On Sunday, May 26, 2013 I attended church in Las Vegas. I love going to this church, because you would have loved the service, and the organists smoked the hymns. Our regular organists was not there due to knee surgery; he was from Disney, and he played the organ liked I have never heard. It was a service I would not have wanted to miss.

And, of course we honored today those who had served and gave their upmost to our country. I was so proud of you, giving 9 yrs of your life to our country, and if the truth was really known, most likely your life because of the years in Vietnam, and your exposure to agent orange, which I know contributed to your brain cancer. Can't prove it of course, but your passing was to fast.

On Monday, 27 May, 2013, I watched the National Memorial program like we normally did in the past; of course cried with the music and the unbelievable stories of dedication and sacrifice. I am posting a song I found that shares my eternal love for you which I am posting under STORIES. I know these words would be expressed by you to me and me to YOU. Can't sleep again, and miss YOU more now

• I miss you when something good happens, because you’re the one I want to share it with.• I miss you when something is troubling me, because you’re the one that understands me so well.• I miss you when I laugh and cry, because I know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow and my tears disappear.• I miss you all the time, but I miss you the most when I lay awake at night, and think of

Barry your missed very much and I think of you all the time....when I think about you..I think about your big smile and thous Blue eyes and how well you took care of all of us but must of all Donald , Harlen and Misty...make us drinks on the back porch and making sure we could feed the koi......or the roses in front of the house....you driving us up to lone pine many times..my favorite driving to

dear Barry, you will never be forgotten an live in my heart forever. love you always, johanna

Barry we sure miss your [special golden California margarita's ] and your quick wit and smile...love karrie  misty misses you too..love ya

I have been thinking of Barry and Donald all month.......remembering his (our) birthday and the wonderful times we shared together........he was a true gentleman and a good friend.......the world is better for him having lived in it........Barry, may you rest in peace.......Donald, may you be comforted by your memories and the love you shared.

I will always remember you with love. My favorite memory of you is when you were Denny's best man at our wedding in 2000. Whenever I watch the nascar races, you are in my thoughts. 
I will always love and miss you.
Donald you are always in our thoughts and our prayers.

Time does not wait for no one, it rushes toward us, and now I find another year has passed. GOD's hands touched and cradled you in his love two years ago today. December of each year is so filled with memories of you like no other month, and today my heart is so burden with grief and loneliness. I miss you so much each passing day, and now those days have added another year!. I love you

I look for you constantly, knowing you are always near. I know you are not far when I touch your urn and it is warm; that time makes me a loving glow of hope, and a feeling you are no longer in that place that created so much pain those last few weeks of your life on earth. Knowing you are in GOD's love is comforting. GOD Bless YOU, sweetie.

I have never seen anyone miss someone like Donald misses you. It hurts all to see him in so much pain. His love for you is constant, and today is a day to remember you in a special way, and the fun we always had, especially the adventure with you to Lake Tahoe and Lone Pine. I am so glad we experienced this journey with you. We miss you so.

Thinking so fondly of you and the inspritation you continue to provide for others. May your spirit always be a support for Donald and the love you share.

I hope you know what an inspiration you have been to me and I am sure so many others. Love you and mss you, Uncle Barry.....

The warmth and fun of your heart will always be felt and cherished.

Though you have now traveled to an everlasting life, I could not let today past by without recognizing that today would had been your birth, a joyous day that someday would bring you into my life everlasting. I miss celebrating your special day, thus, not to be out done by death, I moved our beloved Misty's birthday to your special day; Misty will celebrate her birthday on your special day

Captain, my dearest one, your day will always be special to me as long as I live. Not sure what to do tomorrow, but rest assure I will be thinking of you, our more happy moments, and how much I love, even more than I can imagine. GOD did bless us with the love we have for each other. Remembrance is eternity life, and with the advent of Christ, I have eternal love. Oh how I miss you!

Happy Birthday! It is now two more years since we shared your last birthday together, surrounded by dear and lovely friends. We are still here with you. I love you Barry. May GOD hold you near and within his arms today, his creation, and your maker. What a wonderful gift he gave us even if it was for a short period. Love, Donald

I recall the time when Donald and Barry visited NYC back in the 80's and we all had a marathon theater and dinner fest. We all saw Phantom of the Opera, Les Miz and Sunset Boulevard and then dining at Tavern on the Green and the Rainbow Room, just to name a few. It was a wonderful time had by all and it is a memory I will cherish forever.

Happy Birthday, Barry! It was always an honor and such fun to share a birthday with you.........you are loved and missed. I was blessed having had you as a friend........your loving, kind, fun, considerate personality made having you in my life a wonderful addition. I have many happy memories of fun times with you and Donald, and I treasure them. Watch over him and all of us.

Thinking of you today, has I do many days. Hope you and Todd are having a drink to celebrate your birthday. You are in our thoughts.Thinking of Donald too

Uncle Barry I miss you so much, treasure each moment we had together, and am so thankful to have had you in my life. I have vivid memories of how loving you were to me, how you always knew how to make me feel like a princess, and to feel truly special and loved by you. From what i have read here today, I know that you made a difference to so many people, you continue to inspire me. <3u&Don

i also wanted to add that my precious times with you and Donald were always filled with laughter, fun and feelings of love, my only regrets that i did not get to spend more time with you both. I love you and miss you Uncle Barry ~T

Hello my darling,
I haven't been here for awhile, but today on our 40th anniversary, I had to let you know how much I miss you each day of my life; it is still like yesterday you were here, and only hours ago,we held hands on our special day. You stopped speaking the next day after our 38th anniversary. You just looked at me, UNTIL.

Hi Barry.........Miss you . Bob and I had some special time with you and Donald and we hold that dear to us. You were a kind and soft spoken man. We miss you. Till we meet again.
Bob and Bonny

I have wonderful memories of my brother Barry who shared many great adventures with me. One such adventure was in Oahu, Hawaii at Waimea Falls. I was 6 and Barry was 8 years old. We both swam like fish, and Barry loved to high dive. The top of Waimea Falls was 60 feet from the pool below and the midpoint was about 40 feet. Barry talked me into climbing the rock wall up to the midpoint and diving o

I am so proud of you, Donald, for all the love and devotion you showed Barry in his last days with you.You took such good care of him and made his days more tolerable. Our time together on the Alaskan cruise in 2009 where Joe and I met you both was the highlight of our trip, especially when you found out we were from Beaufort, SC. We shared many fun nights and day trips and laughs.

DEAR DONALD FOR ME BARRY NEVER PAST I WILL ALLWAYS REMENBER HIM AS WITH US OR BEING WITH ALL OF US TOGETHER
I FILL FOR YOU YOU MUST MISS HIM TREMENDESLY WE LOVED HIM AND WE AND WE LOVE YOU .FOR EVER EVER .CHLOE ILSE ANDRE.

I woke up this morning and it was a sad day. I can not believe a year has gone by. I know you are in heaven, adding so much joy to the many people who are not with us. I hope you and Todd are hanging out or traveling to some beautiful places . I think of your wonderful partner Donald all the time,and hope he knows that. I love you both. Love, Marina

Thinking of Barry with love.....you and Harlen too, Donald.....hard to believe a year has passed......I know Barry is watching over you with love, and I hope the wonderful memories you have are bringing you comfort. Francine

Remembering Barry......one of the finest men I've ever known......it was an honor to count him as a friend.

Miss you so much Uncle Barry. I have many fond memories of our times together. You are the best Uncle I ever had, I love you and miss you and have always longed for more time with you. I think of you, and also Donald frequently, and treasure my memories.
Love you, Tana

I think of you often Barry. I remember your soft spoken voice, and what a pleasure it always was to be in your company.  You were so kind to Jim always, and he so enjoyed talking with you and Donald.
I think of Donald and how much he misses you Barry. You are with him constantly, and he with you.
God bless Donald and give him strength to overcome his grief.

"HAPPY.BIRTHDAY".MISSING.U.MORE.THAN.EVER
I.LOVE.YOU.SO.MUCH
YOUR.SPORT
DONALD

A light is from our household gone,
…..A voice we love is stilled.
A place is vacant in our home
…..Which never can be filled.
We have to mourn the loss of one
…..We did our best to save,
Beloved on earth, regretted still,
…..Remembered in the grave.
‘Twas hard to part with one so dear,
We little thought the time was near,
Farewell, dear one, your life is past,
Our love for you till the end will l

I think of you often and I also think of Donald. I can not believe it is coming up to one year. I still can hear your voice and the special friend you were. Our friendship was short, but meant alot to me. I pray for Donald each day. I hope to see him someday soon. Love, Marina

Kindness, gentleness and a tremendous capacity to care deeply for those around you are just some of your attributes that are missed.

As the days and hours past your smile, phone calls, and love notes are missed more. It is not getting easier. You were right, and I understand why you fought leaving. You are so wonderful and GOD can be proud.

I reach for you every minute of the day. You were everything to me and I miss you so deeply.