In loving memory of my dear sister, Folasade Omolara Ade-Aina (Nee Ologe)
My sister embodied obedience to our parents' in their lifetime. Her presence, a tranquil oasis, her words like a soothing melody, with a unique personality she radiated profound Christian faith. A virtuous wife, a nurturing mother, and a loving grandmother she was.
To us (her siblings), sister Lara was a treasure beyond compare. Her role in my life was immeasurable and profound; she took on the responsibility of raising my son, Folajimi with an unmatched grace from infancy to the of age nine. She was his guiding light, even into adulthood.
Though these words may not reach your ears sister Lara, but your memories remains vibrant in my heart. I had envisioned celebrating your 70th birthday with you by my side; yet, divine providence charted a different path. I cherish the precious memories we shared since I was a little girl and your roles as our youthful guide.
You answered God's call to unite our family with unwavering devotion. You gave your all, you fought valiantly and found victory in Christ. It was no coincidence that you chose to depart after your beloved husband's arrival;
an evidence that your life was meticulously planned, concluding on your own terms, as you intended.
Your passion for children was boundless, a wellspring of dedication. You invested tirelessly in their education, well-being, and spiritual journey; today, the sun shines brightly upon you sister dearest. Your children, both by blood and heart, continue to thrive in your honor.
To me, you were more than a sister; you were a motherly confidante.
Our conversations were cherished symphonies, your patience was boundless, you listened without judgment, spoke with fairness, and loved unconditionally. Your wisdom and guidance were invaluable etching lessons into my soul.
As my world crumbled with the pain of physical separation, I am consoled that you are in a better place free from pain, sorrow and worries and that time's unyielding march will carry me forward.
As life's brevity now etched deep within my being, I will never again take moments with loved ones for granted. The sibling bond, a sacred tapestry, forever weaved our characters together.
Your influence as the eldest, a beacon of responsibility, taught me the art of communication, compromise, and balance. Even in disagreements, you championed reconciliation, naturally nurturing, your love and protection were unwavering.
You were not merely a loving mother, but an extraordinary one. A virtuous wife, a skilled household manager. Your kindness extended to neighbors and widows, mentoring youths in your church, embracing them as your own.
Charitable and devout, you fasted and prayed unfailingly every Mondays and Wednesdays, seeking blessings and protection for our family. Life unfolded its beauty until the heart-wrenching news arrived, my beloved sister, Folashade Omolara Ade-Aina, forever etched in our hearts.
My sister, my mentor, my second mother, egbon mi atata and my children's beloved grandmother; as we mourn your absence, your legacy shines brightly, your legacy of love transcends, transitioning to loftier realms of glory.
Though we ache with the void created by your physical departure; your memory lives on, an indelible work of art.
Rest in serenity, dear mama, harmonizing with celestial choirs,
Sleep peacefully my beloved sister Lara, knowing my love for you endures eternally.
Abimbola Kikelomo Adeyinka (Nee: Ologe).