We've lost a rare Gem in Madam Shola Bero

Losing someone we care about deeply is never easy, and my heart goes out to your loved ones during this difficult time.

While we may never fully understand why certain things happen, we can take comfort in knowing that your loved one will always hold a special place in your heart.

Madam Shola will be remembered for the joy, love, and kindness she brought into the world, and the memories we shared together will live on forever.

May we find peace and comfort in the memories you shared while working together.

Rest well in eternal peace.

Hmnn, Ms Adeshola Adeyemi-Bero; an intelligent, insightful, intuitive, inspirational, intentional, independent and indefatigable spirit. You positively impacted me in many ways and I will always fondly remember the platform you provided at your law firm RA Adeyemi-Bero, on Oweh Street. A short stint I had as a lawyer at the firm, but it was a timely, sincere, enriching and life rewarding experience. Thank you for the rare privilege, patience, possibilities and purpose shared. You live on.

Dear Aunty, I know you will be reading this message, I am very saddened by your passing. I can fondly recall your kindness right from when I was very young when my sisters and I would regularly visit you at your house when I was younger, with my sisters, and you always making cakes for us as well as sending them to us at home. Just recently in February, we spoke on the phone and you spoke about how it was a pleasure to hear my voice and how we needed to see each other and how excited you’d be for this to happen. Unfortunately, this never got to happen, as sad as your passing is, I know that you are in a better place watching over us. Rest easy aunty.

  Fare Thee Well, Shola.
S.B.,
I find your untimely passing as bewildering as it is heartrendering. Our denerian days at boarding school on the Isle of Wight don’t seem all that long ago; yet, save in dreams or in implausible phantom apparitions, the sight of Shola, my dear friend of 45years, I shan’t ever once more behold, for she’s gone; gone to a place where ‘age shall neither weary her, nor the years condemn.’
Shola, my heart is heavy as I bid (you) adieu.
May your immortal soul find eternal peace.
Segun Fowowe.

My Dearest Shola,

You were an extremely rare and extraordinary gem whose outstanding personality mirrored your deep exemplary Christian faith.
You led such an amazing and impactful life, touching so many lives with your legendary kindness...
Without a doubt, you're certainly resting on the bosom of your beloved Maker.
Your shocking and untimely passing is a huge loss, and you will be dearly missed by those of us who love you very much.
Our departed loved ones are continually around us in beautiful spirits all the rest of our days till we all meet again in eternity.
Aaaaah! Sholly B!! Sunre ooo
Continue to rest in perfect peace until we meet again...
O DIGBA OOO

My Dearest Aunty Shola,

You were an extraordinary person, one of the kindest and most incredible individuals I've ever had the privilege to know. The moments we spent at City Hall, engaged in deep and enjoyable conversations till the late hours, are etched in my mind. I have fond memories of how you would remind me to get your groundnuts, knowing how much you enjoyed having them with your "Garri Ijebu." lol. I miss you calling me every moment to say Tolu, I think we should do this or do that.

The memories we shared together are a priceless treasure that I will forever hold dear. Your selflessness, generosity, and your willingness to share your vision about FVHI have had a profound impact on my life. You not only served as a remarkable boss but also embraced the roles of a caring mother, a guiding mentor, and, above all, a true friend.

As I bid you farewell, my beautiful Aunty Shola, please know that your love and influence will remain with me always. I will forever cherish the times we spent together and the meaningful connection we shared.

Rest in peace, dear Aunty Shola. You will be deeply missed, and your memory will live on in my heart.

Tribute to Adeshola Adetokunbo Adeyemi - Bero - From OGQC Class of 77

Ladies and Gentlemen,

Today, we gather with heavy hearts to bid a solemn farewell to a remarkable lady, Adeshola Adetokunbo Rebekah Adeyemi-Bero. It is with great sorrow and fond memories that we honour the life and legacy of a person who has touched the lives of many in Lagos, Nigeria and left an indelible mark on this world.
In 1973, Shola was admitted into the prestigious Queens College Yaba, Lagos along with 59 other girls. Athletic, beautiful and intelligent are words that described her person, with her characteristic broad smile.
Even as a young girl in the boarding house, her warm and friendly personality did not go unnoticed. She had a special penchant for solving problems, providing a shoulder to lean on and playing the "big sister" role to those who were close. Shola was always ready to suggest the way out of knotty situations when called upon.
The bonds formed in QC remained unsevered as life took us through our individual journeys.
By the time the class of '73 converged a few decades after, via social media, it was clear that Shola was investing her time very meaningfully and had prioritised her relationship with God.
Shola was not only an exceptional individual but also a beacon of light in her chosen communities. Her unwavering dedication, unyielding spirit, and contagious optimism inspired all those fortunate enough to cross paths with her. Whether it was in the professional realm, in the causes that were so dear to her heart or within the folds of her friends and family, she displayed a rare combination of grace and resilience that was truly admirable.
Shola's compassionate nature shone through in every aspect of her life. She was a devoted family person, a loving and committed giver, and a caring friend. Her ability to bring people together, to bridge gaps, and to offer a listening ear made her the pillar of support that many relied upon during times of joy and sorrow. She was a mentor, a leader, and a friend to many, always eager to help and support others in need. She never sought the limelight and followed God's direction in her life in an unassuming and humble manner..
As we gather here to bid farewell, let us not mourn her passing, but celebrate the life she lived. Shola's spirit filled legacy is one of compassion, resilience, and unwavering dedication. Her values will continue to inspire us to be better, to do better, and to strive for excellence in all that we do.
In our hearts, she will forever remain alive, for memories of her warmth and kindness will never fade. Let us carry forward her torch, spreading the light of her legacy to illuminate the paths of those who come after us. In doing so, we ensure that Shola's impact on this world will continue to ripple through the lives she touched and the hearts she enriched. Let us honour her memory by living our lives with the same passion and purpose that she exemplified, knowing that she would wish nothing less for each one of us.
Today, we say our farewells with heavy hearts, but we also express our deepest gratitude for the privilege of having known such an extraordinary person. Adeshola Adetokunbo Rebekah Adeyemi-Bero, you will be missed, but your legacy will forever live on in the hearts of your Queens College, Yaba, Lagos Class of 77 sisters and all those who were lucky to have known you in life's sojourn..

Rest in eternal peace.

A TRIBUTE TO MY MY BOSS – MS. ADESHOLA ADETOKUNBO REBEKAH ADEYEMI -BERO
When death pulls us apart from someone we loved deeply, our hearts break. Late Ms. Adeshola Adetokunbo Rebekah Adeyemi -Bero, Founder and CEO of Fruitfulvine Healthcare Initiative-NGO founded in Feb 2018 with office at Lagos City hall 2nd floor east wing Catholic Mission Street.

A well trained lawyer by profession, a humanitarian /philanthropist in action /character. A mother, teacher, leader and the best boss ever, a prominent administrator who had nurtured several people who have stood out whenever they find themselves. I am a typical example of what I am saying right now.

A woman with a golden heart who set up her NGO to attend to healthcare needs of children (0-25yrs of age) from low income earning families and later extend to adult with primary chronic disorders such as hypertension. The 100% free provision of healthcare services continued until October 2020 when the ugly incidence of EndSars protest was hijacked which lead to the untimely closure of FRUITFULVINE HEALTHCARE INITIATIVE as the facility was burgled into and all its equipment and gadgets stolen by the protesters. Within the short time of operation, Fruitfulvine Healthcare Initiative had in total healthcare services rendered to the following clients in these categories; Outpatient:20,925; Ante natal:1,020; Immumization:851 and Family.planning:40.

Your skills, humor and personal strength have inspired me. I stand today as a testimony of your detribalised nature, you took everyone as your child, take skills and professionalism over tribe and religion. At work, you were a formidable leader and have motivated me to face challenges head-on. You had made me a better person today, now I face the future with confidence and strength.

To your family, friends and well-wishers, it is never easy to lose someone you love and face uncertainty in life because of the sense of loss. I send my condolences to you and wish you peace despite your sorrow. When grief hits us, we feel as though we are on shaky ground. But I know that you will be steadied as you go through this challenging season.

May the good lord grant our Boss, Ms. Adeshola Adetokunbo Rebekah Adeyemi –Bero, eternal rest in her kingdom, until we meet again at the resurrection day?

Adieu Adieu Great Leader, Adeiu Wonderful Boss.

Courtesy
JOHNPAUL IFENNA CHIGBO

Dearest Sola, to say I was stunned is an understatement. Real shame, so many things we discussed and agreed to meet to further, unfortunately that didn’t happen. It was always a pleasure to speak with you, unfortunately this didn’t happen often enough. You had so much you wanted to do. Trust you are now at rest. May the Lord envelop you with his love, and may he uphold your loved ones in this time of grief, as they will surely be sore with your loss. My condolences Adewunmi, Ademola & all others dear to you. May the Lord grant you all the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss of a wonderful soul. I remember her pet project on Medical, for the indigent at City Hall, I recall her fondly mentioning her unending disturbances of her brother Ademola who supported the project wholeheartedly. May the Lord support you all in all your endeavors.
Eternal rest grant unto Sola O Lord and let light perpetual shine upon her. Amen.

Dear Shola,
Dear sister and friend this is a great shock to me and my entire family. We were so close, remember the days when we loved so close to each other.
You were beautiful, bright and loving. Like a candle in the wind you are gone too soon, but we accept that God knows best. We miss you; rest in perfect eternal peace Amen .

My “Angel” sister…. I was completely shocked when I heard of your passing. You were still texting (condoling) me when I told you about my mum’s demise not knowing you were in the ICU!!! It’s only you that will do such a thing. You stood by me and “saved” me from the Lion’s den. Those who know, know. Thank you for being part of my life. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace Amen .

Dear Aunty Shola,

This is quite a shock. My your soul rest in peace. You will be dearly missed.

Kemi Babalola

Dearest Shola,aunty Shols,
When I sent that message that I was waiting to hear your voice,I was indeed very hopeful then I got the blow I still haven't been able to recover from..a BIG blow Shola
You were a true and Godly friend.You said it as it was,a woman of strong character, great wisdom ,many skills and great compassion.You loved and served the Lord,you fed and treated the poor and you cared for your family.You were the master organiser of the Adeyemi Bero Family .You have left a huge vacuum in our lives.
You maintained your dignity till the very end.
I know you're in a better place and the angels are rejoicing at your arrival.hallelujah!

Thank you for all the love shown to my daughter making her feel extra special.

'Many daughters have done virtuosly but thou excellest them all' PRov 31:29

Goodnite Shola, oremi atata

Bimbo Sofeso

TRIBUTE TO SOLA ADEYEMI-BERO.

I knew her as one of my neighbors. She was elegant and beautiful. Time revealed that she was very intelligent, sensitive, deep, very respectful, kind, generous, liked to gist and was fun to be with. We spent a number of evenings together at Cowry Creek talking about life in general.

She was in love with God, her hope in Christ was firm and her hope for the best treasure of all- eternal life with Christ was unwavering.

She was obsessive with sharing testimonies about the wonder of God’s love and power, drawing examples from the Bible, her social and personal life.

She was a gem to the discerning, beautiful inside out.

No doubt that she is now with her maker, her passing is a gain for heaven and a deep irreplaceable loss to all who knew and loved her.

Dear Sola, beloved child of God, rest on, perfect rest in the bossom of Jesus Christ, your Friend and Redeemer.

Mrs Olufunke Osotimehin.

Shola and I met at QC in 1973, “our class beauty queen”. She was loving, kind and addictive - her smile was addictive, her enthusiasm was addictive, her manner was addictive, her energy was addictive …. she was “foot loose and fancy free”., elegant …. Intelligent…
Shola was an angel passing by …. It is obvious through her life’s journey she cared for others and her service to humanity testifies to her love of God.
May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
Shola, you are in a better place; in the arms of your maker. Sleep on till we meet at the feet of Jesus…. Forever in our hearts

Folake

It's still nightmarish to me that Shola, popularly known as Sister Becky within our ranks is no more. The news of her passing I dreaded to receive until the reality was no longer a fiction. It's hard to accept the fact that someone I had consistently shared pleasantries for almost three decades of life has ascended the ladder of fate to the great beyond and on a journey of of no return. Is it your subtle smiles, your gentle touch, your harmless expressions or kind gestures that I should reminisce about or your honesty, your firmness without hurting, your resolve to do things right and friendly disposition to all and sundry would I mention. You never looked down on anyone despite your educational and professional advantage as you gave due recognition and honor to everyone that crossed your path. Your passage has created an unbridgeable vacuum and indelible scar in the hearts of your associates, friends and families of which I am one. I believe we shall meet again at the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ, whom you loved and served until your last breath. Adieu Shola. Sleep well until we meet again.

Dear Shola…

The numerous tributes written about you says it all! You made an impact and many fortunate enough to have interacted with can testify to that.
Life can be so transient, so short and even sometimes so fickle. We can only cling on to memories of time shared with you and try to focus on your laughter, your wit, your compassion, your faith, your kindness and everything else
that made you special in your own unique way.

RIP Shola…

Aunty Shols ! As we like to call her, was SIMPLY AMAZING.

Dayo met her first, when he moved back from school in the Uk into Cowry Creek in Ikoyi. Her doors were ALWAYS open.

Taiwo later met her when she moved back from school in the UK into same Cowrie Creek.

Looking back now, it was all providence. She was that Egbon we both so very much needed !

In our early legal careers, she provided guidance. When we decided to get married, she was pivotal to ensuring our plans went as seamlessly as possible. From helping to vet the wedding invites to the quality of the aso ebi. And she knew EVERYBODY so would point you in the direction for everything and say, ‘tell them Shola sent you’.

For me, (Taiwo) moving to Lagos was a bit of a culture shock. Especially having met people at work who in their relations were so very different from what I was used to. Aunty Shola however grounded me ! She was truly a breath of fresh air. And ever so different from people I’d met in my short time in Lagos. She was confident in herself to where she recognised and treated you as an Aburo and she was solidly grounded in Christ. Always reminding you to take it back to the cross and leave it there.

When both our parents passed (Prof Jadesola Akande and later Prof Babatunde Osotimehin), aunty Sola was the first on the scene, providing a great deal of comfort and guidance.

Indeed, when Prof JADESOLA Akande passed, her doors were open to the Akande’s guests and her home became in that instant an extension of the Akandes. That was the Aunty Shola we knew.

Simple, selfless, nurturing, ever PRESENT, prayerful.

Words fail us and our hearts are broken ! We are however comforted by her love of Christ and the knowledge of the fact that she is now resting with her saviour whom she loved so very much.

Aunty Shola, we love you forever. And you will be in our hearts eternally.

Rest in perfect peace.

Taiwo & Dayo Debo-Akande.

It was with a rude shock that I received the news of the passing into glory of Shola, as this was totally unexpected. It has been very difficult coming to terms with the fact that she is no more.

Shola should have been the one writing a tribute for me being some years older than her. But we cannot dare to question our Creator because He knows best and He has his reasons. May His name be glorified.

Shola was a kind soul, generous, honest, very intelligent and hard working. Through these qualities, she touched many lives! She lived a purposeful life even though we wished it was longer. She loved her God, a strong believer, a true Christian and versed in the word of God, which she endeavoured to live by. She loved her neighbour as commanded by the Almighty and her love for the needy was legendary. She spent her time and resources in bringing succour to the poor in our midst with so much love. It was never enough, she always had to do more.

The curtains are down, and the good Lord in His infinite mercy has called you home. The scripture says blessed are the merciful for they will be shown mercy. I pray that our good Father will receive your soul into His bossom and grant you eternal rest, in the mighty name of Jesus.

Fare thee well!
'Leke Dina

Sis Sola's passing was rude shock but God knows best. He knows us from the end to the beginning.

My attention span for social media post is rather short, but I was unexplainably compelled to read Sis Timi Finnihs post about Sis Sola's demise. I was hoping I didn't know 'Sola mi's until I saw her photo....I was horrified and terribly saddened.

I met Sola about 40years ago from a deep desire to meet her as most people reckoned there was an uncanning resemblance between us.

When I finally met her I was awestruck. Tall, soft and well spoked, well mannered and elegant whilst I was .....em cute and petit . We would ask people if we looked alike and we were both excited about the thought. We maintained an amicable friendship. She always had a listening ear and always had some words of wisdom to impart.

We last spoke a few years ago where she told me about her bakery and she gave me some confidential advice as I sought for business opportinies with First E & P Limited.

I will cherish your memory.

Sis Sola will be sorely missed and may her soul rest in perfect peace, Amen . I pray the Lord will strenghten her family in this difficult time, AMEN

I met Sis Sholz through my childhood friend, Kemi Alakija. Sis embraced me with open arms at the most challenging period of my life, before we even knew that our parents had a common circle of friends and associates.

Sis Sholz was very warm to me and integrated me into the fellowship in her house on Sunday evenings. This time of sharing the Word and spending quality time afterwards soon became the highlight of my week, and by extension that of my children’s. She embraced my children as her own. She loved her nieces, nephews and siblings, and proudly shared stories about them.

Sis Sholz was passionate about the Word and was the “hostess with the mostest” at the “Sunday Socials” around her dining table. She would bring out one delicacy after another to keep us entertained and well at home, often time until 2am/3am before we all start making our way home after spending nothing less than 12hours with her on such nights.

My Big Sis, a woman of great faith, an exceptional role model, a counsellor, a guardian, she meant so many things to my children and I. She guided me through that difficult journey, sharing from her wealth of experince and life journey, alongside prayers. She counselled, drawing real life analogies and intimate personal comparisons to encourage me that there is always a rainbow after the storm and light at the end of dark tunnels. As we made progress through this family journey, Sis Sholz celebrated my children and I at every given opportunity and was very much a part of going to my son's in-laws house on our first visit to ask for the bride’s hand in marriage for my son, who she fondly called her boyfriend. 

Sis Sholz was a bundle of energy, extremely focused, prayerful and selfless to a point that was difficult to fathom. She had no barriers for the old/young or for social class differences. She related with all. I fondly remember the trips to Makoko, City Hall, Falomo for plantains and oranges, supermarkets at wee hours of the night. “Je kaa sa re de Yaba,” always sounded like taking a quick dash to Awolowo Road from Parkview.

It has been so difficult to think of you as being gone. I have played our exchanges of voice notes over and over again and the thought that my Sis Sholz will no longer be at the other end of the telephone line is just so horrific to imagine.

I am consoled by the knowledge that you ran a good race and impacted numerous lives without measure. I celebrate all that you stood for and cannot thank you enough for the vital role that you played in my life and those of my sons and daughter. Memories of you will forever feature in my life story and your foot prints will forever remain engraved in the sands of time. You were an angel sent to accomplish mighty missions.

My Big Sis, Adeshola Rebekah Adeyemi-Bero, may you find eternal rest in the bosom of your Lord and Maker, who you served diligently and represented well here on earth. I will forever miss you.

Your darling aburo,
Moyo Seriki-Ajijedidun

Shola,
You had a heart of gold
Well done! Good and faithful servant.
Tayo

Dear Shola,

You were such a beautiful, gentle soul, soft spoken lover of God and always positive. I can't believe you are gone. We communicated in May..Was that your good bye? I am comforted by the fact that you are resting in God's bosom. You gave your best. Rest in perfect peace

I never imagined having to write these words. I couldn't have been more shocked to hear about your passing. I've struggled to come to terms with the news, and writing a tribute makes it feel real, in as much as I would love for things to be otherwise.

My Aunty Sola was there for me through thick and thin. Growing up, I remember spending hours on end at your house, waiting for your gist session with my mum to end. Little did I know at the time that one day, I would be the one spending hours gisting with you.

Thank you so much for being more than an aunt to me. Words can never express how much gratitude I have for the positive influence, guidance and investment you made in my life. I will really miss you aunty. We've all lost an angel here on earth but gained another one in heaven.

Until we meet again. Rest in peace, Aunty Sola.

CJ

Aunty shola, it is hard to believe that the angels have taken you home at a time we least expected. You were more than just an aunty, you were a guiding light, a mentor, and a friend to my mums. Your warm and embracing nature made everyone feel welcomed and valued. In your company, I learned the true meaning of fellowship,l connecting with others on a soulful level, embracing their differences, and celebrating the common ground that unites us all. You taught me that love knows no boundaries and that genuine connections are the true treasures in this world. We hardly take in the fact that your sudden demise has unexpectedly terminated the moments we enjoyed with you. She was a cheerful, loving lady who was full of life. Her smile could light up a room and it was infectious. She made everyone around her happy. Whether it was a funny joke, her positive attitude, or her big smile, she was a delight to be around. Today, as I mourn your passing, I find solace in cherishing the beautiful memories we shared and the profound impact you had on my life. Our shared love for sweet things brought us together on countless occasions.Those moments of laughter and indulgence remain etched in my heart. But beyond our shared love for desserts, you nourished my spiritual appetite as well. Together, we delved into the pages of the Bible, uncovering its timeless wisdom and finding comfort in its verses. You were a beacon of faith, and your unwavering belief in God's love and grace inspired me to deepen my own spiritual journey. May your soul, rest in perfect peace, knowing that you've left an everlasting legacy of love and fellowship. Until we meet again, I will hold you close in my heart and continue to honor your memory by spreading kindness, just as you taught .
With all my love and gratitude,
Moyo

In Loving Memory: A Tribute to My Dearest Friend

Today, I gather my thoughts and summon every ounce of strength within me to pay tribute to a woman who has been pillar of strength for some five decades.

As the tears flow, I find solace in the memories we created together and the profound relationship we shared.

This is not a farewell but a celebration of the beautiful soul that you were.
As young girls innocent and full of dreams, our laughter echoed through the boarding school rooms and halls, when we visited each other and our secrets were whispered with giggles!

Time is but a gentle breeze.
We were invincible, believing that nothing could ever separate us.

Little did we know that life's twists and turns would test the strength of our bond, revealing its unyielding nature.

Through the years, we shared countless triumphs and weathered storms side by side.
Your unwavering support and unconditional love was always uplifting.
Your infectious laughter, infused joy into every corner of our existence.
We celebrated each other's victories with unbridled enthusiasm. 

You were always first to offer a comforting embrace when life dealt its inevitable blows.
The incredible power of friendship was tested but we weathered all.

As the years have passed, we navigated the trials and found solace in our shared experiences, supporting each other through the sleepless nights, 
Your wisdom and guidance were a gift, shaping the lives of those around you.

I know that in the face of the adversity, you'd fought valiantly, displaying unparalleled strength and unwavering determination.
We celebrate your courage!!
The flame of hope within us will be cherished.
This is a precious moment when we say adieu and find strength in the midst of this sorrow and despair.

Though your physical presence may no longer grace this earthly realm, your spirit lives on within each of us.
Your laughter continues to echo in our hearts, and your philanthropic work will linger in the memories of many.
My dear friend, as we bid you farewell in this earthly realm, we promise to honor your memory by living a life filled with the kindness, grace, and resilience that you exemplified.

Your unwavering spirit will guide your siblings hrough the dark nights, and your love wil remain with them.

Rest now, my dear Sholzzzzz!!!
Eternity has gained.

Though we mourn your absence, we take solace in knowing that you are in a better place. Until we meet again, sure o oremi you sure!

With all my love,
Pastor Toyin Matthews (T-Toyin)
Abuja

Dear “Sis Shola” as I fondly called you, l this was unexpected as you always displayed so much strength as well as empathy. I believe you had run your race as you committed yourself to helping the needy over the last few decades. You set up a foundation to assist those who needed medical attention but couldn’t afford it. You also did a lot of work for the Red Cross. You will be dearly missed. I hold on to the memories we shared at Olatunde Ayoola, Maduekwe street etc. You opened your office and home to me and would even allow me stay overnight in the office to type my final year project. You also helped me with introductions regarding my first job. I will always be grateful. I am comforted by the fact that you knew Christ and are in a better place. Sleep well Sis Shola……Sola Olubi

Tribute to My Sister

Dearest Sis Shols!!!
Where do I start from? I’m still not quite there yet,still grappling to put everything into perspective.
Lord ! Please make all these make sense!!!
The past two weeks since your homecalling has been so hard and so difficult to process.In my usual manner I have been zoning in and out of most conversations like one in a trance as I do whenever things get beyond me.
I recall like yesterday the very first time I met you on the Queen’s College corridor in 1975(48 years ago )and you immediately recruited me into the Beauty Pageant for incoming students.You wondered why I wasn’t already part of it…… little did I know you were grooming me for your very dear brother Ademola whom I got married to 18 years after.
You indeed were one of a kind;you always stood out amongst others in beauty,brains ,style and later in life spiritual maturity.
You were greatly admired and loved by many and like we would say in our usual Queen’s College parlance,a lot of the juniors ‘Fallad’ for you.
We became so close whilst Demola and I were dating and I was meant to be your chief bridesmaid at your wedding but was advised otherwise in the event Demola and I didn’t get married.
I remember your visits to us in America when we would stay up all night talking even to the early hours of the morning and Demola would return back from work and find us still talking and wonder what on earth we were discussing for so long.
We spoke about all and everything;the past,the present and the future and we helped each other grow spiritually…….the night vigils,the prayer sessions, the conferences.
I remember praying to God specifically to have a daughter that would look like you and we would joke about it and alas Derinsola came along as a result of answered prayers and was your carbon copy.
I can hear Daddy J.O’s voice even now as I write saying with so much pride each time he saw Derinsola ,‘Shola ni omo yi jo’ knowing how special you were to him and him wanting as many duplicates of his special Shola as possible.He used to marvel at it.
You were undoubtedly the Superintendent -in - charge of The Adeyemi-BERO family regardless of age,sex and status.You always took charge and would make sure everything was in place and we were all aligned to our different courses as the the case may be. In the family you dotted on every one ,and every detail never escaped your eye.You ensured all was in place.We all wonder now how we will cope without you Sis Sols! Help us Lord!!!.
It's been a whirlwind of emotions since your transition to greater glory.
Hmmm, life they say is a mystery but Ha!
My darling husband's twin gang. The love and bond you shared with your brother is without doubt.
You were a determined and passionate person in all that you did as evidenced in your charitable works on humanity.
I will miss your presence, words and strength thoroughly. I will miss you my Dear Sis Sols.
Thanks for taking Gbeminiyi and Derinsola as yours.Thank you for the wonderful times we had in the past.
You fought gallantly Dear Sister, but our Lord can never be questioned.
You have fought the good,worthy and noble fight;you have finished your race and kept the faith.
Do rest in the Lord's Glory, rejoice with God in service forever.

Sun re o.

Oluyemisi Adeyemi-Bero
(Sis-in-law)

Dear Sola,
I got to know you close up, when we were introduced by your dearest friend and sister, Oluwaseyi Adedoyin. I just loved you and your unique perspective on life.
We would have really amazing conversations. Your creativity and your giving nature inspire me.
You are an incredible person. Whenever you spoke about Demola and Yemisi’s children (your beloved Niece and Nephew) , your eyes would light up. You would be excited about arranging your outings with them. May the Lord strengthen your family and all your friends, granting all you have left behind His comfort and peace.
Rest in the peace of our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen 

Aima Lijadu

Shola will always hold a cherished place in my heart. She was my school mother at Queens College. Back in 1975, we shared a bunk in our Obasa House dormitory, with her on the bottom bunk and me above. She embraced me like a sister and took me under her wing. I remember being so proud to have this radiant and beautiful senior as my school mother and can never forget how incredibly kind and caring she was. Beyond our school years, we remained firm friends. I never stopped looking up to her.

Shola, we didn’t see each other often, but when we did, lively conversations and laughter ensued. I recall our long, late-night stroll through the neighborhood last year. We talked about everything and nothing and promised to meet up more often. You invited me to your brother Demola’s birthday party on polling day in February and I was struck by the family bond you all shared. Alas, we always assume we have more time.

Your unwavering faith in God was an inspiration, your consideration for the needs of others and your ability to see the best in people, a testament to your remarkable character. 

Adieu my dearest Shola. May you be carried on angel’s wings to heaven and may your kind and loving soul rest in perfect peace.

Yinka Ogunsulire

“ To live in the hearts of those we love is not to die” Shola, you have not died, you only just transited. You loved God so much and bravely, you fought a good fight, you kept the faith and I am certain that you have received your crown. Sleep on great friend and sister.

My tribute to a kind soul:

Our dearest Aunty Shola you will be missed. I am lost for words to describe your incredibly kind and gracious heart. You made an impact on every life you came across and your work here is done. We comfort ourselves knowing you are with our holy father and by Gods grace we will all be reunited one day. Although it doesn't make it easier as your presence was such a light in the lives of your loved ones we are missing and will miss you dearly. May your legacy live on and your gracious soul rest in Christ’s perfect peace. We loved you.

- Mosopefoluwa

Indeed we have all lost a gem but heaven has gained an Angel ! Shola my dear friend , confidante is gone . Sola was a silent achiever , a shadow government as she became the hands and feet of Christ in health , education and industry . Sola was an apostle in the market place , she loved Nigeria and as a member of Nation builders she prayed fervently for Nigeria . I was her sounding board when it came to the issues in Nigeria , she will call often and say Bolaji what is the lord saying about Nigeria, she sent chats to me several times before and during the last election and she will tell me what the lord was saying. She always heard clearly from the lord, she was very passionate about young people and often spoke to me about her desire to set up a tech and vocational school to equip young people with skills . She set up a health clinic and pharmacy in city hall one of the best clinics in Nigeria, all very techy and she used it to serve the poor. Saved many lives ! It was as if she knew time was short . At the same time she was a serial entrepreneur involved in real estate and manufacturing . A fantastic baker and cook and a very hospitable entertainer . Any time I visit i will stay for hours whilst Shola brought out all manners of delicacies . Shola started a Bible study a few years ago which I attended for years and I was astonished at her love for the word . She knew the Bible and she loved the word and lived it . She loved her family and her nieces and nephews and often spoke about them very fondly. She loved and lived a very full and impactful life very quietly . I celebrate a dear friend , a change agent , transformation agent , an apostle in the market place and above all a lover of God . As I conclude these are the scriptures I believe is most apt for Shola now .

““All who heard me praised me. All who saw me spoke well of me. For I assisted the poor in their need and the orphans who required help. I helped those without hope, and they blessed me. And I caused the widows’ hearts to sing for joy. Everything I did was honest. Righteousness covered me like a robe, and I wore justice like a turban. I served as eyes for the blind and feet for the lame. I was a father to the poor and assisted strangers who needed help. I broke the jaws of godless oppressors and plucked their victims from their teeth. “I thought, ‘Surely I will die surrounded by my family after a long, good life. For I am like a tree whose roots reach the water, whose branches are refreshed with the dew. New honors are constantly bestowed on me, and my strength is continually renewed.’”
‭‭Job‬ ‭29‬:‭11‬-‭20‬ ‭NLT‬‬
https://bible.com/bible/116/job.29.11-20.NLT

“For I am already being poured out as a drink offering, and the time of my departure is at hand. I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Finally, there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give to me on that Day, and not to me only but also to all who have loved His appearing.”
‭‭II Timothy‬ ‭4‬:‭6‬-‭8‬ ‭NKJV‬‬
https://bible.com/bible/114/2ti.4.6-8.NKJV

Indeed it is not how long but how well!
Sleep well! My Dear friend as you rest in the bosom of the one you loved and served fervently! I miss you so much

Bolaji Osime

A Tribute To Sola Adeyemi-Bero

I knew of Sola Adeyemi-Bero as one of my husband's numerous "aburos." I really didn't interact with her until 12 years ago. Subsequently, I got to know a lot about the things she was doing, especially when she had problems with the property development in Makoko as she was always calling on my husband for advice.
I felt she had boundless energy, as I could not understand how she did all that with Fruitful Vine and a law practice.
I was very impressed when we visited her clinic and was really saddened by the vandalisation and looting during the EndSars protests.
Sometimes, my husband would order things from her bakery, and occasionally, she would ask that we send the driver to pick new products she had just introduced. My husband said she wanted to take the bakery to another level last year, and he sent her some cupcakes ( imported from China) we saw in one of the grocery stores in Lagos.

I knew of her health challenges that began with Covid, but I never imagined that she would be gone so soon. Especially, as she looked so well when she visited us at home at the end of 2022. She was with us for hours. She shared many things - her days in QC, her work, and her passion for the pregnant street girls on Lagos Island was palpable.

We thank the Lord for the impactful life that she lived, and I am certain her legacy shall live on.
SHE LIVED A PURPOSEFUL LIFE - A CHALLENGE TO ALL OF US.
May the Almighty comfort her family and friends. Indeed, her passing is saddening.
Adieu Sola, may your gentle soul rest in the bosom of your Lord and Master.

Oluyemisi Mobolurin

TRIBUTE to my friend, sister, confidant and egbon:
Sis Sholz, embodied love, compassion, excellence, stylish elegance and beauty (in & out).
Family meant EVERYTHING to her; she loved her siblings, nephews & nieces to bits and never failed to share how happy and proud she was of their accomplishments. (I pray the Holy Spirit’s comfort for all her loved ones). She lived a life of purpose, loved God & was deeply committed to her life’s work- through the free clinic and medical outreach initially at the Red Cross clinic in Makoko and then City Hall through the fruitful vine initiative. She was passionate about her calling, never cutting corners and always put her best foot forward.
As a friend, so many things running through my mind; Bible study at her’s, our many fellowships & vigils, trips to Makoko in her red picanto at all hours (which she thankfully retired after being banned from driving it!), talking about anything & everything for hours on end on her dining table or study, (she always had a listening ear and was full of Godly counsel, never one to judge), Supermarket runs (looking to buy blue bunny ice cream) or flour to bake mostly just as the supermarkets are about to close just because she had to have something sweet, her love for entertaining, her love for Dodo with every meal, her phone calls to vent about one thing or the other, her favorite refrain was always “Kemo, issues wa o”!!
Hmmmmmh Sis…..“issues ti wa ba yi o”!!!
Goodnight Adesola Rebekah Adeyemi-Bero. I am certain you are in the bosom of your maker whom you loved and served through humanity. Missing you sorely already.
Kemi Alakija

TRIBUTE TO SOLA ADEYEMI-BERO

I have found it difficult to write a tribute to Sola, my very dear cerebral and compassionate aburo. In our normal expectations of the course of life, it should be other way round. Sola should be writing a tribute to her egbon.

The second challenge is how to write a tribute to someone with angelic nature. It's either too much or too understated.

Sola was true to her heritage - deeply faithful to her faith. Loved God and loved her neighbours. Loyal to friends and compassionate to the poor. Always ready to help, never held back any opportunity to advance a person's career, business, or comfort where she could act directly or through her contacts. Many a time, she pulled all stops even at great personal cost and inconvenience to restore hope for seemingly hopeless children in whom life was slowly ebbing. And the joy it gave her for every child saved, often by pushing her way through the lethargy and bureaucracy that define our public hospitals, to leverage their facilities for her Fruitful Vines' worst cases.

Fruitful Vines was a testimony to her organisational skills, compassion, and divine call.

Sola was never one for histrionics, even in the face of provocations. She had a few interfacing with financial institutions in her landmark foray into real estate and her recent attempt to upscale her confectionary and bakery business. Calmly, she responded to the challenges with equanimity, deploying where necessary her prodigious legal skills to defend her rights. Never fazed, her resilience showed always and ensured she kept moving forward.

The filial love and unity in the family are such a delight to experience. Sola was obviously not just the baby that they all pampered she also adored all her siblings.

My wife and I were privileged and honoured to be invited to her 60th birthday dinner with her family and a few friends. She also visited us at home after my surgery. I visited her in April, and we discussed her medical challenges. I never thought she had a problem that she wouldn't surmount. Her faith in God was palpable. When she stopped returning my calls and my WhatsApp posts didn't show they were being read, I called Demola to ask if all was well. He told me she had gone back to Germany. I believed and told Demola that Sola, being a very prayerful person, all would be well.

When an old friend called me to break Sola's passing, two days after I had made another unansweed call to her phone, it was very painful.

I never thought for a minute that her prayerful devotion would not prevail against her illness. But can we question God?

When an angel goes home, no matter how painful our loss is, we should comfort ourselves with the knowledge that heaven must be rejoicing. Heaven just took back one that was meant to brighten our lives for a season. She did.

Her legacy, she has bequeathed to us. Sola will be missed by all who knew her.

May her soul now be rested at Home with the Lord she represented here so well.

Rebecca Sola Adeyemi-Bero, fare thee well, my aburo and friend.

Olutola Mobolurin

My dearest Shol,

Words fail me. Grief has numbed my mind.

Our connection was special, like minds sharing outlook, opinions, humour, outrage – “Dibs, Dibs, Dibs, don’t say it, don’t say it…agh…exactly!”. Your spectacular talents, good deeds, fierce love of family and strong faith speak for themselves; yet there is just too much unfinished business. You were getting better you told me and we both believed it. Why didn’t I come one week earlier?

No more to say but to quote the words of Frances & Kathleen Coelho:

God saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be
So he put His arms around you
And whispered "Come to me."

With tearful eyes we watched you
As you slowly slipped away
And though we loved you dearly
We couldn't make you stay.

Your golden heart stopped beating
Your tired hands put to rest
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.

Shol, you have been reunited with so many you love. May your words and laughter continue to sound loudly in our lives. May your beautiful soul rest in perfect peace.
Dibs

Adiba Anyaoku Ighodaro

Dear Aunty Shols,

It feels unreal to be writing a tribute to you because I thought we would have you in our lives forever. Through tears, prayers and many days of reflection I’ve struggled to make sense of how you can truly be gone.

Aunty, you were more than an aunt, you were everything to me and you always made sure that your nieces and nephews knew they were loved, looked after and had a place of safety in you. I always knew you were just a phone call away, and I always looked forward to seeing you whenever I came home. You constantly encouraged in my career, and made sure I made the most every possible opportunity. You knew how much I loved my work and you had so many big dreams for me. I will always cherish the many hours we spent in your living room dreaming up all the amazing things I could do, while gisting about everything and anything. Your confidence in me made me feel like I could do absolutely anything and the love and devotion you had for your family will live on with us forever.

My heart is broken as we all struggle to process this loss and figure out how we’ll carry on without you here. But I know the good Lord has you in his bosom and you’ve found eternal rest and peace.

Thank you for everything, I love you forever.

Adetayo

Starting with aunty Sola doesn't seem proper or right because you were and are so much more..
I truly have been trying to write this since I heard, but just couldn't start.

COWRIE CREEK, 35B RAYMOND NJOKU, IKOYI; brought you into the life of my family and ‘oh my word’ Thank you Lord for doing so. For over 10 years I was blessed with having you with me every day and what a blessing of a ride we had. The laughter, the secrets , the tears, the conversations, the private fashion shows & the chit chats (that we only shared at early hours of the morning!). The ESCADA white shirt/blouse moments with you cannot be described likewise the ‘aunty Sola’ way to wear “Iro & Buba.” You knew my pain, my loneliness, my joy, my hurt; my struggles to be accepted both socially and at work. My quirkiness was fascinating to you and you defended me passionately when people didn't understand or couldn’t accept me. There was nothing about me you didn't know and for everything that we shared, you had a Biblical response/reply/word that provided that was needed at the time.
You are ( I’m not ready to use were) the GODMOTHER to my children. I don't know how to explain in this tribute the love you showed when they needed it. The protection and guidance that has in part made them the king and queen they are today. I can only say thank you and ask that you keep watch over them.
But then you moved and the intimacy of what we had changed but was not lost. I tried , but maybe I should have tried harder! knocked on your door a bit louder and for longer. I shouldn't have accepted you saying everything is okay when in my heart I knew it wasn't. Your Goddaughter reminded me about appreciating the SEASONS of life and Anu reminded me about appreciating LIFE. So whilst I’m choking on my tears, trying to understand purpose, trying to understand why my season with you has come to an end - I also lovingly choke back the tears of laughter remembering what we got up to at 35B RAYMOND NJOKU, that no one will ever know.
I love big Sis and I thank God for ‘Our Season Together’
PS
I guess now you can ask Banke for the password.

" The great business of life is to be, to do, to do without, and to depart. "
- Viscount Morley of Blackburn (1887)
The thought of Sola's transition is still so surreal to me. I could sum her up in three words, "cerebral, compassionate and charismatic."
You were a good person and a friend in every sense. Your philanthropic activities were quite inspiring. These, you carried out for decades without noise or fanfare. I recall how you set up a first-rate medical clinic at the Lagos City Hall ("the Fruitful Vine") to dispense free medical services to infants and indigent mothers on Lagos Island. Your face lit up when recounting the successful rescucitation of a severely malnourished and ill child by your medical personnel. You and your team would go on medical outreach programs into the deep slums of Isale Eko, and I always marvelled at the passion you enthused. All that ended abruptly with the 'EndSARS' riots of 2020 when all your state-of-the-art equipment were looted and the entire premises vandalized.
You were shaken but undaunted. You then decided to take free medical interventions to Public Schools on the Island and as usual, were committed to the project.

Indeed, for decades, you brought succour to the underprivileged who could never repay you.
Sadly, our last conversation was a few days before the end, this time, it was about assisting to process the filing of the brief of argument you had prepared at the Court of Appeal. You were still full of hope and talked of leaving the hospital soon. Alas, it wasn't to be.

Though it's curtains for you on this side, I believe it's a glorious awakening on the other side.

Goodbye and farewell.

Rotimi Aladesanmi

TRIBUTE TO SOLA ADEYEMI-BERO

I have found it difficult to write a tribute to Sola, my very dear cerebral and compassionate aburo. In our normal expectations of the course of life, it should be other way round. Sola should be writing a tribute to her egbon.

The second challenge is how to write a tribute to someone with angelic nature. It's either too much or too understated.

Sola was true to her heritage - deeply faithful to her faith. Loved God and loved her neighbours. Loyal to friends and compassionate to the poor. Always ready to help, never held back any opportunity to advance a person's career, business, or comfort where she could act directly or through her contacts. Many a time, she pulled all stops even at great personal cost and inconvenience to restore hope for seemingly hopeless children in whom life was slowly ebbing. And the joy it gave her for every child saved, often by pushing her way through the lethargy and bureaucracy that define our public hospitals, to leverage their facilities for her Fruitful Vines' worst cases.

Fruitful Vines was a testimony to her organisational skills, compassion, and divine call.

Sola was never one for histrionics, even in the face of provocations. She had a few interfacing with financial institutions in her landmark foray into real estate and her recent attempt to upscale her confectionary and bakery business. Calmly, she responded to the challenges with equanimity, deploying where necessary her prodigious legal skills to defend her rights. Never fazed, her resilience showed always and ensured she kept moving forward.

The filial love and unity in the family are such a delight to experience. Sola was obviously not just the baby that they all pampered she also adored all her siblings.

My wife and I were privileged and honoured to be invited to her 60th birthday dinner with her family and a few friends. She also visited us at home after my surgery. I visited her in April, and we discussed her medical challenges. I never thought she had a problem that she wouldn't surmount. Her faith in God was palpable. When she stopped returning my calls and my WhatsApp posts didn't show they were being read, I called Demola to ask if all was well. He told me she had gone back to Germany. I believed and told Demola that Sola, being a very prayerful person, all would be well.

When an old friend called me to break Sola's passing, two days after I had made another unansweed call to her phone, it was very painful.

I never thought for a minute that her prayerful devotion would not prevail against her illness. But can we question God?

When an angel goes home, no matter how painful our loss is, we should comfort ourselves with the knowledge that heaven must be rejoicing. Heaven just took back one that was meant to brighten our lives for a season. She did.

Her legacy, she has bequeathed to us. Sola will be missed by all who knew her.

May her soul now be rested at Home with the Lord she represented here so well.

Rebecca Sola Adeyemi-Bero, fare thee well, my aburo and friend.

Olutola Mobolurin

Tribute to Shola
Shola’s departure was truly unexpected. She had many passions in life. She had a passion for her bakery business, her primary health care for pregnant women, and a deep love for her siblings.
I met Shola over 30years ago through Efuru, she was there to dress me up on my wedding day. Friendship with Shols was stressless, we didn’t spend a lot of time together, yet whenever we did meet up or chat, everything was the same, as though nothing had changed. I will miss Shola a lot but I have a deep peace in knowing that she is in a good place. As we all mourn your loss, others are rejoicing and meeting you beyond the veil . Sleep well my dear Shola
Bola Olugboyegun

My dearest Sister Sols,

It's taken me a while to write this because my heart is broken & my mind refuses to accept that you are truly gone!

I am sad, devastated, and upset! I thought we had more time.....

I have so much to say about who you are: Kind, thoughtful, the epitome of class... Your presence is so soothing and at the same time, very strong & present!

I miss you so so much and love you even more❤️.

Please give Cees my love when you see him on the other side❤️.... Take care of each other till we meet again, I promise to remember all your counsel regarding my life & the kids upon Cees passing: I will do my best not to let you down.

Rest well, Sis Sols.

With all love in the world❤️,

Daniella Uijlenhoed.

Dearest Shola. 

Another shock for us to absorb. Another time to process loss and grief. You were such an amazing person. A golden soul, beautiful inside and out. From our school days in QC (you were that effervescent, impossible-to-miss junior) to when our paths crossed briefly at Cambridge (you were at Queens, I was heading out of Kings). Then after those carefree years, to see your eyes light up each time we met on one of those Lagos social occasions. It was always a pleasure – indeed a privilege, to spend time in your company. You radiated joy, warmth, and contentment. Always a dimpled smile, always a comforting word. No matter the weather, no matter the circumstance, you brought along your own light and radiance, your own special brand of warmth and mischief. Most recently, we spent time together commiserating and comforting over the loss of Cees, who loved you as his own sister as Demola was his own brother. You were a constant, consoling, prayerful presence at Daniella’s side. Your empathy was deep, authentic and perceptible. We talked a lot together during those days. You told me about the dream you had and with hindsight, I realize it was a dream of heaven. A heaven free of pain, fear, sorrow and tears. Impossible to quantify the loss to your siblings, whom you loved fiercely and so well. Impossible to quantify the loss to the poor and less privileged, who were always on your mind. And to your friends, impossible – you were and are irreplaceable. God will comfort and strengthen your siblings, family and friends. May your memories and legacies always bring solace. Sleep well Shola, a beautiful, beautiful soul. 

Funmi Ogunlesi (née Ade-Ajayi)

Shola and I attended Greylands college on the Isle of Wight for our O and A levels. She was fun loving , graceful and extremely good looking - shola had legs that went on forever !!

We had so many escapades and memorable experiences, we would laugh until we were bent double, escape sticky situations by a hairs breadth ! We had a great time while honkering down for excellent results at the end of our studies.

shola was without guile and focused .

She reached out to me earlier this year on the 30th of May just asking how I was - that was our last communication.

Shola rest well, rest easy. May your path be smooth IJMN. Amen.

Adieu Dearest Sis Shols

Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good.  Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.  Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord.  Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.  Share with God’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.” Romans 12:9-13

Dear Shols, a tough call really, the above bible verse contains the instructions given to us by the apostle Paul for the life a child of God should endeavour to live. This verse for me exemplifies your life and what you stood for. I and so many can attest to the fact that you indeed strived to live that life. Your life exemplified the best of devotion to family, those you chose as your friends and humanitarian causes. You lived a rather selfless life caring for your family, your friends, the poor and those in need and you carried on this purpose of your life in a very diligent and quiet manner. I truly admired this about you. A legacy to emulate indeed.

The Mother Theresa of the family, it is hard to believe you are no longer here to serve the living God and humanity you so conscientiously served…with all your heart.

The words that best describe you are intelligent, strong, caring, loving, genuine, compassionate, loyal, resourceful, hard work and dedication (to a cause you believed in), domesticated, humourous and real fun to be with. You were truly one of the most interesting people to share time with, there was never a dull moment in your company. You were a deep, spiritual wise counsellor who always listened and gave wise soothing advice especially on how to navigate this very tough course of life. You were a deep thinker, knowledgeable and articulate, you had a lot to teach about life and just about anything and everything! to both the young and the old. I believe indeed that this was your primary purpose and life path and you indeed fulfilled that purpose to a double T! On a lighter note, wow! did you like to gist! You regaled us, your listeners, with often very colourful and very interesting accounts of events. Your ability to engage in meaningful and thought-provoking conversations really cut the mustard. Sugar-coating of conversations was not your thing as you had the ability to cut straight to the point always. You were a great cook too and loved to feed us with excellent food. You knew and loved good wholesome food!

Beautiful and brainy, an exceptional woman indeed! I thank you for making me feel so welcome as part of the family from when I became Ade’s wife. Knowing and interacting with you taught me what the phrase ‘devotion to family’ truly meant. You would defend your family and closest friends with force but only when you deemed it necessary. I sought advice and counsel from you when I needed a listening ear. Time spent with you always increased my faith and hope in God. You were indeed a rock and strong pillar for the family. You were our master planner for family events making sure everything was executed perfectly, the event hall we used complete with beautiful flowers (you always insisted the decorator was Newton and David, your good friend sis Uche Majekodunmi’s outfit), the clothes we wore, the very best of catering…and now we have to accept that you’re not here with us anymore. Hmmm...so surreal, Sis Shols gone! Our hearts are broken. Your passing was truly painful and shocking to us and the reality is dawning on us that we must get on in life without you physically present with us. Hmmm…we must accept the will of God who it has pleased to take you His dear one to be with Him. You have run and completed a great race my sis. I have learnt a lot from you. You will forever live in our hearts.
Adieu my dear sister in law. It was indeed a blessing to have shared a part of my life with you. You will be deeply missed but forever cherished. Rest in perfect peace in the bosom of our Lord.

Nnenna Adeyemi-Bero (Sister in law)

I was saddened to hear the news of Shola’s passing. We were childhood friends and grew up in the same small oasis that was Lawal Street, Oweh Street, Abimbola Street and Shiro Street.
When we were students here in the U.K. my Dad and Shola’s Dad founded the parents’ organisation for the welfare of overseas students to facilitate the speedy remittance of foreign exchange from Central Bank in Nigeria of our school fees and living expenses. They remained good friends till they also went home to be with the Lord.
I have such fond memories of our teen years. Very recently I met a mutual friend and apparently my name had come up in conversation with Shola and I purposed to call but never got round to doing so. How I wish we’d had that perhaps one last conversation. (Lesson learnt - pick up that phone and call that friend you haven’t spoken to in a while- who knows how long we each have on this side of eternity). Shola’s lovely dimples and mischievous smile are etched on my mind.
Gone too soon!
Rest in perfect peace Shola. You’ve taken your place in our Father’s house.

Gone too soon Aunty Shola!
Your passing on came to me as a shock when my Dad told me yesterday that you are gone. I worked with you briefly at your confectionery Company at Makoko Yaba and I must say I learnt a lot about you, from the way you speak, to the way you dress (style) and your neatness. You lived a life worth emulating, principled, down to earth and honest.
I really did not spend much time with you but the little I knew of you was priceless.
Rest in Perfect Peace Aunty Shola.
Oluwadoyin Olubunmi Nee Akindele

My dearest Aunt Sholz...

This has to be by far the most surreal moment of life in the most recent times.

It just doesn't sit right that you're actually so far gone that we can't reach out to touch,speak with or enjoy you physically anymore.

My aunt, my diva, my oldest twinnie(as I was born knowing as soon as I could decipher life, of how much alike we were) .
This has been a different course running through my childhood n even now (except my orobo embodiment wont permit that much recently) lol,as the constant stares , questions n bewilderment from my own friends, yours n strangers who saw us together was always a tease!

Completely amusing, as I couldn't even be likened to my own darling mama that way( your late Sis Niks).

Growing up, you were my mother's first child, as she was all about you faring well n enjoying life as her doors were forever opened to "aburo mi Sholly" .
We the kids will coon and gape at you n your retinue of "super cool friends " back then in mother's room, dressing up, trying all her jewellery n vibing to music as you totally showed off how cool your big sis was to your friends! How we(siblings n i) loved it!
My mom would equally gloat about how kind, beautiful n super charged you were which shone all the way!

I recall again how much I now did the same in my Unilag days then, my overly cool aunt that will shower me with the coolest, priciest n darling pieces from her chiciest designer bulk.. I mean Chanel, Ferragamo, Estee Lauder, Fendi n an endless array of brands got nothing on me at school o! Ha! We now wore the same shoe size? Heaven! as the penny loafers, ferragamo slips no rest for my life o. My cool collection thus won me crazy friends who would borrow n even nick some pieces off me.

Life happens, you got more quiet, resilient, more generous n less worldly as you started grasping God's true purpose for what life was really about n what he wanted you to do with your many gifts!

How crazy life is, your beautiful law firm then at Oweh was my second home as whenever there were strikes or school shutdowns, I had an holiday job waiting. Then your more recent years, I had lived in Abuja for over 16yrs working, starting my family n doing life. You will still grab a call from time to time, even when they were differences (as I'm just as stubborn) lol... my dear aunt Sholz will say "o le pemi Shade abi? O serious o) .
You will constantly will me back home to Lag n we'd go back n forth on that.
Aunt Sholz, I'm here now, it's too quiet as I can't hear, see or enjoy you!hmmm... o mashe o!
If only we all recognise life is so fickle, maybe we'd love a little more, hold hugs a little longer n relax alot more!

Now I yearn for you in earnest to cover up for so much, gists abound, life played an horrendous hat trick, it's raw n offensive!

Only the Almighty can get away with this as he's loved you way more, even before you were conceived.

Your immense love for your siblings n all of us was amazing, your impact in the Adeyemi-Bero Family is MASSIVE n your imprints are deep.
I tell you aunt, this one hit home!

I can tell you ' YOU'RE LOVED GREATLY "!
MY Beautiful, stylish n uber cool Aunt Sholz, rest in the bosom of our Lord n master who we can't fault for anything. A deep hug to master Jesus, my Anikinta (Mum) n grannies over there!
Miss you all sorely.

Sun re o my dearest Aunt Sholz...

All my love,
'Shadzzz...(niece).

I am writing this in shock from the sad news that SolaBero passed away. How can this be? She was always SolaBero. We were neighbours in childhood and childhood friends. The Adeyemi Beros (and their dog at one point) lived on Oweh street with the side of their house bending onto Abimbola Street where we lived at No 3. We were the same age and she was part of my childhood. She went off to QC but we would reconnect during the holidays and I was a regular visitor to their house. Then she went to England to university. She was pretty ( I remember the smile and dimples) confident, the leader, giving advice and loved life. She taught me to cut my plantain in round shapes when frying dodo, because apparently you get more from the plantain that way. I still remember that when I cut plantain now deciding which shape to use. Life took us on different paths but over the years I'd hear from one person or another about SolaBero and I was always pleased to say we were friends as children. I heard good things about her beauty, culinary skills, intelligence, social skills and her work. I now wish I had initiated contact. It's so lovely to read the wonderful tributes that have been written and to see that she passed on knowing and loving the LORD. She has gone to the other side of eternity just as Jesus Christ died and rose again, to be with her Maker who loves her more than anyone else can. My deep condolences to Aunty Bola, Ade and Demola.
SolaBero ran her race and finished well.