Dear Femi, this is one of the hardest things that I’m having to do….who would have thought our close childhood unit can become painfully torn apart.

As children, we looked forward to adulthood, career opportunities and prosperity, with the hope of celebrating our reunions and rekindling those memories. Sadly, life has cruelly shattered those dreams, at the cusp of your success and what we now have are the unforgettable memories.

I thank you for being in my life as a childhood friend and brother….you were such a blessing and will forever remain precious in my heart. May your gentle soul rest in peace. The quote below is apt, when I remember you.

“When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.” – Kahlil Gibran

Femi, Femi, Femi... "sad and surreal" were the words you used to describe Alima's passing and those were the words that came to my mind when I bade you farewell yesterday at your beautiful funeral. I couldn't believe it. I must have gone over your iMessages and emails over and over again, including the last one you sent me on the day you passed on. If only I had known. If only we had known. But we didn't. You just slipped away.

You were very special Femi and you were my rock on the Board of CSR Children. Always there to give advice from mundane things like the lunch menu for our conference to securing our high profile Keynote Speaker; and you never missed a single Board meeting. I will miss our conversations about nothing and everything. You were a good friend and I thank God that we kept in touch these last 30 years.

My heart goes out to your siblings and your immediate family. They are heartbroken. We all are. But we hope that time will heal and that we can find comfort in the sweet memories of you - your kindness, your thoughtfulness, your caring nature - always giving.

Rest in perfect peace Femi. May God rest your soul and thanks for everything.

With much love, Toyin

Dr. Femi! Ahhhhhhh believe me I was looking forward to have you visit this summer. Your presence lit and spark up the house. So considerate and so calm like a river. Chaiiii! Who should I look forward to seeing, Dr. Femi ..........My Landlord!

You will be missed, I had the pleasure to work with you for over 10 years, you were compassionate, dedicated to your job, a mentor and a friend. I will miss your smile and your leadership. Rest in peace Obi.

A consummate professional, a willing collaborator, an outstanding physician and healer, and a ready hand in times of need, whose e-mails invariably began with the statement, "I hope you are well." We're all a little less 'well' today, Obi. You will be dearly missed!

I so sad to hear of your passing! I had the great pleasure working with you in Mora. You are an amazing Doctor and Friend! You will be missed greatly!! My sympathy to your Family and loved ones!

I first met Obi at my gym when I moved here in 1998. He was so kind and sweet and a real gentleman. We met here again at Southdale and he remained a sweet and loyal friend. He treated his coworkers and his patients with the utmost respect. I will miss our frequent conversations and his amazing smile. Heaven just got another angel...

What a tragic and painful loss. My sincere condolence to Bola on the death of her dearest brother who was an exceptional and brilliant mind, an inspiration to many.

I knew Dr Ayantuga through Fairview, first as a HUC that transcribed his orders, then as a Physician Recruiter that partnered with him to recruit Hospitalists. He was the most genuine, caring, and humble physicians I have ever met. He saw good in everyone and provided constant encouragement to follow your heart and bring your dreams to life. He has certainly left us too soon but left an indelible mark on us all!

My Condolences to the Family and Colleagues. There is no way to make Obi's passing "Softer". His Life and devotion to exellence is an example one could aspire to emulate. Take care my friend-one day we will meet at the crossroads.

My Condolences to the Family and Colleagues. There is no way to make Obi's passing "Softer". His Life and devotion to exellence is an example one could aspire to emulate. Take care my friend-one day we will meet at the crossroads.

You will be greatly missed by all of us who had the pleasure of working with you. A soft voice, and calm demeanor who made all comfortable. Seeing daily how much you cared for your patients and those under your charge. I will miss your wisdom and your kindness. Always treated everyone with respect. You were truly one of a kind. May you RIP and your loved ones find comfort.

I am still reeling from the news of your sudden departure. As I pen these words, I am transported back to Golders Green at the house where we visited with Busola, and you & Bola were home. We had so much fun with no cares in the world.
I am still hoping that someone would say it was a bad joke but alas, reading your obituary makes it real. O ye Oluwa. Aburo mi, sun re o.

Obi what can I say? You touched lives, you touched souls and healed bodies... I respected you as one of the most excellently consistent and dedicated physicians I have ever met... The quintessential gentleman physician... You will be missed. You will be missed! My condolences and sympathy to your family and loved ones. Adieu my friend.

My dear dear friend and brother, I cannot comprehend it all and NEVER will. But I am thankful that we shared a childhood together. You were and remained a thoroughly decent man , without blemish. Sweet memories but very very painful to say goodbye. I love you bro. Certain we will meet in heaven, Your friend and brother. Tim

So sad to here of your passing met you many years ago in Mora mn very good Dr. always had a smile to share no matter how busy always there for you to help with your problems you will be missed and the medical community is going to lose a very dedicated physician our thoughts and prayers to your family and friends

Obi was a truly amazing person in so many ways, but to me he was an inspiration and a mentor in my early years as a Hospitalist. When I started my Hospitalist career at Fairview Southdale I was instantly drawn to Obi because of his obvious leadership skills, constant professionalism and genuine care for his colleagues and patients. As I was facing some early challenges going on in our Hospitalist group he took me under his wing, protected me, encouraged me and mentored me. After I was there for a year Obi stepped into leading the group and what a gifted leader he was. He has been demonstrating to all of us what it means to be a great physician and a brilliant leader ever since. One of my favorite examples of his compassionate leadership is how he selected and purchased gifts for each member of our group at Christmas and at the amazing annual retreats he started during his tenure. He took the time to get to know me personally and picked out personalized gifts that helped encourage me. Whenever I hung out with Obi I always left wanting to be a better physician and a better leader. He encouraged me in my pursuit to make our computer system better for our colleagues and patients and he was always there to share a brilliant idea just when it was needed most. I am just one of so many people that Obi helped through his pursuit of excellence and his care for the people around him. Thank you Obi for being a great mentor and an example of a true physician! I will try to carry on all the lessons you taught me and will truly miss your wisdom and humble spirit!

Bryan Jarabek
Hospitalist colleague

My darling,ever loved,most cherished brother, friend,rock,support, God father to my three children, I love you