Dear Uncle Wamunyu:
Happy birthday to my fellow Capricorn!
I last saw you in person in 2004 when I came back to Kenya for my research project. It's not until I was in your presence again that I realized just how much I'd missed you-- your intellect, humor, laughter, wise counsel, calm demeanor, and kindness.
It's funny-- my memories of speaking on the phone with (specifically) Uncle Phillip and Uncle Wanyagi share one thing in common with you-- you all sound like my dad (tone and laughter). I know when I'm speaking with Uncles Kuria and John, but you and the previously mentioned Uncles were a bit of a doozy when using a landline with no caller ID, lol!
When I answered the phone and said, "Hello?" You'd all say my name the same way: "Nyambura!"
#Confusing
I'd never know who it was. So I'd ask, "Father?"
And after chuckling, you'd say, "Well, it's not Father! It's your Uncle Wamunyu!"
These surprise calls meant everything to a college/graduate student who was far away from home and grateful for the familiar voices of family members.
Of many things, I miss your scholarly feedback on everything my sisters (Wambui and Muthoni Kamau) and I shared with you. Your unique perspective on all things nourished our respective personal and professional growth. You challenged our way of thinking and encouraged us to keep aiming higher, particularly where academic learning is concerned.
You had a nuanced approach to dealing with life adversities, something my dad deeply admired in you, in addition to your genuine kindness. Despite your challenges, you had a remarkable ability to approach life with an open mind, discerning spirit, firm values/principles, and a gentle soul.
Until we meet again, rest in peace with God and all His angels.
Love, Nyambura Kamau (Linda Githiora-Olweny)
