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Please share your stories and photos of our dear Meet. Gone too soon and who will always be remembered.
July 5, 2023
July 5, 2023
We met through a mutual friend, over 20 years ago. We shared many ideas and talked about pretty much everything after that.
Although I later left Singapore and we didn't catch up often because of that, for which I'm saddened. I was utterly shocked to learn of your passing from that same mutual friend, earlier this year. Thank you for being a friend.

Your kind soul and the care-filled words of guidance you always had for others will continue to light the way for the many who knew you.
Rest peacefully.
June 26, 2023
June 26, 2023
Dear Meet, it's been 6 months since you left us all. It's taken this long to pen this, because it's like you've never left - perhaps it's as if you're on an extended vacation somewhere. 

You're still in our hearts each day, and you come up frequently in our conversations, along with your signature phrases such as "Weak, lah!". Sometimes it's like you're still with us during our gatherings, and that things have not changed at all.

You've always been there for your friends, and in reality, you're much more like the glue that keeps a family together.

Personally, I look forward to a day when we all come together again somewhere, somehow to laugh over drinks and good food. That's what heaven would look like to me! Rest in peace for now - till we all meet again - and we raise the dead with our laughter!
May 6, 2023
May 6, 2023
Meet passed 4 months ago today. Still can't fathom it. I'm missing the regular check-ins, encouragement, and friendship. Still feels like she'll ping me on WhatsApp, and I'm sure I'm not alone. Today I'm remembering her with gratitude and sadness, and am thinking again of her wonderful family and friends; none of whom I'd met until the funeral. 
January 17, 2023
January 17, 2023
Such a strong, kind and intelligent lady who pursued her dreams no matter what and involved everyone in her journey with immeasurable hospitality and copious amounts of wine. You blessed Scotland with your presence, it will be missed and never forgotten. Rest in peace Meet ❤️
January 12, 2023
January 12, 2023
A true ray of sunshine to everyone she crossed paths with. I’m grateful for all the laughs, hugs, memories and even tears we shared. Glasgow will never forget you and love you always xx
January 11, 2023
January 11, 2023
Dear Meet, we last met each other by chance in Tanjong Pagar some time ago. Little did I know that would be the last meeting we would have.

Thank you for being such a generous friend - I still remember when you bought me lunch as I prepared to leave BCA, and you shared with me your grand plans to travel away from liabilities. I hope you have fulfilled your dreams.

It has been a privilege to be inspired by your jokes, smiles and infectious laughter. I am lucky to have conveyed this message to you before.

May you rest in peace, Meet. We will miss you.


Dan & Claryce
January 11, 2023
January 11, 2023
Thank you for coming into our lives through your work with Tom and others in Singapore. Nothing but happy memories of time spent together and particularly road trips to beautiful spaces and places of wine and great food in New Zealand. I will remain inspired by your joy, intellect, determination and the capacity to bring lightness with a smile and open arms. Gone far too soon, you will be deeply missed by many.
January 10, 2023
January 10, 2023
What a shock and such a great loss.
I will always think of you with tremendous thankfulness for your friendship. From meeting you at the drama society of Hull Uni, all those get togethers, trips to the pub, LAs night club, shared friends and good times right up to What’s App in Lockdown when you were in Glasgow.
You were a wonderful host when I visited Singapore and it was great going with you to Bali - to celebrate my 40th.
You were such a warm, fun, caring, interested and interesting friend.
We all valued you and we will miss you.
January 10, 2023
January 10, 2023
Meet was an amazing friend, she made me feel warm inside. She was a person who was always been kind and always being a good energy to everyone. I miss her more than I thought I would. More love than you could ever know from joel
January 10, 2023
January 10, 2023
I am so utterly shocked with this news. Meet was such a lovely colleague - always smiling and helping us close out contracts promptly. We will miss you
January 10, 2023
January 10, 2023
My dad had worked with Meet for a while and a lot of the time he had taken me to see her, and every time I saw her she was really nice and caring for me and my brother, She always wanted what’s best for others, and was an amazing person to know. I will miss her.
January 10, 2023
January 10, 2023
I have never met Meet in person but had the opportunity to work with her. She was a wonderful human being and a very nice colleague to work with. I will deeply miss her.
January 10, 2023
January 10, 2023
I had the privilege of working with Meet. She was someone full of life. Meet always had so much to share, to talk about. One could go on spending time with her and feel as if she was known to you for the last so many years. I will deeply miss Meet and hope that she is happy and joyful wherever she is. Miss you, my friend! Gone to soon.
January 10, 2023
January 10, 2023
I did not know Meet very well never having met her in person but we worked together for almost 2 years and she was a very warm, thoughtful and forever smiling human being. My thoughts to her family and close friends. You will be missed Meet.
January 9, 2023
January 9, 2023
I first met Meet in 1989 when she did her first degree in Hull. I was with her when she first experienced laying snow! Over the years we've kept in touch, visiting each other, meeting each other's families & friends, and travelling together a lot. Meet was the most compassionate, caring, understanding, fun loving, adventurous, cheerful,smily & generous person I know. She was always so generous and kind to my mother & always wanted to visit her when in Yorkshire. I shall always remember her joyful laugh and life will be emptier without you in it Meet. I will live by your motto of "carpe diem". Jim and I will miss you. RIP
January 9, 2023
January 9, 2023
Meet, You made Us your friend from the very first time we met and you always left a little magic when we say goodbye…..still can’t believe we won’t see, feel or hear that beautiful bubbly magic that is YOU

In His love ,
Chris, Mercy , Steven ,Yvette Hardy
January 9, 2023
January 9, 2023
I got to know Meet during my time in Glasgow and I think its fair to say that she had a great impact on me.
Her cheerfulness was contagious and she had the ability to draw me out of my "grouch shell". Over crazed meals and drinks, we spent a lot of time talking about literally everything - despite the fact of nearly 30 years of age difference. It is only seldom to experience such a smart, funny and empathetic person. Her hospitality, her ability to bring people together, her lifestory, the fact that she would always have an open ear and heart for her friends and the sheer paradox that she made even the lockdown a joyful experience - Meet was inspiring in many many ways.
I will miss you, Meet.
January 9, 2023
January 9, 2023
I had only begun to work with Meet in recently and her professionalism and support was amazing, it felt like the beginning of a great partnership. I am so saddened to hear of her passing, and wanted to share my deep condolences to her family, she will be missed. xx
January 9, 2023
January 9, 2023
I’ve known Meet for two decades. She was one of the first friends (she was a colleague then) I made when I came to Singapore. She had a larger than life personality and was a wonderful friend. I take comfort in the fact that the ones we love are never gone, they live within our hearts. You will always be loved, never forgotten and forever missed, dear Meet.
January 8, 2023
January 8, 2023
we share lots of stories ever since your start with Publicis. we laugh a lot on things happening around and release our self from all office works.
will miss you.
Rest In Peace.
January 8, 2023
January 8, 2023
I had met Meet many years ago when I visited my sister in Singapore as she and my sister were good friends. I really got to know her when she came over to Scotland in 2019 to do her Masters in Glasgow. I introduced her to my group of friends and we met up frequently and had a blast. Meet was full of stories of her adventures and she I fondly remember her imparting her knowledge on wine. Her gregarious nature meant she was a natural at social events and that certainly shone through when she was in a room full of strangers two weeks after she arrived in Scotland. I invited her to my husband's 50th birthday party and she helped fill glasses and socialised at the same time. She is certainly a social butterfly and so fun to be around. I am glad to have met up with her in Oct 2022 when I was over in Singapore and she was making plans for her 60th this year, but it's not to be. She will be sorely missed and fondly remembered always, Rest in Peace, dear Meet.
January 8, 2023
January 8, 2023
Meet was a wonderful human being who was greatly respected by all. Her positive energy and smile will be very much missed at Publicis Groupe.
January 8, 2023
January 8, 2023
You are one of the most beautiful souls I have ever met. Passionate, always up for new adventures, generous. You will always have a special place in my heart. My UK mom, I already miss you.
January 8, 2023
January 8, 2023
David and I are deeply saddened by this shocking news. Till today, I fondly remember and tell friends how promo producers during our days at SBC had to beg for facilities and how you showed me how to sneak into parked OB vans to view our tapes! You made work fun and you really lightened the PresO office.

Thanks for the memories and we'll never forget your bubbly personality and infectious laughter.

May your soul rest in peace, my friend.
January 8, 2023
January 8, 2023
Sad on the passing away of a good team worker with a bubbly personality. Meet gave her best and has now earned a rest, although so untimely and a shock to her family, friends and colleagues. It was enriching to know Meet as a colleague and a friend. We will miss her.
January 8, 2023
January 8, 2023
A beautiful soul that's gone too soon. You will be sorely missed.
January 8, 2023
January 8, 2023
Meet was the lead legal counsel of BCA when we first met. Our relationship, which started as a formal one, quickly evolved. Her unyielding principle to do right by her moral values and conscience, her courage to honestly present her views and her strength to face adversity made her stand out. These strengths were soften by her bubbly personality and infectious laughter. It was easy to be her friend and I was fortunate to be one of hers for the last dozen years or so. I will miss our dinners with Meet and our mutual friends; the times we shared over food and good wines (another of her many passions) are
amongst my fondest memories of her. Most of all, I will miss her. Until we meet again, rest well my friend. May our Creator bless your soul and give comfort to your family.
January 8, 2023
January 8, 2023
You had such a bubbly personality. Sharon and I will miss you dearly and we really had a good time in KL...
January 8, 2023
January 8, 2023
One of the most beautiful ,kindest and compassionate person I’ve known- and even that is an understatement.Saying farewell so soon feels wrong...so, so very wrong. Farewell, my friend and thank you.                                                                 I am better for having known you, loved you and met you. Our paths will cross again.
January 8, 2023
January 8, 2023
Meet was my childhood friend from my Jalan Kayu days who we used to loving call Polly. Can't forget the days we used to have fun playing all the 60s games skipping, hide and seek, police and thief, five stones and many more. Jalan Kayu Primary School was used to be our private playground. Thinking of all those days on this day. You will be sadly missed.
January 8, 2023
January 8, 2023
It breaks my heart that you were taken so unexpectedly. Last Nov, you couldn't join us at a gathering and I told you "No worries, there's always another day" Never know there's no such day! Your memory will never leave us and live long in our hearts. A beautiful soul is never forgotten.
January 7, 2023
January 7, 2023
I am still shocked and deeply saddened by the news of your departure. I wish it didn't happen...but it happened...and i have lost a good friend, i shall miss your debating spirit. Goodbye Meet.
January 7, 2023
January 7, 2023
We (Peck Cheng & Gan) just cannot process you are no longer around Meet. I was still texting you last week and we were suppose to catch up this week. So sad that conversation didn’t take place. But, thank you for all the beautiful memories since our broadcasting days, visiting you in England when you were pursuing law, the good times we had in the pubs and the many conversations we had about law principles even while you were in Scotland … we will miss you Meet - the kind and caring human being! Gone too soon old friend! but not forgotten. Forever in our memories!
January 7, 2023
January 7, 2023
You’ve been a wonderful Aunty and always there for me. I love you dearly. You will for ever be in my heart. I will
Always miss you
January 7, 2023
January 7, 2023
Always an utter joy to be with, Meet became one of my closest friends and confidants over the past few years, and it's a tragedy to lose her from our lives. Zoe, the boys and I will miss her deeply. However, I'm determined not forget the laughs, the chats, the stories of travel adventures, and her selfless support for me and others. I'll miss you, MK. Much love, Tom.

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July 5, 2023
July 5, 2023
We met through a mutual friend, over 20 years ago. We shared many ideas and talked about pretty much everything after that.
Although I later left Singapore and we didn't catch up often because of that, for which I'm saddened. I was utterly shocked to learn of your passing from that same mutual friend, earlier this year. Thank you for being a friend.

Your kind soul and the care-filled words of guidance you always had for others will continue to light the way for the many who knew you.
Rest peacefully.
June 26, 2023
June 26, 2023
Dear Meet, it's been 6 months since you left us all. It's taken this long to pen this, because it's like you've never left - perhaps it's as if you're on an extended vacation somewhere. 

You're still in our hearts each day, and you come up frequently in our conversations, along with your signature phrases such as "Weak, lah!". Sometimes it's like you're still with us during our gatherings, and that things have not changed at all.

You've always been there for your friends, and in reality, you're much more like the glue that keeps a family together.

Personally, I look forward to a day when we all come together again somewhere, somehow to laugh over drinks and good food. That's what heaven would look like to me! Rest in peace for now - till we all meet again - and we raise the dead with our laughter!
May 6, 2023
May 6, 2023
Meet passed 4 months ago today. Still can't fathom it. I'm missing the regular check-ins, encouragement, and friendship. Still feels like she'll ping me on WhatsApp, and I'm sure I'm not alone. Today I'm remembering her with gratitude and sadness, and am thinking again of her wonderful family and friends; none of whom I'd met until the funeral. 
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My UK mom

January 18, 2023
It took me some time to be able to write this story, but being here in Singapore and not seeing her at the airport made me finally realise that this was not just a bad dream. 

Meet was one of the first persons I talked to at the beginning of my second year of master in Glasgow. I was about to go back home as I had no idea where the rest of the LLM was meeting next, but she saw me and told me: "I don't know either, but let's find out together!" At the end of the day, she invited some people for a glass of wine and I immediately knew we were going to get along :)

She also took me in when I had nowhere to go in Glasgow and we spent the first lockdown together. We talked about our uncertain future, our past, Scottish guys, the essays we had write, we cooked, drank wine and whisky and watched father Brown.

She always made sure I was safe and sound, and I started to call her my UK mom (although, as she said, this was ruining her street cred!). She was so caring and generous to everyone.

She told me so much about Singapore that I had to come and, back in August, I finally set the date for January 2023. She was telling me about all the things we were going to visit, but more importantly all the restaurants we were going to eat at :) I also wanted my mom to meet my UK mom, as I knew they were going to get along. Unfortunately, that did not happen but I can see now why she loved Singapore so much, it's vibrant, like she was. 

I miss you but I know you are in peace, and I will always keep a special place for you in my heart.  

To my friend, confidant, and whisky compadre

January 9, 2023
It is with great difficulty I find myself writing this. I am utterly heartbroken and saddened by Meet’s passing. I had the absolute privilege of becoming Meet’s friend when she decided to come to Scotland and pursue her Masters. Upon reflection, the time knowing her was much too short, but still, it was filled with some of the most joyful, entertaining, and wonderful experiences of my life so far. So, I will take this opportunity to share with you all some of the most memorable moments I shared with Meet.
 
Meet holds a special place in my heart as the woman from Singapore who made a Scottish person fall in love with whisky. An iconic moment that I had the luxury of sharing with Meet, my sister, and our wonderful friend Annaig, was filled with classic Meet hospitality: good food and (a lot of) good wine. It was Christmas Eve, and Meet invited us round for a wonderful evening, and of course one in which I found myself a little too tipsy because of her ability to never be in the presence of an empty glass. This was the night my love for whisky was born, as Meet decided to top off the night with a lovely dram of a 21-year old Glengoyne. This whisky today is one of my most favourite whisky’s and always reminds me of Meet.
 
On another occasion, we ventured up for a weekend in Fort William, where in seeking some relief from covid nightmares we rented a lodge for the weekend and explored the beauties of Scotland by seeking out waterfalls, beautiful countryside, and of course good food and more wine. Whilst on our adventures to the waterfall we had to cross this tightrope wire hovering at least 10ft over the river, and still, I am so proud and impressed by Meet’s determination and fervour in defeating this feat.
 
Another notable moment we shared cannot be defined as single occasion, but a constant occurrence of love and support provided by Meet. She was an eager ear, a shoulder to cry on, and also, a person to dance with. 
 
I could go on speaking about the pleasures and forever memories I have been blessed with during my time knowing Meet. But instead of going on, I take this moment to reiterate my love and admiration I had, and continue to have, for this woman. I was forever impressed by her intelligence, hospitality, and above all else, her kindness. She was a notable figure known and admired by myself and my family and I will never forget her. She truly embodied carpe diem. She seized the day and conquered it often. 
 
Here's to forever remembering one of the brightest souls.

So we’re not growing into cranky little old ladies together?

January 8, 2023
My dear friend of more than half my life, today, I sent you off into new adventures without me. No more chances to perfect our wefies. Thank you for the decades of friendship, unconditional support generosity, patience, laughter and bitching. You’ve lived a very full life, on your own terms. You have earned your rest. I will remember your exhortation to “carpe diem”. Until we meet again on the other side. (You can tell me, “I told you so”).

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