August 3, 2022
August 3, 2022
Happy Birthday Dad. I know you are in a better Place watching over us. I miss you so much.
Happy Birthday my HERO
Happy Birthday my HERO
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, BENEDICT ALAGH, 42, born on August 3, 1969 and passed away on March 10, 2012. We will remember him forever.
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August 3, 2022
August 3, 2022
Hello Angel Terkula. Today marks another milestone. You may not be here to celebrate with us but we had plenty happy memories to fill the empty void your absence created. Keep smiling and making the Heavenly audience laugh at your Oscar wining Jokes.
Till we meet my love, Keep praying us down here.
Till we meet my love, Keep praying us down here.
August 3, 2022
August 3, 2022
You will continue to be remembered, Ben. And today is another day to highlight that. I trust you are having a ball with the angels today to mark the remembrance of that day you physically entered into the earthly realm, reminiscing on it all with that smile of yours!
Continue to rest in perfect peace Ben.
Continue to rest in perfect peace Ben.
March 11, 2022
March 11, 2022
It's the 11th of March and ceaselessly, Time marches on…
Already, you are in the 11th year of your life on the other side.
So, you live on, there. But even in this realm, we continue to remember you. Your life continues in the memories you created during your sojourn here. The memories others, including me, retain in the closest, dearest, and most cherished parts of our beings - our hearts, souls, and minds. Those bits of us that will last and outlast the mortal components of who we are.
Your lights shine on and Shise and Ageba are True Torchbearers. They so admirably hold aloft the brilliant, bellowing brightness of the light of you. And so does Radiant Roselyn, your Precious Amazon. They are indeed the worthiest of your worthy legacies.
The heart still aches, even after all this time. But also, the heart smiles.
So, each time I hear some music that reminds me of you, I will smile, whistle, snap my fingers, and maybe do a little dance. I will remember you with a smile. And I will thank God for you and the privilege to have known you.
It's the 11th of March, and relentlessly, on marches Time…
Already, you are in the 11th year of your life on the other side.
So, you live on, there. But even in this realm, we continue to remember you. Your life continues in the memories you created during your sojourn here. The memories others, including me, retain in the closest, dearest, and most cherished parts of our beings - our hearts, souls, and minds. Those bits of us that will last and outlast the mortal components of who we are.
Your lights shine on and Shise and Ageba are True Torchbearers. They so admirably hold aloft the brilliant, bellowing brightness of the light of you. And so does Radiant Roselyn, your Precious Amazon. They are indeed the worthiest of your worthy legacies.
The heart still aches, even after all this time. But also, the heart smiles.
So, each time I hear some music that reminds me of you, I will smile, whistle, snap my fingers, and maybe do a little dance. I will remember you with a smile. And I will thank God for you and the privilege to have known you.
It's the 11th of March, and relentlessly, on marches Time…
March 10, 2022
March 10, 2022
It’s 10yrs gone, yet seems like yesterday. It’s always difficult to think you’re not with us because your impact still speaks and off course your children and and wife have ensured this remains so.
On this day and always I remember you boss, mentor and friend. Continue to Rest In Peace.
On this day and always I remember you boss, mentor and friend. Continue to Rest In Peace.
August 3, 2021
August 3, 2021
You were an uncle like no other,
Sometimes I'd have vivid recollections
of your wise counsel and unbiased encouragement.
Those were jewels you shared before your great
transition.
God bless your beautiful soul.
Sometimes I'd have vivid recollections
of your wise counsel and unbiased encouragement.
Those were jewels you shared before your great
transition.
God bless your beautiful soul.
August 3, 2021
August 3, 2021
We will have been celebrating your 52nd birthday today my friend and brother, but alas God called you to be with Him. The years have gone by but your memories are ever fresh. I missed your your sense of humour, your down to earth nature etc. Rest on my friend.
August 3, 2021
August 3, 2021
On this day, God sent me a baby brother who became a father and an Angel to me and many. I missed you very much but I know we will meet someday; when and where we will part no more. May God Almighty rest your soul!
August 3, 2021
August 3, 2021
It is with fondness that I always remember Ben. He was always a pleasure to be around. He loved and served humanity without reservation.
He may no longer be with us physically, but his legacy lives on.
He may no longer be with us physically, but his legacy lives on.
August 3, 2021
August 3, 2021
Dear Dad,
Today would have been your 52nd Birthday. I know mummy would have thrown a surprise party like she did on you 40th birthday but I am consoled because I know you are celebrating it with the host of Angels . I miss you so so much Daddy and I want to wish you a cheerful Birthday in Heaven. Love you so much Dad .
Today would have been your 52nd Birthday. I know mummy would have thrown a surprise party like she did on you 40th birthday but I am consoled because I know you are celebrating it with the host of Angels . I miss you so so much Daddy and I want to wish you a cheerful Birthday in Heaven. Love you so much Dad .
August 3, 2021
August 3, 2021
Hello Dad. I am ten years old now! Can you imagine that. I hope you are having a great time in heaven. Thank you so much for watching me from your beautiful throne.
August 3, 2021
August 3, 2021
My Dearest Ben, on the day that you were born, earth received such an amazing gift, and on the day that you died, heave received a very special angel. Happy birthday in Heaven, may you have the best birthday ever in heaven in JESUS MIGHTY NAME! May your children children and their generation live a long healthy, wealthy, highly favored and blessed lives. Amen
March 11, 2021
March 11, 2021
I never got the opportunity to meet you, but I have heard a lot of things about you. I have even gotten to see some of the impacts you made while on earth. My wife talks about you all the time. Thank you for raising an amazing woman.
Continue to Rest In Peace
Continue to Rest In Peace
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
Ben! I listened to a couple of Bob Marley tracks today, and remembering you and the lyrics of those songs remind me of your passion for social justice and a more progressive and egalitarian society. Such everyday things remind me of you, and I am grateful to God for your legacy in your lovely and inspirational children Shishe and Ageba. Roselyn is a wonderful woman...indeed, you chose well!
Yes, time flies, and though the heart may ache at times, but blessed memories soothe. Your light still shines. Your smile still brightens. Your wit still sparkles. Your warmth still gladdens. In these you are seen. Perceived. Experienced. Loved and cherished. Today and always.
Yes, time flies, and though the heart may ache at times, but blessed memories soothe. Your light still shines. Your smile still brightens. Your wit still sparkles. Your warmth still gladdens. In these you are seen. Perceived. Experienced. Loved and cherished. Today and always.
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
Daddy, we all miss you so much but we know that you went to Heaven for a good cause.I and Shise hope you are having the great things that you deserve.Did you know that Shise and I are the CEOs of “the Shise and Ageba’s Children’s foundation”.
We have several projects ongoing. And we’re praying for funds to start building school project in Benue. We have also done a project called “Project 1000 - where we adopt children out of school back to school, provide face mask and shield through the help of family and friends.
We love you so much Daddy and we miss you so much.
Love,
Shise and Ageba
We have several projects ongoing. And we’re praying for funds to start building school project in Benue. We have also done a project called “Project 1000 - where we adopt children out of school back to school, provide face mask and shield through the help of family and friends.
We love you so much Daddy and we miss you so much.
Love,
Shise and Ageba
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
It's okay to miss you,
It's okay to cry.
Just know I'll never forget you..
Sometimes I sit and wonder
If you are standing by my side,
Giving me the courage
To carry on with pride.
I'll hold onto our memories,
Until this life is done.
In my heart is where I'll store them,
It's okay to cry.
Just know I'll never forget you..
Sometimes I sit and wonder
If you are standing by my side,
Giving me the courage
To carry on with pride.
I'll hold onto our memories,
Until this life is done.
In my heart is where I'll store them,
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
May your soul continue to rest in peace Sir. May God continue to comfort your loving family. Sis Roselyn, you are doing well, we are proud of the strong and loving woman you are. May God continue to crown your efforts.
With love,
Doris
With love,
Doris
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace.Rest on beloved.
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
Dear Ben,
'My Oga' and the best I've had....I remember you always like today. There is no way to forget this day, your darling wife has ensured that. You're a rare breed and there's so much to testify to that even after you have long gone.
Rest on Sir.
'My Oga' and the best I've had....I remember you always like today. There is no way to forget this day, your darling wife has ensured that. You're a rare breed and there's so much to testify to that even after you have long gone.
Rest on Sir.
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
My dear brother, indeed you have left us and things have fallen apart. But, the centre will hold in Jesus name
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
I met a man I respect even in death. You are forever remember just like yesterday. Rest on until we all meet to part no more
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
Dearest Ben, my brother and friend. It's hard to believe that 9 years have passed by!!! I keep holding on to your wedding brochure and look at it from time to time. Rosie is a great mother; and you'd be extremely proud of the children. You are forever in our hearts.
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
Dear Dad,
you were always in Good sprit. You treated everyone with respect regardless of who they were. You loved God and made sure your children did and still do. You loved football and Music. It's the little things you did while Alive that sticks with me till date. Indeed you are Our Angel and Hero.
Keep On Resting DAD
you were always in Good sprit. You treated everyone with respect regardless of who they were. You loved God and made sure your children did and still do. You loved football and Music. It's the little things you did while Alive that sticks with me till date. Indeed you are Our Angel and Hero.
Keep On Resting DAD
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
I never got the opportunity to meet you Sir, but I’ve had the privilege of knowing your wonderful wife and amazing children, including relatives alike. I get to experience your wonderful legacy through them here on earth, and I can tell you truly were an amazingly great man. Rest on Sir!
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
Memories of You Will Last Forever. Rest on Uncle Ben.
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
Sweetheart, 9 years ago, you left this sinful world to rest in the bosom of the creator . Death may end a life , but never a relationship.
My Darling Ben, remembering you is very easy- infact Shise , Ageba and I do that every day as your loving memory has become a priceless treasure always to be guarded jealously.
Seasons may change from year to year,
People may come and go
But never will the one I loved from memory pass away
I miss you on this special day
I miss you like it was yesterday
I miss you today with every rhythm in my heart
Deep down in my heart I believe that you’re alive through prayers and best wishes .
And I also know you’re making fellow Angel crack their ribs from your jokes so Sleep on Angel Terkula till we meet to part no more.
My Darling Ben, remembering you is very easy- infact Shise , Ageba and I do that every day as your loving memory has become a priceless treasure always to be guarded jealously.
Seasons may change from year to year,
People may come and go
But never will the one I loved from memory pass away
I miss you on this special day
I miss you like it was yesterday
I miss you today with every rhythm in my heart
Deep down in my heart I believe that you’re alive through prayers and best wishes .
And I also know you’re making fellow Angel crack their ribs from your jokes so Sleep on Angel Terkula till we meet to part no more.
December 23, 2020
December 23, 2020
Compliments of the Season to you and your loved ones. Thank you so much for always being there.
2020 has been a challenging year. Most of us lost loved ones, jobs, properties but one important lesson leant as we come to the end of this year is that each day is a gift, each breath of fresh air is a miracle, the gift of love from our family, friends and most importantly GOD’s Love will forever be treasured.
I remember you Ben especially in these periods. So many happy memories made it’s seem it’s just yesterday GOD called you to be with HIM. You continue to be the most remarkable person I have ever met.
Merry Christmas and a year new year.
2020 has been a challenging year. Most of us lost loved ones, jobs, properties but one important lesson leant as we come to the end of this year is that each day is a gift, each breath of fresh air is a miracle, the gift of love from our family, friends and most importantly GOD’s Love will forever be treasured.
I remember you Ben especially in these periods. So many happy memories made it’s seem it’s just yesterday GOD called you to be with HIM. You continue to be the most remarkable person I have ever met.
Merry Christmas and a year new year.
August 8, 2020
August 8, 2020
Ben, keep enjoying your solace with the Lord. One thing I am so happy about you is the goodwill and replica of you that you left behind, your lovely and inteligent children.
I know you are happy wherever you are now.
Rest in peace my friend.
Dr. J. T. Iboi-Eriaremien JP
I know you are happy wherever you are now.
Rest in peace my friend.
Dr. J. T. Iboi-Eriaremien JP
August 5, 2020
August 5, 2020
Beloved Ben! Lovely memories of you flood into my mind today as usual. Your cleverness, your humour, your smile, your profound intellect, your selflessness, your loyalty, your faith. Your love for your family. Indeed, your poetry for Roselyn is one proof that beyond that famously and 'deceptively languid' mien of yours did lie a soulful and passionate personality that some of us had the privilege to catch glimpses of, through shared interests such as Music and the Arts, among others. I could go on...
Your dear Roselyn is indeed not only 'the flesh of your flesh' but also 'the bone of your bones' - a truly rock-solid, trustworthy and greatly admirable person she is, my friend. She is a constant reminder of you. Under her tender, steadfast care and tutelage, Shise and Ageba are growing fast, displaying boldly, proudly and undeniably your enviable legacy. To God be all the Glory.
"No pranks on the angels" Ben! Keep smiling. Keep resting.
Your dear Roselyn is indeed not only 'the flesh of your flesh' but also 'the bone of your bones' - a truly rock-solid, trustworthy and greatly admirable person she is, my friend. She is a constant reminder of you. Under her tender, steadfast care and tutelage, Shise and Ageba are growing fast, displaying boldly, proudly and undeniably your enviable legacy. To God be all the Glory.
"No pranks on the angels" Ben! Keep smiling. Keep resting.
August 5, 2020
August 5, 2020
Priyanka Khanna
I never met him but in you and Roselyn Itodo Alagh I can see how amazing Ben was. True testimonials.
Priyanka Khanna
I never met him but in you and Roselyn Itodo Alagh I can see how amazing Ben was. True testimonials.
Priyanka Khanna
August 5, 2020
August 5, 2020
Olalekan Ajia
23h ·
Unforgettable. That is Ben Alagh. Because he lives in the lives he touched. Brilliant, black like blue, charming, easy laughter that dissolves tensions, dedicated, selfless, totally devoted husband and father. Gone like a meteor in the night. Yet. Unforgettable.
Roselyn, you do justice to his proud affirmation, "She's the best wife in the world." During that ACSD workshop in Cotonou, Bénin Republic, 2011?, where he did Nigeria proud and shine like a thousand stars, he would say it quietly, without bombast but with quiet conviction. Ben is in God's Gardens of Bliss.
May his God, the God of your children, the God you serve, the Eternal and Ever Merciful God bless your prayers and aspirations with answers beyond your expectations, grant you and the children long life and good health, and the joy of harvests, Amen.
Ben lives. Light does not die, and Darkness can never overwhelm it. Amen.
Olalekan Ajia
23h ·
Unforgettable. That is Ben Alagh. Because he lives in the lives he touched. Brilliant, black like blue, charming, easy laughter that dissolves tensions, dedicated, selfless, totally devoted husband and father. Gone like a meteor in the night. Yet. Unforgettable.
Roselyn, you do justice to his proud affirmation, "She's the best wife in the world." During that ACSD workshop in Cotonou, Bénin Republic, 2011?, where he did Nigeria proud and shine like a thousand stars, he would say it quietly, without bombast but with quiet conviction. Ben is in God's Gardens of Bliss.
May his God, the God of your children, the God you serve, the Eternal and Ever Merciful God bless your prayers and aspirations with answers beyond your expectations, grant you and the children long life and good health, and the joy of harvests, Amen.
Ben lives. Light does not die, and Darkness can never overwhelm it. Amen.
Olalekan Ajia
August 3, 2020
August 3, 2020
Happy Belated Birthday with the angels above Ben. Be rest assured that Roselyn is doing an amazing work and those lovely babies are growing fast.
August 3, 2020
August 3, 2020
Azuka Menkiti
August 3 at 7:26 PM
Happy birthday dear Ben. Even though I didn't meet you, your children have shown whatca great dad you are. Your beautiful and diligent wife Roselyn Itodo Alagh has been my heroine.. The strongest and most loyal wife and friend anyone would wish to have. I know you are filled with pride and satisfaction with how your children are growing into wonderful children. Rest on Ben. We all miss you
August 3 at 7:26 PM
Happy birthday dear Ben. Even though I didn't meet you, your children have shown whatca great dad you are. Your beautiful and diligent wife Roselyn Itodo Alagh has been my heroine.. The strongest and most loyal wife and friend anyone would wish to have. I know you are filled with pride and satisfaction with how your children are growing into wonderful children. Rest on Ben. We all miss you
August 3, 2020
August 3, 2020
I still remember the surprise 40th birthday organised by your wife, Roselyn. Today is Monday and it would have been your 51st. I have a feeling you'd have been at your desk, working. I'd have teased you "Öga, na small you take senior me sef" I know what your response would have been.
I miss you Ben. Ella and I talk about you often. You are a good man. Rest on!
I miss you Ben. Ella and I talk about you often. You are a good man. Rest on!
August 3, 2020
August 3, 2020
Happy Birthday Daddy.
I am 9 now and I hope you have a good birthday.
Did you know that a peregrine falcon is actually the fastest animals and not the cheetah!
I love you daddy
President Ageba
I am 9 now and I hope you have a good birthday.
Did you know that a peregrine falcon is actually the fastest animals and not the cheetah!
I love you daddy
President Ageba
August 3, 2020
August 3, 2020
Dad,
It has been 8 years since you ascended. Hmmm. I see different girls and boys with their dads and I wish it was the same for me. Anyways I understand that you were an amazing man and from what I remember, you were a huge Liverpool fan. I wish every day that you were here with me but I know that you are in a way better place. Happy birthday and keep on flying
Shise Alagh, for the best dad ever
It has been 8 years since you ascended. Hmmm. I see different girls and boys with their dads and I wish it was the same for me. Anyways I understand that you were an amazing man and from what I remember, you were a huge Liverpool fan. I wish every day that you were here with me but I know that you are in a way better place. Happy birthday and keep on flying
Shise Alagh, for the best dad ever
August 3, 2020
August 3, 2020
Hmmmm! I can never get used to your absence. God, however, cannot be questioned. I look forward that that day we will meet again; this time, to part no more. Saa mo va
August 3, 2020
August 3, 2020
Many thanks for all the years of support. Today, we all fondly remember Ben's would be 51st Birthday. Thanks for dropping a line for his Children to read and know more about their Dad.
August 3, 2020
August 3, 2020
My brother and friend, today we should have celebrated another birthday, but alas it is not to be, your memory still remains fresh. You will be forever remembered.
March 15, 2020
March 15, 2020
From Prof MC Asuzu,
Roselyn!
It is good to be reminded of Ben at this time; for ANY TIME is good time to do so! Ben was my student here at Ibadan; & I enjoyed being his teacher; for he did things with the utmost passion - his Holy Catholic faith & it's truthful practices, leadership of the various medical students' groups that he led, students' arranged symposia of which he got me to talk in, his return for the MPH degree here & publishing from the work, etc!
I am happy that as his wife you got some deeper touch with those, I would say, PASSIONLESS PASSIONS! God help you to live those holy Passions yourself & to share it with the children till the very end! MC Asuzu.
Roselyn!
It is good to be reminded of Ben at this time; for ANY TIME is good time to do so! Ben was my student here at Ibadan; & I enjoyed being his teacher; for he did things with the utmost passion - his Holy Catholic faith & it's truthful practices, leadership of the various medical students' groups that he led, students' arranged symposia of which he got me to talk in, his return for the MPH degree here & publishing from the work, etc!
I am happy that as his wife you got some deeper touch with those, I would say, PASSIONLESS PASSIONS! God help you to live those holy Passions yourself & to share it with the children till the very end! MC Asuzu.
March 11, 2020
March 11, 2020
Ben, I didnt realise its been this long. But what is time to you who live outside of it. We remember you with nostalgia the naughty little brother you were. You finished well and left solid remnants of you, Rose, and those amazonic replica of you. We shall come to you, you cannot come to us, hiwever meanwhile no pranks on angeis and keep smiling. We love you.
March 10, 2020
March 10, 2020
Another year has rolled by without you. We continue to remember you at every turn, You loom large and bestride every of our endeavors. You are to us in death as you were to us in life. You are always the subject of our discussion, with nostalgia, how you influenced our time in UNICEF. Rest on Dear Ben, in the bosom of our LORD. Amen
March 10, 2020
March 10, 2020
Memories, memories! So much of them to hold on to. I am glad I met you. You are a good man, a wonderful boss and a dear friend. My wife and I talk about you always and how your wife has held on strong especially for your children.
Match on boss and continue to rest in His bosom.
Match on boss and continue to rest in His bosom.
March 10, 2020
March 10, 2020
I watched the remake of Lion king today, and I got to the scene were Mophasa told Simba, that great great kings that have passed are in the stars watching over us, and that he will never leave him but will always be watching over him, I dont know but your thought just came to me. Honestly at that moment I did not remember that it is the eighth anniversary of your demise until your beloved wife sent a reminder to me.
My dear brother I know you will always be in our life by the impact you had on us in your short stay here.
Forever remembered.
My dear brother I know you will always be in our life by the impact you had on us in your short stay here.
Forever remembered.
March 10, 2020
March 10, 2020
Tribute from Dr. John Iboi:
Oh no! How time fly!
May his soul rest in peace and find solace in the blossom of our Lord.
Many years ago just like yesterday when both of us were lying on a foam in a one room apartment in Agbowo beside University of Ibadan cracking jokes.
Ben, I know you are enjoying in heaven now.
Thank God you made it and leave your replica behind to complete all you couldn't while on earth.
Once again rest in perfect peace.
Oh no! How time fly!
May his soul rest in peace and find solace in the blossom of our Lord.
Many years ago just like yesterday when both of us were lying on a foam in a one room apartment in Agbowo beside University of Ibadan cracking jokes.
Ben, I know you are enjoying in heaven now.
Thank God you made it and leave your replica behind to complete all you couldn't while on earth.
Once again rest in perfect peace.
March 10, 2020
March 10, 2020
Even for the very short time I got to know you, you were a rare gem. Your good memories lingers on uncle.
Though the favorites of God die young, they also live eternally in the company of God....
Keep living in eternal peace sir.
Though the favorites of God die young, they also live eternally in the company of God....
Keep living in eternal peace sir.
March 10, 2020
March 10, 2020
Fond memories linger on-the travels together from Bauchi; the discussions. I know you are happier over there. Rest on, my brother and friend.
March 10, 2020
March 10, 2020
We were room mates for one year. I can't remember us quarreling or arguing over anything. Saw you several times when you were in Enugu. Your passing on has remained a shock to me. You will forever be missed. Rest on, free from all life's labours and pains.
March 10, 2020
March 10, 2020
I have been staring at the blank space.
This morning, I woke with the urge to write on "I will soon leave". Same words many hold unto to fail... Never wanting to do anything because they believe their stay/time at any place is short and temporary.
You believed same words but they drove you to great feats. You lived full, and emptied yourself for us. You kept putting everything in place like you we're trying to say: "I will soon leave".
I am walking, maybe staggering along those steps. But surely I know, there is no other way.
I love you much bro.
This morning, I woke with the urge to write on "I will soon leave". Same words many hold unto to fail... Never wanting to do anything because they believe their stay/time at any place is short and temporary.
You believed same words but they drove you to great feats. You lived full, and emptied yourself for us. You kept putting everything in place like you we're trying to say: "I will soon leave".
I am walking, maybe staggering along those steps. But surely I know, there is no other way.
I love you much bro.
March 10, 2020
March 10, 2020
Rosy,
Time's a passing, but the memories live on. The kids are growing! Ben rests till He comes! Stay safe in your assignment!! Keep the photos coming!
Ma
Time's a passing, but the memories live on. The kids are growing! Ben rests till He comes! Stay safe in your assignment!! Keep the photos coming!
Ma
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August 6
August 6
When we remember Ben we do so with a heart of gratitude for how The Lord has kept his family, our dear Rose, Shise and Ageba.
When we see how the children are still carrying on with the humanitarian work at the BAT School, again, we thank God.
May his soul continue to rest in peace.
When we see how the children are still carrying on with the humanitarian work at the BAT School, again, we thank God.
May his soul continue to rest in peace.
August 5
August 5
You would have turned 55 a couple of days ago and it makes us wonder what your impact would have looked like considering the legacy you left behind 12 years ago. We remain consoled by the impactful life you lived.
August 4
August 4
Dear Dr Ben,
It has been twelve years-just like yesterday. I have not forgotten your words of encouragement and advice about doing investments for the future. Your wife and children are doing well to keep your legacy, and we are proud of them all. Continue to rest in peace, dear brother and friend.
It has been twelve years-just like yesterday. I have not forgotten your words of encouragement and advice about doing investments for the future. Your wife and children are doing well to keep your legacy, and we are proud of them all. Continue to rest in peace, dear brother and friend.
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Ben and I
August 5
I do not know if I have told this story before but it won't hurt to repeat it. My name is Gregory Agogo. I am an "Udam" from Obudu, Cross River State. Before I was born, my father trekked from my Village through Adikpo to join the Queen's Own Regiment at Katsina-Ala. Due to the difficulty in capturing native names, he was entered into the Army Enlistment list as "Oshe Katsina Ala" instead of Ushie Agogo Ukezi. He saw action in Burma and many other places and was discharged after WW2 in 1945. After his discharge, he settled in a village near Makurdi and was a farmer. This is where I was born and where I picked up the Tiv language.
I met Ben in Bauchi during the National Programme on Immunization. I was a serving officer in the Nigerian Army. Ben was servicing somewhere in Kaduna. We usually met during the campaigns. My meeting with Ben was magnetic. I could relate to him in TIV and he was further attracted to Oshe Katsina-Ala, the man he did not know and did not meet. He became a brother from a different mother. We were inseparable during our stay in Bauchi. His pet name for me was Oga Greg Katsina-Ala
At the end of the program, we went our different ways and did not even keep in touch. Communication was not as easy as it is today. However, when Ben learned about my retirement from the Army, he did not rest until he obtained a number to reach me. By then I did not know that he had gotten employment with UNICEF and, coincidentally he was at the D Field Office in Bauchi. He finally got in contact with me and through his facilitation, I started my second phase of life as a Vaccine Security and Logistics Officer posted to Gombe. That was the beginning of the second phase of my life
Dear Ben, I remember you today as always. I hold your acquaintance most fondly. Rest in peace till we meet to part no more. Oga Greg
I met Ben in Bauchi during the National Programme on Immunization. I was a serving officer in the Nigerian Army. Ben was servicing somewhere in Kaduna. We usually met during the campaigns. My meeting with Ben was magnetic. I could relate to him in TIV and he was further attracted to Oshe Katsina-Ala, the man he did not know and did not meet. He became a brother from a different mother. We were inseparable during our stay in Bauchi. His pet name for me was Oga Greg Katsina-Ala
At the end of the program, we went our different ways and did not even keep in touch. Communication was not as easy as it is today. However, when Ben learned about my retirement from the Army, he did not rest until he obtained a number to reach me. By then I did not know that he had gotten employment with UNICEF and, coincidentally he was at the D Field Office in Bauchi. He finally got in contact with me and through his facilitation, I started my second phase of life as a Vaccine Security and Logistics Officer posted to Gombe. That was the beginning of the second phase of my life
Dear Ben, I remember you today as always. I hold your acquaintance most fondly. Rest in peace till we meet to part no more. Oga Greg
From Prof MC Asuzu
March 15, 2020
Roselyn!
It is good to be reminded of Ben at this time; for ANY TIME is good time to do so! Ben was my student here at Ibadan; & I enjoyed being his teacher; for he did things with the utmost passion - his Holy Catholic faith & it's truthful practices, leadership of the various medical students' groups that he led, students' arranged symposia of which he got me to talk in, his return for the MPH degree here & publishing from the work, etc!
I am happy that as his wife you got some deeper touch with those, I would say, PASSIONLESS PASSIONS! God help you to live those holy Passions yourself & to share it with the children till the very end!
MC Asuzu.
MC Asuzu.
GOD’s Angel
March 10, 2020
Hi Sweetheart,
I can’t believe it’s 8 years since you left Mother Earth. Wow how time flies. The children are amazing and keeping me on my toes .
Loads of Happy memories have kept me strong throughout these difficult years. The GRACE OF GOD ALMIGHTY has been with us every step of the way and I wouldn’t have survived this long if not for GOD’s AWESOME LOVE over us.
I miss the roses , pampering, fresh poems ......... but I would never trade the precious years we shared.
You were far wiser, too wise beyond your age and am glad some of that robbed of on me . I keep hearing remarkable things from old friends and sometimes strangers who testify you mentored them.
My Angel you live in our hearts forever.
I can’t believe it’s 8 years since you left Mother Earth. Wow how time flies. The children are amazing and keeping me on my toes .
Loads of Happy memories have kept me strong throughout these difficult years. The GRACE OF GOD ALMIGHTY has been with us every step of the way and I wouldn’t have survived this long if not for GOD’s AWESOME LOVE over us.
I miss the roses , pampering, fresh poems ......... but I would never trade the precious years we shared.
You were far wiser, too wise beyond your age and am glad some of that robbed of on me . I keep hearing remarkable things from old friends and sometimes strangers who testify you mentored them.
My Angel you live in our hearts forever.