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Update (June 26, 2024): 
Obituary for Joel Kent Sevy
Our beloved son Joel Kent Sevy passed away on Friday, February 9, 2024, in the beautiful snow-covered mountains north of Beijing, China. He was surrounded by family and friends, enjoying an annual tradition of backpacking on his favorite trail for Lunar New Year’s Eve, when he was collecting firewood for the dinner campfire, lost his footing near an unseen cliff, and fell to his death. He died instantly, free of pain, despite valiant rescue attempts by his father and friends. We are forever indebted to those who carried us through that terrible night.

Joel was inseparable from his best friend and identical twin Leif. They survived a precarious early-term birth together under the loving care of medical staff at the University of Utah NICU, the beginning of many miracles throughout their lives. From then on, they faced every day of life together with a determination to make it the “best day ever.” Observing the closeness and inexpressible beauty of their brotherhood has been, and always will be, an eternal source of joy to us. As toddlers, they tumbled and played like baby pandas in our garden in Copenhagen, Denmark; as kindergarteners, they traipsed through the beaches and jungles with their Cub Scout den from the Taipei American School in Taiwan; and as middle-schoolers, they grew to be athletic young men who also bravely graced the stage as proud seventh-graders at the International School of Beijing. Together they ran cross-country and track and field, sang in the choir and in the school musical, and vigorously recruited friends to the rugby team, with Joel being honored as the player of year. They always signed up for every club together and took classes together like Chinese, design, flag football, and woodworking. On weekends, they loved biking along the river to work on a fort they made out of driftwood, going out for Lanzhou noodles or Indian food,  or to their homemade outdoor boxing gym with friends. Joel loved serving in our church with Leif as deacons, passing the sacrament and ministering to others, and was humbled to be called as the president of his teachers quorum just two weeks before his death. After spending much time in our nation’s capital, Joel and Leif  also had a special admiration for the armed forces, and in particular the incredible young Marines serving at our U.S. Embassy in Beijing, with whom they loved going rock-climbing, visiting a local orphanage over the holidays, and leading an annual fun run for families of children with disabilities from all over Beijing. These same Marines we know and love named Joel an honorary member of their detachment and flew a flag for him over the embassy, which accompanied his casket on the flight home this week from Beijing to Utah.

Joel protected and adored his little sister Paige. He brainstormed ideas and laughed at silly jokes with his older brother Asher. He shared favorite books and a love of family history with his sister Mayah. He spent every Sunday afternoon writing in his journal and searching for ancestors to connect to our family tree. One of his last journal entries included several wrinkled name cards that he taped in to save, wanting to remember our last family vacation together, a special trip to the Sydney Australia temple, in honor of our Australian ancestors.

We grieve the loss of his radiant light in our lives but rejoice in the knowledge that we will be reunited with him one day. Joel is loved and missed by his parents, Travis Mark and Lindsay Leininger Sevy; his siblings Mayah, Asher, Leif, and Paige; grandparents, Greg & Jackie Leininger of South Ogden and Kent & Carol Sevy of St. George, Utah, and by many, many aunts and uncles, cousins, teachers, and friends. We thank all of these beautiful people who blessed his life. Memorials for Joel were held previously in Beijing at our church and school. His funeral will be held on Saturday, June 29, 2024, at 11:00 AM at the Burch Creek Third Ward chapel of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints at 5161 South 1300 East, South Ogden, Utah, with visiting hours from 8:30 to 10:30 AM. 

We hold in our hearts the deepest gratitude for the first responders from the search and rescue teams, police and fire departments, doctors and nurses, and villagers of Huairou, who heroically recovered Joel’s body to return to our family. We would like to thank both the staff of the Babaoshan Funeral Home who have compassionately cared for both Joel and our family for many months, and of the Lindquist Mortuary, who graciously received Joel into their care upon our arrival. We also thank Ambassador Nicholas Burns and our friends with the U.S. Embassy, Beijing United Family Hospital and Rehabilitation Hospital, Mr. Daniel Rubenstein and the International School of Beijing community, and the hundreds and thousands of you around the world who have sustained and cared for our family these past five months as we navigated this tragedy and Travis’s recovery. 

In Joel’s memory, we welcome you to support the Ronald McDonald House of Salt Lake City, which kindly took us in for many months at the time of Joel’s birth, and the Combined Veterans Honor Guard of Weber & Davis Counties, Chapter 70 of the Retired Special Forces Association, the Major Brent Taylor Foundation, the Utah National Guard, and local law enforcement who honorably welcomed him home at the time of his death. 

Original Post: Beloved son, brother, and friend Joel Sevy passed away in a tragic accident on Friday, February 9, 2024, during a backpacking outing with family and friends to celebrate the Lunar New Year. 
We treasure the memory of Joel's warm smile, sense of humor, ready friendship, and enduring goodness. He leaves behind parents Lindsay and Travis, and siblings Mayah, Asher, Paige, and his beloved twin Leif.
Please join us in faith as we work and pray for the preservation of the life of Joel's father, Travis, who is in critical condition after heroically risking his life to save his son*. 
Lindsay and her children have been strengthened by your tender messages of love as they focus all their efforts on Travis at this time.  A GoFundMe page has been setup for those wishing to offer assistance to the Sevy family during this difficult time: https://www.gofundme.com/f/b26zu-joel-kent-sevy?ut...
Messages in all languages are welcome.
深切怀念乔尔
13岁
2010年8月26日出生于美国犹他州盐湖城
2024年2月9日在中国北京去世

我们亲爱的儿子、兄弟和朋友乔尔·塞维(Joel Sevy)于2024年2月9日(周五)与家人和朋友一起背包旅行庆祝农历新年时,发生一起悲惨事故后去世。

我们珍惜乔尔温暖的微笑、诙谐的幽默、乐意的友谊和永久的善良。他身后留下了父母林赛和特拉维斯,兄弟姐妹玛雅、亚舍、佩吉和亲爱的孪生哥哥莱夫。

请和我们一起为乔尔的父亲特拉维斯的生命健康真挚祈祷,他英勇地冒着生命危险救他的儿子,现在情况危急。

你们充满温柔关爱的信息让琳赛和她的孩子们变得坚强,他们目前正把所有的努力放在特拉维斯身上。

敬请留言(可用中文)

*UPDATE from Travis: I can’t thank you all enough for your prayers that have sustained me and my family through this most difficult time. After many days of extensive surgeries, I awoke to the most beautiful memories of our beloved Joel and your expressions of faith and love that are bringing about miraculous healing. Both our family and the scores of devoted medical professionals who have been working around the clock to save my life have been astonished by the results. I want so badly to reach out to each one of you personally to thank you for your role in these miracles. For the next few months, I will be in full-time specialized rehabilitation here as I work to regain the ability to walk and use my arms. You all know how much I cry, so until I can use my hands again, know that I’ll be sending my love through my tears.
February 13
February 13
Dear Lindsay and Sevy Family,

I am sharing my deepest condolences for this tragic loss and we are praying for Travis’s speedy recovery. Our heartsbroke once we first heard the news so we will pray for the Sevy family and Joel as he enters the gates of heaven.
February 13
February 13
Dear Joel,
Though this life is short, I believe you are filled with the blessings of love.
We will miss you.
February 13
February 13
Dear Joel,
We were not familiar to each other but we have been in the same choir class together. You sang really good and participate to the class. You bring joy to all of us.
Thank you and rest in peace, Joel.
February 13
February 13
Dear Joel,
I met you and your twin brother when you were little kids at the age of 5. Your father told us your chinese name is Enlai Zhou 周恩来. Your smile and manner looked really like a diplomat, which impressed me most . I was shocked and so sad by the accident. Pray for no illnesses or pain in heaven.
February 13
February 13
Today, we gather to remember my dear friend Joel from the Shrek production. When I first met him, his kindness and positive energy touched my heart in a special way. Joel's love for acting brought so much happiness to our lives, and I will forever treasure the memories we made together. I miss him dearly, but I will carry his spirit of kindness and liveliness with me always. Rest in peace, Joel. You will never be forgotten.
February 13
February 13
Sevy Family,

We love you and we are praying for you.

Jerome & Nancy
February 13
February 13
Prayers and strength for the family

I have never met either Joel or his family . I can feel the enormous emotions you are going through and send deepest condolence to entire family and prayers and strength to navigate yourself through this difficult moment. May the soul rest in peace.
February 13
February 13
To our wonderful friends, the Sevy Family,

We want you to know how much we love you all and are grieving with you. Heather and I started a special fast the moment we received news of this horrible accident. And we pray every day that God’s angels will be near you during this challenging time. 

Joel was such a great kid. I remember seeing him box at a YM event. He definitely punched well above his weight! Always cheerful, always ready with a warm smile, Joel was great to be around. He will be sorely missed.

Travis, we are praying for your speedy and complete recovery. May God continue to surround you all in His loving and healing embrace. We are here for you all in any way you need.

Todd and Heather Woodruff
February 13
February 13
I know this is a terrible thing that had happened to Joel and I am very sad that we had lost a member of ISB, I had seen Joel perform on stage in the CNY performance, he spread his happiness to all students and teachers, wish the best to the family. Wish Joel have a wonderful remaining years in the other world.
February 13
February 13
I have never had the opportunity to meet the Sevy family, but as a mother of an ISB dragon, I cannot even begin to imagine the pain from losing a child. May Joel stay forever young in heaven. I pray that God continue to give strength to Lindsay and the rest of the Sevy children. Our family’s prayers continue as Travis goes in for the major surgery at 9am February 15 Beijing time and we pray for a successful surgery. May God continue to watch over the Sevy family.
February 13
February 13
I never really knew Joel that well, but he was always such a wonderful person to have around. I pray that Travis will heal and recover, and I send love and prayers towards the Sevys. Although I was never close with Joel, I have regret that I never got to know him, because I know he was a great person. I don’t really know how to describe the sadness I feel, and it’s difficult to take in as reality, and I know it is probably harder for his family. I wish him the best. I know his memory will live on, and that we will see him again. Rest in peace Joel. -Petra Duerden
February 13
February 13
Dear Sevy Family,

Words cannot express how incredibly saddened and shocked we were to hear of Joel’s passing. You have our deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences.
We hope and pray for Travis that he may recover soon.
I had the pleasure of being one of the MS Track and Field coaches last year and having Joel as part of that group. My abiding memory of the season was of Joel (and Leif) always being the only ones to complete the full warm-up – 2 laps of the track followed by the stretches. Joel may not have been the fastest athlete we coached, but he (and Leif) were our most committed and most dedicated. We will miss his positive energy this season.
May Joel’s gentle soul rest in peace.
Tom, Sarah-Jane, Kieran, and Addie
February 13
February 13
I love you my sweet nephew. You will be missed immensely. I have always been so proud you in all you have done. I am so thankful for your family. I pray for Travis, Lyndsay and the Children. May you watch over them always. ❤️
February 13
February 13
Dear Sevy Family,

My deepest condolences to your family in this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Although, I did not teach Joel, every time I did see him in the halls his beautiful smile and warm hello lit up the space. That same light in him, comes from your family. In the short time that I’ve known you all, I have always seen the light that circles around you all and it fills others up with gladness. It’s been truly contagious and welcomed. Despite these current trials, let the light continue to shine. If the load feels too heavy, let those you’ve touched along the way, help. My family will continue to pray for healing and recovery for Travis and the strength, comfort and healing for the rest of your family. Sending you all love.

“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” (Psalms 147:3)

Davenport-Palmer Family.
February 13
February 13
Dear Sevy family, we are so sorry and heartbroken with you all for the loss of your son Joel. I'm praying for Travis's safety and full recovery, and for your whole family as you grieve Joel's loss. We will pray and fast as well. Jorgelina & Juan Cruz
February 13
February 13
I will forever miss Joel's smile and positive aura that he brought to everything he did. He was a beautiful soul. Much love and god bless to the Sevy family during this tragic time. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
February 13
February 13
Dear Lindsay, Travis, Sevy Family, I am holding all of you in my heart. I will remain in eternal prayer for Joel, Travis' recovery, and the whole family. Love, prayers, strength to you all.
February 13
February 13
Dear Sevy family- we were in Beijing with you and lived in River Garden. We remember seeing your loving family and working with Travis. We are so, so saddened with what has happened and think of all of you every minute of everyday. The Gormleys
February 13
February 13
Lindsey,
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. Our family is all praying for you and your family especially Travis. Stay strong. The Lord knows and loves you and is wrapping His arms around you. My heart is broken for you.
Love you,
Nedra
February 13
February 13
Dear Sevy's family,

We pray for comfort in knowing that we shall see Joel again in heaven.

We pray for peace amidst all the hurt. We pray for strength that only Jesus can provide.

We send our love and prayers.

Tony, Carol, Nish and Irush.
February 13
February 13
To the Sevy family, my prayers are with all of you right now. You have all been such dear friends to me for so many years. I cannot imagine all the pain and heartache you must be going through. Joel's memory will always be a blessing, and we will continue to pray for Travis' recovery.
February 13
February 13
Dear Lindsay and family,
I am so sorry to hear of the tragic accident and loss you’ve suffered. Please know that all of us who know and love you from very far away are thinking of and praying for you and your sweet family.
E W
February 13
February 13
Our deepest condolences to your family during this unimaginably difficult time. May you find comfort in cherished memories and strength in each other's and God's love as you navigate through this loss.
February 13
February 13
Dear Joel,
We are so lucky to have known you. You welcomed us on your family trips and the presence of the Sevy clan at baseball games - with signs, pom poms, and Cracker Jacks brought all the way from the States – to cheer on the whole team are memories I will always cherish. Your family is one of the kindest, warmest, and most generous we have ever met. We will miss you greatly. Our hearts are with the entire family and we pray for Travis’s full recovery.
February 13
February 13
Dear Sevy Family,

I love you guys so much! I’m so sorry that your family is going through this difficult time right now. Your handsome son Joel is so precious. Our family is honored to join all the other families in praying and fasting for Travis’ recovery and for comfort for your family at this time. 
February 13
February 13
To the Sevy family, who has been the brightest light in my life and the lives of so many others. Words cannot express the grief you are going through at this time, and I cry with you as I pray for your family, for Joel and for Travis, for Lindsay and Mayah, for Asher and Leif, and for Paige. My deepest love and support to you all, we love you.
February 13
February 13
We are with you at this moment ,I know nothing can describe your pain and all the sorrow you are going through. We pray .
February 13
February 13
Joel and all of the precious Sevy family, I will hold you in my heart as you navigate such an incredible loss. It was my absolute pleasure to know both Joel and Leif as 6th graders at ISB. Joel was a dependable new student buddy and always a solid welcoming friend. I depended on him to bring new students into the fold. He had a goofy smile and a tender heart. I will remember him playing with friends on the G6 camping trip and bringing joy and jokes with him.
February 13
February 13
Travis, Lindsay, Mayah, Asher, Paige, and Leif, we are utterly heartbroken. Love, lots of love, to all of you. 
February 13
February 13
Dear Lindsay, Travis, and wonderful family,
The weeks in summer that you visited Greg and Jackie in the BC3rd ward are some of my very favorite times. It's been a joy to see you there and watch and your family grow. I especially loved having Joel and Leif in my Sunday School class. Exceptional young men, and I loved how well they knew the gospel and were willing to share their experiences, and help my testimony grow. I'm heartbroken to hear this news. Praying for peace, comfort, and healing. Much love, Shantal
February 13
February 13
Joel,

While we didn't get to know each other - your life touched many, as attested by so many loving comments. Your father sung of his pride and deepest love for you over the office walls in Political. Prayers and love for the Sevy family during this most difficult time.
February 13
February 13
Dear Joel,
你好,
我叫劳伦..(Lauren Leininger)
我是你的表姊(?)..or in English culture and terms, your 1st cousin once removed.

I didn't know you very well, but am glad that I had the privilege to meet you at least once. My dad, you probably knew him as "Uncle Doug", and I were invited to your home in China for dinner.

You and Leif were about 6 or 7 and so little back then, but you definitely had that spark of intelligence beyond your age and seemed kind and, though my exact memory is unclear I have a feeling that you were also creative. You were also very adorable. I know, I know- so embarrassing, but it's true!
You can blame the "Leininger genes" for that. Haha, I'm just kidding. You were definitely a good mix of your parents; both in looks and character and kindness.

I, we, my parents, my family, really all of your family are praying for your Mom and Dad and your siblings who are heartbroken that you've gone. Too young, too sudden. But, I'm sure you know that and understand much more. I know that in heaven you are okay, unharmed, and feel happiness and peace.

And, even though you know, I just wanted to say how much we all love you, and that your 13 years have undoubtly left a loving, continuous impression of your personality and character and happy memories that will always be with your family. And, I hope that it will comfort them now and in the future when they miss you most.
I hope to meet you again someday,
Love, Lauren
February 13
February 13
We always love when your family visits the Burch Creek 3rd ward. Not only for the warmth and friendship that each of you offer, but because you all bring so much enthusiasm. We loved to see Joel pass the sacrament. When we first moved into the ward, Travis was one of the first to welcome us and make us feel at home. And he was visiting! Our ward will be grieving and praying with you, and our family will too. Love, The Spencers
February 13
February 13
Dear Joel,
I honestly can’t name one interaction I had with you that wasn’t super positive and fun, you always made me laugh and I’m so grateful for how kind and welcoming you were to my little brother. Rest in peace Joel
February 13
February 13
My heart is aching at seeing this news. I’m fasting and praying and crying with you. Lindsay, you have helped me be a better mom by sharing your experiences with me. I’m so sorry you are going through this. Praying your whole family can feel the Savior’s peace and promises as you navigate through this!
February 13
February 13
Heavenly Father,
We come to you in a time of sorrow. Our hearts are heavy, and we feel overwhelmed with grief for this family and all they have endured. Lord, we ask for your comfort and strength during this difficult time for this family.
We can’t fathom the pain of losing a child and ask for your grace over them. Give them peace to accept that their child is now with you in Heaven. Help them cope with the emptiness and loneliness we know that they feel in their hearts.
Help them to find strength to go on and to find joy in the moments of life. Help them to focus on the good memories that we have and to find comfort and solace in them. Give them the courage to continue and find joy despite the pain. We know their child is in your loving arms and ask for your continued presence and guidance in their lives. Amen. ~ Chaplain M. Ilnicky
February 13
February 13
Travis - you have always been the best “big cousin” and someone I look up to and admire. You tell the best stories and make everything more fun in the most creative and wholesome ways. What a story you have to tell now of the deepest love, perseverance, and faith in this heart shattering tragedy. I’m looking forward to hearing you tell it yourself when you make it through this continued healing process for your physical body, and when your spirit is ready to share. I wish I had the opportunity to know your kids personally, but knowing that they’re you and Lindsay’s kids lets me feel close to them and the larger than life people they must be. My heart and prayers are with all of the Sevys- love you all so, so much.
February 13
February 13
Heartbreaking news. Sending our love and prayers to your family, hoping that you may find comfort and solace, and that Travis may recover fully.
February 13
February 13
Our family hasn’t stopped thinking and praying for your family. We will continue to be aware of ways to support in anyway possible. We love you. ♥️
February 13
February 13
We are just devastated by this news, and your family is in our hearts and prayers at this time. We haven’t been lucky enough to see Joel for many years, but we have so many delightful memories of him and Leif as rambunctious toddlers playing with Nellie. We are sending so much love to your family and we will be joining others in fasting and praying for Travis. There isn’t a better, more devoted father and we can only imagine his heroism in trying to save his beloved son. We pray that he will have the strength to heal, and we hope you can feel our love across the miles. With love, Chris, Chelsea and the kids
February 13
February 13
Our hearts are simply aching for you guys. We are so sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Lindsay and Family! We LOVE you all so much. We are praying for Travis and your whole family. ❤️❤️❤️
February 13
February 13
Dear Sevy Family,
Our hearts are broken for your family. We are praying for you.
Monica (Staheli) Carling
February 13
February 13
Dear Joel,
I never knew you well but we went on the Suzhou trip together. You were always so bright and happy. I had Leif in my class last year and I often saw you two together. We will never forget you, rest in peace Joel. Best wishes to you for the rest of your journey.
February 13
February 13
Nuestra mas sentidas condolencias por su hijo Trevis, estaran en nuestras oraciones y ayuno. El Señor estara con ustedes
February 13
February 13
Dear Travis and Lindsay, we are thinking of you constantly during this time of terrible loss. The Kaohsiung missionaries are also thinking of you, praying and fasting for you. You are both a light in our lives. Joseph and I never met Joel but I am sure he was just like you. We love you and mourn with you.
February 13
February 13
Dear Sevy Family,

I cannot begin to understand what you all are experiencing right now. Please know I am grieving with you all and that I am deeply saddened by your family’s loss of Joel and the injuries of Travis. Praying for Travis’s recovery. Mayah, I love you so much and am always here.
February 13
February 13
I know I can’t understand how much pain the Sevy family is in, and probably never will.



So… the first time I’ve met Joel was in 5th grade (MY FIRST YEAR AT ISB), in which he was in my class. He was a pretty cool dude, or at least I thought, and I respected him and saw him as a friend. Then, in 6th grade, I was put in a class with his twin brother Leif, which I really liked. I thought of his as a best friend, even though he probably didn’t think the same as me. Then, as we moved on to 7th grade, I got even closer to Leif (well, I do certainly hope so). I guess you could say I started caring for Leif more, in a platonic sense.

How this all wraps around to Joel? When I first heard the news, the first thing I thought was about how young Joel was. Way too young. I was kinda in denial for a bit. My immediate next thought was how Leif would react. I realised how scared I was for Leif. How I don’t think he deserves to feel sad. (I may or may not have done a bit of researching on how to help someone going through a traumatic experience…)

I already lost a friend, I didn’t want to lose another.

Because I don’t think I’m talking clearly, what I actually mean is that Joel, Leif, and no one in the Sevy family deserved this. I don’t understand at all how such an awesome and cool and kind family has to go through this kind of thing.

This is for the Sevy family, especially Leif. Please, take my word for it, try to heal. Don’t bury yourself in guilt and grief, don’t push everyone away, don’t blame yourself.

This is probably isn’t great, but I think my biggest concern right now is Leif. Please. I really hope Leif is doing okay. (You can always talk to me)

I hope you’re gonna be okay.






I’m probably gonna regret writing this tomorrow because it sounds like a bunch of cheesy…stuff, but I’m being real. After writing so much, I don’t even think I got half of what I’m feeling on here. God, I sound so much like my therapist.(this is so long)

god this, whole thing is a hot mess. This whole situation is a hot mess.
February 13
February 13
Dear Sevy family, I'm so sorry and heartbroken with you all for the loss of your son and brother Joel. I'm praying for Travis's safety and recovery, and for your whole family as you grieve Joel's loss.
February 13
I had this video on a phone I've since lost of Joel and Leif making faces at themselves in our bathroom mirror in Beijing while Brother Sevy feverishly tried to wipe chocolate off their little mouths. Though it is such a short video taken at a random time it always brought a smile to my face whenever I would stumble across it scrolling through my photos. Joel and Leif are such rays of sunshine that never cease to make me laugh. Joel will be so terribly missed. We are praying harder than we have in a long time for your family and particularly Brother Sevy our beloved seminary teacher and example in all things good.
February 13
February 13
Lindsey and Travis, my condolences! I am so sorry to hear this! I remember it as yesterday when Peter and I went to your place in Copenhagen, and Joel and Leif were just little babies trying to get around and Asher rappelling indoor, and I remember we broke the lamp in the front hallway! Your entire family is in my prayers!
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May 2
When Joel and Leif were babies we spent a lot of time visiting them in DC. I loved any chance I had to rock Joel to sleep. My favorite thing was walking him around and holding him in their extra bedroom in their apartment and trying to gently put him in bed so he wouldn’t wake up. I’ve loved seeing him grow up, and every time we’ve been together over the summers, he has been such a wonderful cousin and friend. I’ve never seen boys who are so welcoming and kind and generous to the younger kids as the Sevy boys. I hope my boys become just like Joel as they grow up.
March 16
Dear Sevy Family,

We want to express our deepest sympathy from Taipei. Joel was such a big part of what made Oren’s earliest years at TAS amazing. Whether it was playing baseball, camping with the scouts, attending birthday parties, or just hanging out, the memories they made are solidly a part of “the good old days”. The friend group that was formed in the fall of 2016 still holds strong, even over time and distance. We are sending all of our love and prayers as you navigate this unexpected journey.

Love,
Oren, Jason, Jenessa, and Lewis Van Schooneveld
March 15
March 15
Dear Sevy Family
It is really sad that makes us all feel helpless and heartbroken, but please believe that our support will always be with you, please take care of your health and recover soon. if there is anything we can do to help, please tell us.


Beibei From Tianjin
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My Friend Joel

June 18
I have known Joel for 2 years at ISB, it has been my honor being his friend and privilege to have known him and had played with him. Our first memory that we shared with him was when we had to play the ukulele with him during music class last year. From then on, we became great friends, I would even say best friends (we have lots of best friends)!

He was a part of 7-2, our class, and had lit the room around us with his enthusiastic smiles. He had a great sense of humor and lifted all of us up when things get down. To have shared memories with this awesome young man and to have flew with him as we traveled across time. 

Knowing joel

June 18
-Andrew Hope
Joel was my best friend, I knew Joel for around 2 years. He was always so kind in class and made everybody laugh. My favorite story about him was when our class was doing a secret-santa game where you had to get gifts for somebody and everybody had to guess who gave them the gift. Me and joel secretly discussed about who we thought would be the secret santa. When the day came, he surprised me with a stuffed animal beagle, because he knew I loved beagles! I still have the beagle to this day. I really miss Joel.
He was a great friend.
June 9
I had the privilege to get to know Joel while he was in my homeroom and mentoring group. The word I think of when I think about my memories of Joel is engagement—he was always fully engaged, even when it wasn’t something others were excited about or confident to try. On our mentoring trip in the fall, Joel’s enthusiasm for a bunch of silly games like mustache ball helped pull in others who were more reluctant. Of course, some of his enthusiasm may have stemmed from the fact that I told him my mentoring group won a medal the previous year. He also loved a bit of competition! That first evening, our mentoring group bonded over eating bowls and bowls of white rice, at some points laughing so hard they were in tears. Joel did more than his fair share to contribute to the large consumption of food at that table. The next day they broke the standing record for bowls of white rice eaten. He was the one who took a very routine mentoring activity that made other kids groan and made it fun. He took a picture of his bicep for a “digital tattoo” assignment, saved the picture, and named his bicep. He brought so much joy. I will also always remember our last two days before the Chinese New Year break. Joel and some of his classmates had complained about having to do a Chinese dance and be on the front row of the dance, but in the performance Joel was all in. More than any kid I’ve met, he had figured out that if you fully engage, you get more out of whatever you are doing. On our final half day at school, our homeroom activity was lantern making and it turned out to be super challenging. Quite a few students gave up. But not Joel. He stayed there for a long time, reconstructing the frame of his delicate lantern, even as the last few people trickled out of the gym. He was so determined to have something to show for all the time spent there. He will forever be a part of our 7-2 family.


My own family will continue to keep your family in our prayers in the weeks and months to come.

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