David was unique
He was a great performer, and a total natural as the stage was his living room. He was the most generous of all singer/entertainers that I've ever worked with and the most gracious, constantly pumping up his band to try to make us all believe we were the best on the planet, because that's what he always
told us and felt. He was genuinely happy to see us shine on our instruments and loved being part of it. He told me, he always wanted to be part of a band, in other words, not always the front guy. That's what he created with us in a small sense and the position he desired, hence having me come out front to sing and he getting back on the drums, that was all his idea, the song I sang as well. I loved his genuine happiness when he played, like a young child in total bliss. I learned from him.
Don't get me wrong he had some other sides, he was human after all and had been through so much in his incredible life, as well as being internally lonely, I believe.
He could be very mischievous, and even aggravating at times, like an annoying little brother, and beyond but I honestly only witnessed that behavior when Iibations were involved. His real heart was extremely sweet and he was a true friend to me, in fact he used to call me True Blue, when referring to our friendship. When we communicated by phone I would leave him silly operatic messages, mimicking an opera singer, he just got such a kick out of that and would always respond accordingly. I had a phone full of all those messages but thanks to Verizon, lost everything on the phone. It would have been a wonderful keep-sake, but no point in crying over spilled milk, right? (however, I did switch to Mobile!) David and my relationship consisted much on humour and kindness, we always made the situation fun and funny no matter the content, it kept things light, we saw eye to eye on that approach. Of course he had the knack, being the funniest person I've ever known.
DC gave me opportunity in spades and I'm forever grateful to him for it. He always told me, he loved my drumming because I was a musician and not just a drummer, he'd say Hal Blaine was the best but I was up right there beyond all the other drummers he'd worked with because I play MUSIC and not just DRUMS (and he'd worked with the very best!) He said it all the time, especially in the end. Just putting me on the list with Hal Blaine was absolutely massive! DC did a lot for my musical and artistic ego : ) there was a vast space of love in his heart and he enjoyed building his bandmates up! He told me one day, "you'll look back and see this was THE BEST band you ever played with!"
No one was as zaney or wild like DC. He made his band laugh A LOT, intentionally or not. That was one thing we were all great at, as well as making lemonade out of lemons, with the humor that ran within us all! I always loved to get out on the road with my brothers, my band family will always be the DC band. I have many bandmates in this life having played in so many bands and musical situations as I continue to do. Musicians and entertainers as you know, have a comradery as kindred spirits and have a bond with people after making art in sharing a gig or stage, but I only have one band family.
I miss David greatly, there's an empty space that will forever remain his. They say you don't know what you have till it's gone and it's so true, human behavior is such. However, I always saw deep into DC's spirit, loving him for who he truly was, and tried to bypass the outer shell, the residual from the frustrations of what this life had put on him. There's always residual, from the Human Condition and we all have it, which is why I try not to judge. DC gave all he could always! I know from being his friend and from the conversations we'd have, he was tired of the same ol' and maybe just pain tired. He used to tell me how his time in his heyday was the best time to live on this planet. I always figured that anyway. The 60's and 70's were prime, especially for musicians, he lived it at its best and knew it was never going to be that great again! He lived the life!! But still would get up and do it again though he knew that it would never be that great again. I did marvel at his tenacity! We in fact nicknamed him The Comeback Kid! There were times we thought for sure, he was done and we'd never have another gig, and then, low and behold more dates would come in. DC had the true performers mentality, The Show Must Go On!
He gave so many, so much, me being one of them and just like all of you, I'm extremely grateful to have had him in my life. I'm extra grateful to have called him my friend and to love him.
Thank you all for being such loving fans, you know he sees you. He left us all a BOND!
Much love,
Cheers to you all,
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