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Prayer vigil for Gayle - from FB

July 22, 2017

Dear Choir,

 

I have no words to wrap around my appreciation for your musical offerings during our prayer service for Gayle and Mark.  It was truly the most powerful part of the service, lifting us all beyond words to an experience of the Holy Spirit in our hearts and minds and souls.  I know that Gayle and Mark were deeply touched by your music as were all that were in attendance.  Many told me they had never before had such a spiritual experience in a church setting.  One person said she had heard a lot of music in a lot of churches, including ours, but had never before heard anything as deeply moving as Leaning on the Everlasting Arms.

 

Please know that your willingness to serve in this way was a blessing not only to Mark and Gayle but to us all.

 

In His Love,

Davidson United Methodist Church

July 22, 2017
Memorial Service for Gayle Olenik
Gayle Callahan Roberts Olenik died on July 9, 2017 in Huntersville, NC.  She was born in Greenwich, CT to Daniel James Callahan and Katherine Wright Callahan.  She was the granddaughter of Daniel Callahan (nee County Cork, Ireland) and Katie Hamilton Callahan (County Tyrone, Northern Ireland).   She leaves behind her daughter Dawn-Alita Hernandez and son Dan Roberts and spouse Selin; step-daughter Laura  and spouse Frank; husband Mark; sisters Kathleen (Beverly, MA) and Joan Haughs (Greenwich, CT);  grandchildren Victor, Lucas, Barrett, Bella, Daniel, and William as well as many friends.   Gayle taught for many years in the Charlotte-Mecklenburg School System and she retired as Principal of Cornelius Elementary School.  She was a watercolorist, gardener, hiker, kayaker, circle leader, and lifelong student of nature and people.   In lieu of flowers, Gayle requested that you follow your heart as to where you donate funds.  Gayle and Mark like the Novant Health Strides to Strength program, as it allowed Gayle the strength to push through the hard times.  Mark also wishes to thank all platelet and blood donors for their life-saving gift.   There will be a Celebration of Life on Friday, July 14, 2017 at 4:00 p.m. at Davidson United Methodist Church in the Sanctuary.     

JS

July 22, 2017
Gayle was an inspiration to me in life as she advocated for her own children and the many children at Cornelius, as a friend as we worked together as assistant principals and later when she became a principal, as a woman who found true love and devotion later in life, and as she fought her cancer with every breath, yet faced the end of her worldly life with dignity, joyfulness, and unconditional faith in God. Who could want a finer role model?   Again, thanks for sharing the article - and for sharing Gayle.    

CP

July 22, 2017

Gayle was such a caring and accepting person.  She loved and honored all mankind. She was respectful of other people’s opinions and had the ability to present things in a gracious and tactful manner.   She was very even tempered and when asked a question that many would answer with “NO”, she very calmly commented “I’m just not comfortable with that.”     She was very proud of her Irish heritage.  She had a great sense of humor and could laugh on and on!!   One of my favorite visions of Gayle is at their mountain cabin, hiking (where there were most  definitely snakes and bears) in her boots with her Smith and Wesson in a holster strapped on for protection.  That always makes me smile since she is such a gentle person,  She was independent and did not hesitate to go to the mountain cabin alone and  cut the grass there. on their riding lawn mower.  (Did I mention that the front lawn was a steep hill???)  She liked to do that.

from a niece, Aunt Gayle loved the microphone

July 22, 2017

back in September of 1995 when Kyle and I were married (on Dan’s Bday!!), Mom and I had met with the musical director at St Catherine about the music for our wedding mass.  A month before, Kyle and I attended a wedding there where they played Ave Maria, and it was SO LONG, and our friends the bride and groom were just standing there facing the congregation for the entire song, and I can’t lie… it was so awkward!!

  Sooo… I told Mom and the musical director that I did NOT want Ave Maria in our service.  Mom wasn’t too happy about it because she loved the song, but said she would respect my wishes.     Soooooo… Ave Maria was NOT put into the program for our wedding, but at one point during the ceremony, the priest asked us to turn and face the congregation, and next thing we knew… here comes Ave Maria… not kidding.  I will never forget making eye contact with Mom in the first row (with the evil eye), thinking, “Did you really do this?”  But in the end, I think it was just divine intervention… God must’ve wanted that song in our wedding for some reason!!  We all survived, and AG sang Happy Birthday to Dan on the microphone with the band.  I have a picture of that moment in my wedding album because it was one of the highlights of the night.  I will get that one up on FB soon, as I’m sure everyone will love to see it.  

Love you both!!! xoxo

 

from a friend

July 22, 2017

 I want to share an experience that I hope may be comforting to you.  My friend had ovarian cancer.  As she neared the end of her struggle, I spent considerable time with her.  When someone asked me if I knew anyone who truly lived a Christian life, she was the first one I thought of.  Then it occurred to me - she was Jewish.  She did not believe in any life after this one.  I told her - with no doubt whatever - that she was going to have an amazing surprise.  I went through the Old Testament and wrote down the references for all the passages about life after human death that I could find. She and her husband (my cousin) looked them up, but she was not convinced.  

    When the time came, she passed in the middle of the night.  The next morning as I awoke, between sleep and wakefulness, she was there.  I don't remember exact words, but she was glowing with light and joy. The message was, it's true and I'm so happy.

    God's love, Mark's love, and the love of all your friends be with you.

With love and prayers, a friend

Strides for Strength

July 12, 2017

 

 

 Wednesday, 28 September 2016 06:59 Exercise is key to fighting, helping prevent cancer Written by  Dee Jetton  
Team Gayle: From left, Mike Lippard, Gayle Olenik and LaKeisha McAuley. Courtesy Nelson Bynum/HFFA

HUNTERSVILLE, N.C. -- Gayle Roberts Olenik has already beaten the odds. She’s surpassed a remarkable four-year anniversary in her battle with a rare form of overian cancer. Last week, after completing a slew of tests required to enter an immunotherapy clinical trial, her doctor told her, “You won’t be able to join the trial at this time.”

Accustomed to hearing difficult news, she waited. Then he said, “It’s time to celebrate Gayle. Your scans are clear. You’re in remission.” Trained to stay battle-ready, she asked the doctor what she could do to keep fighting. No surprise to Gayle, she said, “Exercise. A lot.”

Results of 12 pooled studies, involving 1.4 million people, recently published in Journal of the American Medical Association Internal Medicine, supports the theory regular exercise reduces cancer risk by 7-38 percent depending on cancer type. Benefits of regular exercise include reducing inflammation, improving production of antioxidants and enhanced immune function. These are all considered important in successful treatment and reduction of side effects.

While more research is needed to fully understand the impact exercise has on survivorship, exercise is generally recommended as a key component of a treatment plan. The American Cancer Society recommends 150 minutes of moderate exercise each week or 75 minutes of higher intensity exercise — or some combination of the two — to help ward off cancer. Diagnosed patients should work under physician and exercise physiologist guidance to insure positive outcomes.

The proof is in the pudding for patients and team members in the Novant Health-Huntersville Cancer Rehabilitation Program. Working at the Huntersville Family Fitness and Aquatics Center, Mike Lippard, clinical exercise physiologist says, “Exercise plays a critical role in survivorship. It helps reduce fatigue if performed in the right dose.”

Novant’s Strides to Strength medical fitness program is designed to assist those preparing for, enduring and recovering from cancer treatment. Clients and patients interact with exercise physiologists and registered nurses while they exercise.

“Carefully constructed exercise and assessment protocols insure a safe and effective process for each patient” says Lippard. The program also provides access to a registered dietitian who helps craft an individualized nutrition strategy.

“The medical fitness program at Huntersville Family Fitness & Aquatics has given me the knowledge and confidence to make exercise a critical part of my recovery,” says Olenik, adding that people she sits with during treatment often ask how she does it. “They say they are too tired to exercise during treatment. I’ve learned to ignore the negative voice of fatigue and get to the gym anyway. I feel so much better when I do.”

Among the benefits, she says, is camaraderie and common ground she finds with the other fitness enthusiasts. “The social benefits are invaluable and they keep my spirits high,” says Olenik.

LaKeisha McAuley, RN, BSN and community nurse educator working in the program, says, “Fatigue is common, making accountability critical.” McAuley adds that being part of a group helps patients get moving even when they don’t feel up to it. “You don’t want to push too hard but it is critical to move. It helps offset side-effects and keeps your body strong to fight. In my experience, those who exercise are more likely to have the perseverance needed to fight the good fight and win.”

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