How do you put words around a person who seemed larger than life itself?
It seems impossible.
A few things I will always remember about you, Ivan, are what a positive, uplifting, encouraging and fun person you have been for others. You had a way of lighting up a room with your energy and positive vibes and had such an easy, “go for it" way of helping people believe in themselves— you helped me in that way, especially. I still remember many years ago when you called me a “star” during a time when I was struggling to build my confidence. Later, I learned you called everyone a star!... but that didn’t matter— your confidence in me encouraged me, anyway.
In the most recent years, I saw what a star you were. You truly inspired me, Ivan, in the way you chose to live your life. I’ve never seen anyone live life so fiercely and joyously all in the same moment. Kate said so well, that your life is a demonstration to us to not waste a minute and anyone who has been touched by your presence, knows that, too.
Rest in peace, dear Ivan and know that your invincible spirit lives on in the hearts and minds of so many people. "Go for it" has a profound, new meaning, because of you.