes training basin for about 4 months.  Then he was moved to Long Island for 3 months to work with Ford instrument, one of the companies that made the equipment for the Navy.  At one point he was also stationed in Norfolk, Va for a couple of months, and then in the Aleutian Islands off the northern point of Alaska.  He remembers that there was lots of flu when they were there and they had to stay far away from each other--similar to the corvid-19 issues we are dealing with today.  The destroyer tender he was stationed on was an old WWI cargo ship reconditioned as a tender, with one big gun just to be impressive.  Their sleeping bunks were 4-5 bunks high.  He never saw gunfire the whole time he was in the Navy.  After being discharged, he came back to Cleveland and resumed work life.  

Aug 27, 1949 he married Rita McShane.  Rita's mother was very ill with lupus at the time of the wedding, and came to the wedding on a stretcher.  She died shortly after, on October 23, 1949.  They went to Niagara Falls for their honeymoon.  Ted remembers getting a bad cold while he was on the honeymoon.

In August 1950 Grandpa Brenner died, so they moved in with Grandma Brenner.  Rita's Dad, Grandpa McShane, also moved with them.  In August 1952 Grandma Brenner sold her house and moved in with her daughter, Emma.  Ted and Rita then purchased their first house at 14401 Broxton Road in West Park.
In January 1953 they took the first of many foster kids.    First they had 4 girls, all children of Goldie Dietz.  They were JoAnn, Judy, Linda and Donna.  At one point, Rita and Ted wanted to adopt two of the girls, but Goldie would not allow them to be adopted.  They returned to their mother in January 1954 and lived in the projects in Cleveland near the airport.  Luann remembers going over there to visit. Then they had Billy in January 1954 while Rita was pregnant.    Luann was born October 10,1954, and Billy was adopted by another couple in December 1954. They also took in two more foster children, Mable and Chuck (emotionally disturbed) during 1955-1956.  

They moved to 1558 Prospect Ave. in Rocky River in April 1956 and lived there until 1968.    They subsequently had 2 more children, Lynne Renee born May 14, 1957 and Stephen Karl born June 20, 1958.    

In February, 1968 they moved to 2775 West Asplin Drive in Rocky River, where Ted lived for almost 50 years (short just a few days).  



TJB Inc

January 20, 2021
In 1950 Ted was working for the General Electric Company in the wire and cable division doing inside sales.  The district specialist was Frances Calvert.  Calvert was an inventor of sorts and was always developing side businesses.  At this time he had a small business making aluminum fittings to fit with the GE cable.  Although GE was making a percentage of his sales, they finally said that he had to decide which business he was going to pursue.  Ted admired Mr. Calvert very very much and always spoke very highly of him.  

Calvert had an acquaintance, Mr. Miller, who was president of American Monorail.  He formed a group of investors to purchase the company from Mr. Calvert--the investors were Pische, Lore, and Miller (PLM).  Mr. Miller became president, the other two were not very involved in the business.  Understood in the deal was that Ted would go along to work in the new company.  The new company began in a garage off of W. 25th street.  Ray Horrocks, a pattern maker, was a fishing friend of Lore's and he became general manager.  He was older than Ted, but I remember having them over to our house at times.  Ray and Ted were the two main guys, working nights and Saturdays because Ted was still working for GE at this time.  While he was working for GE Ted was going to night school for electrical engineering, but he had to stop once he started working for PLM also.  I remember Mom saying that Dad always felt a bit inadequate compared to some of his customers because he never finished college.  

After about a year PLM built a building on W. 150th street.  By this time Ted had left GE and was working for PLM full time.  The two of them had pretty much full rein of the company to do what they felt necessary, and under them, the company's splicing kit business grew and grew.  GE came to them in 1957 and asked them to develop a coupler.  They had their own 5000V metal-enclosed coupler, but it was too large and unwieldy.  Ted did the original design and developed the coupler as we know it today. 

In 1967, the owners of PLM gratefully sold Ray and Ted a small portion of the PLM stock.  When the company was sold to Scott and Fetzer in 1968, this gave Ted a little nest egg to begin TJB>  The new S&F management was typically interfering, and unwilling to put more money into new designs.  They required budgets and other short term planning tools that were unfamiliar to Ray and Ted.  Ray had been made president of PLM, but Ted felt that he should have been.  All things put together, Ted felt the time was right to go off on his own.  

So in 1970 Ted quit and began TJB.
It started in the basement of their home at 2775 West Asplin Drive.  He worked there for about a year, then located a Quonset hut on Ingersoll Drive in Rocky River to begin the operations.  At first, it was just an assembly operation, but eventually, they started to produce some of their own parts.  
They subsequently moved to a building next door, where there was coincidentally another Mr. Miller--an old businessman that had an office on the same floor with a beautiful rolltop desk.  The same Mr. Calvert who had given the PLM its start owned a business across the street on Ingersoll Drive and Ted would see him occasionally.  Rita played an important role, and began working full time with TJB once all the kids were out of school.

In 1975 they purchased the LeBlond lathe and were on their way.  Steve and Jeff Tabor were already working for them, and still work there today.

In 1980 Ted purchased the building on Liberty Parkway in North Ridgeville where they are located today. It has always been profitable, although Luann remembers Mom scrimping during the initial years when TJB was just getting started.   Ted retired from active management of TJB around 1990, and turned the business over to his son Steve.  Steve ran the company until 2018 when he turned active management over to DJ Fiske, Ted's grandson.

The Later years

January 20, 2021
Ted retired from TJB around 1990, I remember him telling me it just wasn't fun anymore.  He did not like the travel and felt it was time to retire.  
Ted had always been very healthy, never been in the hospital or had any other issues.  He did get shingles on his face sometime between 1990 and 1995--I remember it was very painful.  They had a pool at their house for many years, Ted would always go out and clean it, but we don't remember him ever getting in the pool.  In fact, I don't remember EVERY seeing my Dad in a pair of shorts.  
He also got Paget's disease during this time, which affected his leg and bowed it and it was painful ever after.  
Rita passed away suddenly on July 3, 1995, when Ted was still on crutches.  Luann and Lynne remember getting meals on wheels for him since we had little kids and did not cook any of the foods that Dad liked.  He didn't think the meals were too good!  He eventually got off his crutches and developed a routine of going out to eat every day for lunch and sometimes dinners. 
He would take the family out once a week for family dinner.  Often times it was Michael's restaurant in Rocky River.  Anyone that was in town would attend.  Eventually, it switched to a weekly family lunch, but he still went out to lunch and often dinner almost every day, he just didn't think it was worth cooking for himself. . He certainly could have learned--he learned to do his wash, be proficient at the computer, he just didn't want to.   

Christmas, 2017 Dad called and said he had extreme pain in his leg and couldn't manage to get up his stairs.  We took him to the emergency We moved a bed downstairs for him, but after a month of sponge baths, he understood that he couldn't stay in his current home.  The end of January, he moved to his new home at the Gardens at Westlake.  He had an apartment with a patio where he fed peanuts to the birds every day, 3 meals a day, (although we took him out for lunch almost every day), and a private dining room where we had occasional family dinners when we didn't go out.  He didn't require any services other than putting on those annoying TED socks, and he had a wonderful reclining chair that he sat in 16 hours a day...

2020--Covid struck, and we were all quarantined.  Like everyone else, his visits outside were extremely curtailed after March 31, 2020, except for occasional visits to the doctor and sometimes to sit outside with us on nice days.  His last excursion was to Luann's house in October to celebrate her birthday (and his) on a beautiful day, when we sat outside.  Thank you Lynne for the wonderful suggestion to get him out that day!  
He was content to stay in the gardens, didn't want to violate their rules, and one of the good benefits of Covid was that he was able to eat his meals in his room.  Because he was so hard of hearing, he didn't enjoy eating in the main dining room because he couldn't hear the conversation, and he didn't want people to think he was rude.  He had hearing aids, but he often still had trouble picking up many sounds.  Up until the end, he was able to log into his computer and manage a video call with Luann and Lynne.  

On Dec 17, 2020, he tested positive for Covid 19, but appeared asymtomatic.  On Dec 23 he fell and was quite confused.  He was taken to the hospital but returned home because they found nothing wrong.  On Dec 25, he again fell, and was very confused.  He again went to St. John's hospital, where they kept him for serveral days because of a case of pneumonia, upon which he was transferred to Westlake Village for skilled nursing for Physical Therapy. While he seemed to recover from the Covid 19 virus, at some point he contracted C-diff, a severe infection that made him miserable and was hard on his body, as was the antibiotic.  

Luann and Lynne were given compassionate care visits, and we were allowed to go in and visit him every day, which was wonderful--more than we have seen him in the prior 8 months. Although very sleepy, when awake he was still of very sound mind and still making jokes until the end.  He called us both the evening of Jan 17 and talked, then also called Luann the morning of Jan 18.  We discussed that he would go back to the Gardens the next day.  They got him up for Physical therapy that morning, and his heart gave out.  Fast and hopefully painless, just the way he wanted.  
Recent stories

Ted's "word's to live by"

February 15, 2021
A couple of things I have found among Ted's papers, apparently adages he felt true enough to write down and hold onto:

Expenses may soar and income decline
And profits be less than inspired,
But one thing at least when
you run your own shop,
No one can say "You're fired"!

And Ted loved to read his magazines while eating out, and he saved this:
On reading while dining out, (instead of having company):  A book does not make bad jokes, drink too much or eat more than you can afford to pay for.




Best Uncle

January 22, 2021
     My oldest memory of Uncle Ted is from one of his visits to our house in Anaheim. He stayed about a week. I had built a go-cart out of scrap parts which he showed a keen interest in, asking questions and giving suggestions. I was extremely upset when he left.

     When I was living and working in San Francisco, he gave me a call and said he was in town at the Fairmont Hotel and could I meet him for a cocktail? We went to the bar at the top floor and started to go in. Some little twerp said I couldn’t go in without a suit coat. I was about to give him my thoughts, when Ted casually said to him, “surely you must have something in that closet that will fit him. He did, and we had a nice evening.

     I went to Wooster Ohio on a business trip. I called Ted and he and Steve drove down to meet me. We mostly talked engineering and design. Steve explained a new seal material and design he had come up with for the connectors.  When I looked at Ted I could tell he was very proud of his son, and what he had accomplished with the business.

     He could be very straight talking, man to man. When I told him I had been fired from a job for being a little too honest with the company owner, he said, “why didn’t you just keep your mouth shut, and do your job? Good advice.

     We used money Ted sent us to buy 120 acres of remote woods, 30 years ago. I asked him how I could thank him and he said name the creek after me. I said well it already has a name. He said well if it’s on your property you can call it anything you want. So I carved a sign that say’s Brenner Creek, and nailed to a tree, where it still remains.  On a large knoll where we built our cabin, there was a huge oak tree, about 80 feet tall and 100 feet in diameter. Shortly after Ted’s sister, my mom died, it split in two and one half fell and one half remained alive.  Last Monday night we had a once in 75 year wind event. The other half broke off at the ground and fell.  The tree is no more.

     Although he is gone, I will always remember the influence he had on our lives, and the way he dealt with life’s tribulations, calmly with forethought.  He was my only Uncle and the best one I could hope for.

Tim Wennberg 

In Memory of Ted

January 22, 2021
Theodore Joseph Brenner       Born: 10/27/1923  Passed: 01/18/2021
Theodore J. Brenner (Ted) passed away on January 18, 2021, at age 97 after a short illness.  
He is preceded in death by his wife, Rita E. Brenner (nee McShane).

He is survived by his children  Luann, Lynne (Fiske), and Steve, his grandchildren Julie, D.J., Eric, Lisa, Sarah, Michael, and Brian, and his great-grandchildren Ethan, Matthew, Jacob, Isabelle,  Madison, and baby Fiske (May 2021) and his nieces and nephews Caren and Warren, Jeff,Bryan (dec.) and Cynthia, Pat, Jack, and Tim.

 Founder of TJB Inc, a mining equipment manufacturer located in North Ridgeville, Ohio, he devoted his life to his family and his business.  Known to many only as the MINT MAN, for the last 20 years he has given York peppermint patties to all that he encountered, especially those in restaurants and people that held doors for him. We thank the staff at White Oaks, Herbs Tavern, Michael's restaurant, Bob Evans, Baker's Square, and Cafe Stratos for the many wonderful meals we shared there with Ted over the years.   He derived great pleasure from surprising strangers with his treats. When he moved to his most recent home at The Gardens at Westlake he freely distributed mints and other candy to all his neighbors and the staff.  Thank you so much to the wonderful staff at the Gardens for making his last three years there feel like home.  He will be missed by all for his sense of humor, his generosity, and his sage advice. There will be no services, but please leave your memories of him on our memory page at forevermissed.com/theodore-joseph-brenner.


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