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Medal from the King of Spain (2017)

January 16
La Orden de la Cruz de Isabel la Católica

In 2017, Joy was honored by King Felipe VI of Spain with “La Orden de la Cruz de Isabel la Católica”, one of the highest civil honors awarded by the Spanish government for individuals fostering the study of Spanish language and culture.

From Wikipedia, "The Royal Order of Isabella the Catholic (Spanish: Real Orden de Isabel la Católica) is a Spanish civil order of chivalry and honour granted to persons and institutions in recognition of extraordinary services to the homeland or the promotion of international relations and cooperation with other nations."

Read more on the Wellesley College website here.

Joy was full of LIFE and ENERGY! (Dancing)

January 16
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Joy, Don, and Sally dancing!

This video reminds me of a quintessential Joy story.

One time a big group of us went to a Rolling Stones concert. As usual, Joy was very busy and up against a deadline the next day... she needed to correct a very large stack of student papers for the end of the semester. But instead of staying home to work, Joy went to the concert with us.

Not only did she continue to correct papers on the drive to the concert, but she continued to Joyfully correct papers DURING the concert! Smiling, dancing, and holding the colored pens in her teeth so she could easily access them to make corrections/comments on the student papers. She loved her work... it was one of the central aspects of her life, and it brought out her natural energy and passion.

Thank you Susan Mraz for the wonderful video. It really shows mom's spirit. 

Tribute from Wellesley College Provost Shennan - July 25, 2024

February 10
Our beloved colleague, Joy Renjilian-Burgy, Associate Professor emerita of Spanish, died on January 14 at the age of 81. 
Joy retired from the faculty in the summer of 2022 after 43 years of service. Over that long career here, she was one of the College’s leading experts in foreign language and literature pedagogy, a brilliant instructor of Spanish, a mentor, ally, and friend to generations of students and alums, and a tireless advocate for educational equity. 
Joy was committed body and soul to this community: it often seemed that there was no meeting or lecture she did not attend, no varsity athletic team she did not cheer on, no cultural event or Shakespeare Society play or Ruhlman or Tanner panel she missed. For more than four decades she was a fixture in our collective life.
Joy came to Wellesley in 1979 after doing her graduate work at Harvard and with an A.B. in Spanish from Mount Holyoke College. Her excellence as an instructor was recognized with the award of the Pinanski Prize just four years after her arrival here. 
She taught the complete sequence of introductory, intermediate, and advanced intermediate language courses in Spanish, and also developed a broad suite of literature courses, ranging from Christians, Jews, and Moors: The Spirit of Spain in Its Literature to Latin American Film, Hispanic Literature in the United States; and Cuban Literature and Culture. 
She taught a Writing course on Love and Death in Spanish Writers and important Education department courses on World Language Methodology and on the Theory and Practice of Teaching English as a Second Language. 
Her expertise in pedagogy was deployed not just in our classrooms but in the co-creation of Spanish language textbooks, multi-media language programs, and readers, all of which became widely adopted and appeared in multiple editions. 
Joy’s professional standing was exemplified in the leadership roles she played in numerous organizations: she was president of the American Association of Teachers of Spanish and Portuguese (AATSP), the Massachusetts Foreign Language Association (MAFLA), the Spanish Cultural Association of New England, and New England Council on Latin American Studies. 
Her service here at Wellesley was similarly distinguished: she was Chair of the Spanish department, co-director of Latin American Studies, founding and long-serving director of the College’s Mellon Mays Undergraduate Fellowship Program, co-creator and executive director of our study abroad program at the University of Cordoba in Spain, faculty representative to the Wellesley Aid Society, our Faculty Athletic Representative for the NCAA, and the director of a summer bridge program for entering students in the 1980s and 1990s.
Joy grew up in a family of survivors of the Armenian Genocide, and she often traced her ethic of service and community to that fact. In addition to all her professional service, she was active in the Armenian community. She was president of the Armenian International Women’s Association (AIWA), a life trustee of the Armenian Library and Museum of America, and co-editor of several volumes of Armenian literature.
Service to students was at the heart of Joy’s remarkable contribution to Wellesley. One of her students once described her as “hands down the most giving professor I know”. Many recalled the small acts of kindness she so often performed – driving them to the train station before fall or spring break, helping them return books to the library in the pouring rain, lending them jewelry to wear in interviews. Her students noted that she was blessed with a first name that suited her perfectly. I will leave the last word to one of those grateful students, 
“Joy gives all of herself to her students both as a professor and as a mentor. I remember being amazed at the degree of energy she exhibited at student events after a full day of classes and committee meetings. She was the only professor we knew [who] would be present at our student sponsored poetry readings and lectures. I realize now that Joy is able to access a wealth of resources within herself because she approaches her job with profound love. This love allows Joy to define her job as a professor in a broad and generous manner.”
Please join me in a moment of silence for Professor Joy Renjilian-Burgy.

Bring a little Joy to your life.

February 18
They say that everyone is connected to anyone else in the world by 6° of separation, however, it’s people like joy who bring that number down to two or 3°. She was like a queen bee, who played central role in all of our lives; bringing people together and making connections anywhere she went. Whether it was at a restaurant, a conference, a Red Sox, Celtics, or Patriots game, or any other event, Joy commanded attention from everyone.  She performed countless acts of kindness & generosity everywhere. She was like the the first domino that, when knocked over, creates an impressive cascade of inspirational designs. 

I met Joy in 1994 in the lobby of the New York Hilton. In a former life, I was an editor at Houghton Mifflin. I had an idea for a Spanish program and was searching for authors. Joy’s name came up time and time again, so I knew I needed to meet her.  As soon as we met, I knew that we could work together. We put together a team, and in the following weeks, we began to craft a plan for Caminos. Shortly after, I was called in the publisher’s office and was fired. I was told I had no good projects on my plate. As soon as I left her office, she called Joy and told her that I had decided to leave and wanted to make sure that the project would still go forward since it was one of the best projects in the pipeline. Since Joy knew that I would never leave without telling her. she told the publisher there would be no project, unless I was signed on as a co-author too. That one act of kindness & generosity changed my life forever and I know that she did the same for so many others throughout her life. 

Now it is up to all of us to continue her legacy by following her example. 

Here are 10 other ways to bring a little Joy to your life. 

1.Eat lots of good food including chocolate, cape cod chips, popcorn & don’t forget to go to “Shrunky dunky” for your coffee.

2.Intentionally wear mismatched earrings. Just because.

3.Always wear red lipstick!

4.Pack your own maple syrup when going out for breakfast.

5.Claim that it’s someone’s birthday when going out to dinner to get a free dessert!

6.Always tip generously.

7.Always ask for extra sauce!

8.Call expensive things “goochie poochie”

9.Order flan because it is “flantástico”!

10.And, always pack ziploc bags in your purse for leftovers.

1970’s

February 18
My early memories of Joy go back to the early 1970’s when Joy and Don lived two doors away in Bradford. I remember telling Joy how challenging it was reading about ten pages a day of one of Kafka’s novels in German for my Highschool German class. Joy was driving into Boston every day for her doctorate classes at Harvard and told me she was reading about 800 pages a week in Spanish! (And I may be misremembering that it was 800 pages per day!) Either way, it made me appreciate that I didn’t have it so bad after all!

This was also when I was having to drive 10 miles to and from school every day. I think Joy was sort of my guardian angel, and always insisted I borrow her old Ford Falcon (stick shift) when we had cold snow days and no other cars in the neighborhood would start.

I will always remember Joy’s laugh and smile (which makes me smile just thinking about it!) and her incredible generosity! What an amazing woman. I am blessed to have known her!

TWO Turkeys are better than one! (Joy loved to cook!)

January 19
Joy's cooking is legendary. Not only did she love to cook, but serving food to the many weekly/nightly guests who came to the Wellesley house was a key part of how Joy loved and cultivated her extended family. 

Holidays were especially important, and often found 30-40 people crowding into Joy and Don's home to eat, laugh, and be in community together.

One tradition that started when Lucien and Sarkis were in middle school was "The day after Thanksgiving football game!", a gathering of all of "Luke n Sark's" friends on the field next to their house to play a friendly football game, followed by a huge feast of the many delicious leftovers from the Thanksgiving party the day before. 

Well, the first year the event was planned, but alas, all the turkey had been eaten or sent home with friends/family the day before.

What was Joy's reaction to this dilemma?... "I'll just cook another turkey." she said!

And so she did. After hosting Thanksgiving for 30+ people the day before, mom did it all again the next day and cooked a 2nd turkey for her sons and their friends. 

Pure Joy.  :) 

To Joy with love from Catherine

February 12
Joy and Don have always been the kindest people with me since I arrived at Wellesley ; They were the best family for me. She is the one who organized a party at her house when I got tenure. After my husband Claude died, Joy is the person who helped me the most when I was not well ; she was a wonderful friend. I will never forget her kindness and friendship and all the fun we had together (even during Covid-19, as soon as it was possible, the three of us had dinner at Captain Marden every week). We also celebrated many good moments at my place over the years! They were a family for me I am grateful for that! Thanks to Joy, I never felt alone in Wellesley. Joy was a star in my sky! Even though she said good bye to all of us who loved her, when you look at the sky, you will see her star twinkling ****

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