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Longtime Samish Island resident Sue Miller passed away June 21, 2020 after a short illness. Sue grew up in Centralia where she was a leader in "Rainbow Girls" and the Salutatorian of her graduating class. She was the second oldest of four children. Sue attended Centralia Community College, WSU and WWU. Sue moved to Samish Island in 1966 while she was teaching French and English at BEHS.  She married Fred in 1967 and they bought their home on Padilla Bay in 1968.  

Sue had a quiet strength and saw the world with a nurturing heart and an artist’s eyes. She was a teacher, an artist, a mother, and an advocate for the arts, arts education and women’s rights. Susan loved roses and growing flowers.  She relaxed by reading novels and solving sudoku and crossword puzzles. She was a devoted Mariners fan; many of her quilts were made watching the games.  Susan was a quiet person with unlimited creativity; she always had a project in the works and others in her mind. The last twelve years, Susan was a cookie baking, Halloween costume making, art project arranging grandma who talked politics with and loved her grandson, Torin, with endless depth. Throughout her life, family was central and her priority.

Susan started the Samish Island Preschool, or as it is better known, “Suemiller’s School”, and she nurtured 25 years of Island children. It became three and four year olds’ right of passage to get to go down to the beach and be with Sue.  She had an affinity with children that drew them to her and brought out her joy.  

Throughout her time on Samish Island, Sue created art that reflected the beauty around her: the birds and island scenes. She made pine needle baskets, stained glass, quilts, wall hangings, needlepoint, watercolors, pottery and more-sharing her art widely and arranging her created items into a warm and loving home. She was a founder of the Samish Art Festival and every year sold her art, and then the Island history book.  She and Fred co-authored and edited Samish Island-A History From the Beginning to the 1970’s. Sue interviewed many Island elders to gather their stories for the book. 

Sue had a multitude of relationships with other Islanders: long-standing friendships with fellow mothers she met when their children were small, with preschool families, with neighbors and with the artists of the island.  She touched many lives, was very loved and will be greatly missed, most of all by her family, including husband, Fred, and her daughters.  Abby, Jeanene and I (Krissy) were the luckiest of girls to have her as our mother.  

Call or drop by if you’d like to visit with the family (360-766-6548.)

If you wish to remember Susan in a concrete way, we suggest contributing to the Abigail Miller Bushe Art Scholarship at WWU,  donating to the food bank, holding your loved ones close and/or bringing the beauty of art into your lives, including believing that you can create it. 

Please leave memories at this memorial site, in a note to the family or in a memory book at the Miller home.

A more traditional obituary can be found in the "Life" section of this website.  

July 6, 2020
July 6, 2020
To Kristina and all your Family, We were very sad to hear of your Mothers passing and Mum, Dad and all our family here in Cork, Ireland send our deepest sympathy and love to you at this very sad time. Your mother looked so like you and such a talented lady --- I would love to have known her. We were very taken by the beautiful picture of your Mum and Torin in the Kitchen baking... the Love shines through and I'm very sure she will be missed dearly. So we are thinking of you all at this the saddest of times xxxxx
July 6, 2020
July 6, 2020
Dear Fred and Family,

Sue has had a lasting impact on myself and many others for her gentle kindness and all that she taught. I first met her when I was 2 years old attending her pre-school. Now, I'm 30. Learning with her during my early childhood years shaped the person I am today. I'm not the only one. Our Island community will forever be a better place because of her. She will be missed and I trust that a part of her spirit will live on in all of us that she so graciously touched.

With love,
Ryan Bart
July 5, 2020
July 5, 2020
Fred and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. She will be with you forever, in your heart and soul. Always remember your great family and the great times together.
Dennis and Carol Kerlee
July 4, 2020
July 4, 2020
To the Miller Family,

I am so very sorry for your loss. Jeanene, I remember so many nights at your place on the island visiting with your mom, while we sat on the deck ( or slept out there during hot summer nights)! I remember what beautiful art she had created and I loved looking at all her fantastic works of art.  Love and prayers to all of you. I am sorry I cannot make it tomorrow, but please know I will be thinking of all of you. 
July 4, 2020
July 4, 2020
We moved to Samish Island in the late summer of 1992 with a two and five year old. Soon after arriving we received word of “Suemiller’s Preschool”. Those happy treks down the trail and all the fun and care that occurred in the lovely little school on the beach are forever etched in our family memory bank. And, oh, those Christmas programs with the preschoolers so well orchestrated by Sue!
Sue added enlivenment not only to our lives but to the lives of many Samish Islanders. We are grateful for her presence in our lives and share in the sorrow of those who loved her so. She will be forever remembered with fondness.
July 3, 2020
July 3, 2020
We will miss Sue's quiet, strong presence and her lovely smile. Sue gave so generously of her talents to this island through the years. . . nurturing island children in her school - recording ad preserving, with Fred, our island history in an amazing volume for all of us to treasure - and creating extraordinary art from the beauty she saw around her. That vision shines very brightly in her lovely iridescent stained glass pieces, her richly designed quilts in brilliant, flowing colors, and her detailed needlepoint designs - all celebrations of the beauty she found around her. Her Christmas cookie plates and delightful pot-holder gifts are treasured in my memory and highlights in our kitchen today!
July 1, 2020
July 1, 2020
My sincere sympathy to the Miller family on the death of Susan. I met Susan and family on my visit to the USA on the occasion of Kristina's marriage to my nephew Darren.I enjoyed Susan and Fred's welcome and hospitality at their beautiful home on Samish Island,where Susan's artistic talent was much in evidence.   '' Ar dheis De go raibh a anam dilis'' 
July 1, 2020
July 1, 2020
From Neighbors/Friends/Fellow Artist,

May this fresh bouquet bring some lovely memories of Sue, a loving member of the Samish Island community. We will all miss her many gifts, but treasure what she did her lifelong mission to bring beauty to us all!
July 1, 2020
July 1, 2020
From Friends/Neighbors:

We always enjoyed her seeing talents, her constant flowers in Abby's arch and her gentle ways.
July 1, 2020
July 1, 2020
From a Neighbor/Friend:

Such a beautiful, gentle lady who will be missed by so many!
July 1, 2020
July 1, 2020
From a preschool family, neighbors, friends:

While my heart is heavy, I can muster up a smile as I think of Sue and her profound impact on so many Samish Island lives-including our children! We thank you for sharing your beloved Sue/mom with us.
July 1, 2020
July 1, 2020
From a family friend, neighbor, preschool family:

Sue's quiet heart held all of us...leaving a deep hole.
July 1, 2020
July 1, 2020
From Friends/Neighbors/Fellow Artist:

Sue is part of our life and we will miss her. May the goodness of her life and love be with you forever.
July 1, 2020
July 1, 2020
From family friends/neighbors:

Sue has been one of the cherished on this Island. Her legacy of tender loving teaching to our children will always be remembered with great appreciation. 
July 1, 2020
July 1, 2020
Our heart felt sympathy to Fred and family! Susan was one of the most creative people I have known and the proud owner of some of her fabric art and stained glass, all purchased at the Samish Island Arts Festival over the years. Susan was generous and caring, modest about her talent. It was an honor to know her.
July 1, 2020
July 1, 2020
Dear Fred (Pop), Jeanene and Krissy,
deeply sharing your loss. Went back to my photo albums of 1987/88 and brought back so many memories of the year I spent in your house, with you and Susan (Mom). I felt like part of your family and she and you welcomed me into your family and I will always be grateful for that. Everything you have written above really captures the way I also experienced her. I loved looking at the photographs you posted and to be part of her life as a mother and grandmother and seeing her smile in so many pictures! Wishing all of you the strength to carry on with the memories and the feeling you expressed in your Text, Krissy, that you were blessed.
Steffi
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Fred and Family,words cannot express our feeling we are saddened. Susan was such a wonderful lady,enjoyed every time she would bring her pre-school children out to our farm,it was such a delight. It was a treat when you would bring her to our 1957 class reunions. take care,Ron and Maryann Power.
June 27, 2020
June 27, 2020
My first memory of Susan was in 2006 when Ray and I met her for the first time. The welcome we received, kindness and generosity. We were delighted that our Son had found Kristina & her lovely family. Alas my next visits I made alone finding more kindness & Sympathy.  In 2016 my friend & I took a trip of a lifetime to USA & spent a number of days with Susan & Fred. The Hospitality we received & friendships made, Susan made a quilt for Virginia.
In 2019 Susan invited me to Samish for Christmas regrettably I was unable to make it.
         “ When orchids brighten the earth,
         Darkest Winter has turned to Spring,
         May dark grief Flower with hope
         In every heart that Loves you Susan.“
June 27, 2020
June 27, 2020
Dear Miller Family,
We were so blessed to be family with all of you. Randy and I spent years getting together at Ruth's on Christmas Eve and later Cheri's. Then there were countless 4th of July parades and meals at the beach that Fred and Sue hosted. We have been blessed by Sue's many handcrafted gifts through the years whether it be weaved basket, stained glass or quilted wall hanging. Her home was always a treat to visit to see her latest art and craft projects. She also had a gift for gardening with various houseplants and around the slopes of the beach you'd see patches of flowers, fruits and vegetables. Sue was also a great cook. At Christmas there were platters of homemade cookies and she was known for her bean salad for family gatherings. I can still see her slight smile and head nod "Oh Fred", when he would begin to share another story. And then there is Torin, the smile on her face when she spoke about him. He is one very special grandchild that couldn't be more loved. After we lost Abby I felt Torin brought new wind to her sails. Sue led a life she loved in a home she adored with the loves of her life Fred, her girls and family. She will be missed. 
June 27, 2020
June 27, 2020
Sue gave a beautiful life launch to Sarah and Hannah down on the the beach, hidden in the cave of stuffed bears. But it was her nurturing spirit that drew them in and helped teach the power of love.
Anne, Sarah, Hannah Stapleton
June 26, 2020
June 26, 2020
Dear Kristina,
Your Mum's story was so interesting. We enjoyed reading about her. We shall remember all those images of your lovely Mum and Torin's Granny.
We are thinking of you all here in Ireland.
Jimmy & Bridie Gollogly xxxxx
June 26, 2020
June 26, 2020
I have so many good memories of Susan and being welcomed into her home. I’m good friends with her daughter Kristina, and living so far from my family I was always welcomed into her family for holidays and long weekends. One of my favorite memories is being up late with Susan one Fourth of July eating Dungeoness crab and laughing with her and Jeanine. I loved her creative spirit and think of her every time I use my quilted pot holders. She was a woman of many talents and I’m richer for having known her.
June 26, 2020
June 26, 2020
What a beautiful tribute to someone who obviously touched so many lives. I did not know Susan well but she was very kind to me and welcomed my son into her life with open arms when he visited with Torin. Nate said that he will miss her and he will always think of how she loved to watch the Mariners and would bring them treats at the beach. I send you all love and we are grateful to be a part of your lives.
Nate, Steph, Aaron and Emmett Olson
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June 22
June 22
Thinking of Susan and her family yesterday on her Anniversary . Just came across the the last letter she sent to me. Her kind invitation to come to Samish for Christmas but I was unable to go as I had Health issues at the time.
June 24, 2023
June 24, 2023
I can't help but think that Sue, the artist, would be overjoyed to see another artistic project emerging, right now, in her own family! Yes! Just now, on Samish Island! It's clear that her talented husband, Fred, is once again beautifying the island using his special talents with wood. And a beautiful, new wooden archway, with warm, rich color tones has emerged, on the roadside, among the trees. in place of the former one! 

Sue and Fred - a true Artistic Duo!! These two have been a super, artistic team for many years, creating beauty around them - Sue with her stained glass, quilting, and collage, and Fred with his multiple decks wooden staircase to the beach, and his imaginative archways! Truly, these two have shared their own unique artistic talents with Samish Island. We treasure Sue's legacy! And we cheer Fred on, as he continues his artistic visions! I know that Sue would be cheering you on, and with great pride!! 

Ginny Ramey
Her Life

Obituary as printed July 19th, 2020 in the Skagit Valley Herald

July 18, 2020
Susan Miller, Samish Island teacher, artist, history writer, community mainstay and advocate for the arts, women’s rights and education died June 21, 2020. She was born in Aberdeen, WA on February 19, 1943, grew up in Centralia, WA and graduated as 1961 Centralia High School Class Salutatorian. Susan attended Centralia Community College and graduated from WSU with a BA in Education and Teaching in 1965, and earned a 5th year early childhood education certificate from WWU. She taught English and French at Burlington Edison High School, and Head Start for the LaConner School District. Susan also ran her own preschool from 1973-1998. On July 5, 1967 Susan married Fred Miller, and they raised their daughters, Jeanene, Kristina and Abigail on Samish Island. Susan was a  founder of the Samish Island Arts Festival, and co-authored and edited Samish Island-A History From the Beginning to the 1970’s with her husband Fred. Susan’s quiet but direct manner, love, and artistry live in the hearts of her husband, Fred; daughters Jeanene and Kristina (Darren Kavanagh); sister, Leslie Hayertz (Brian Jelgerhuis), and brother Glenn Hayertz (Robin); grandson, Torin Kavanagh; aunt, Georgine Herring; sister-in-law, Marilynne Halkola; nieces, Meg Hayertz (Alan Clark), Amy Hayertz, Erica Wingard (Iain), Brenda Hanson Taylor; nephews, Keith Hanson (Cindy) and Jacob Hayertz (Zina), Eric Hayertz, Carl Hayertz, and many cousins, great nieces and great-nephews. She is preceded in death by her parents, Verne and Mercedes Hayertz; her daughter Abigail Miller Busche and son-in-law Ryan Busche; and by her brother David Hayertz. Susan’s family thanks the doctors and staff of Skagit Valley Hospital for the caring way in which they supported both her and the family. The family also appreciates how friends, family and the Samish Island community have stood by them and helped honor Susan’s memory and legacy. Remembrances may be made to the Abigail Miller Bushe Art Scholarship at WWU, your local food bank, or groups promoting women’s health and self-sufficiency. 

Susan's Life

July 16, 2020
Susan Miller, well-respected and loved Samish Island teacher, artist, history writer, community leader and advocate passed away June 21, 2020 at age 77. 

She was born in Aberdeen, WA on February 19, 1943 to Verne and Mercedes Hayertz.  She grew up for most of her childhood in Centralia, WA, the second oldest of four siblings. Susan helped run the family’s corner grocery store on Sundays and made dinner for the family during the week while her parents were working, honing the cooking skills she became known for. During her high school years she was active in groups including Girl Scouts, drill team and Rainbow Girls, a Masonic youth service organization which teaches leadership training through community service. She was chosen as the Rainbow Girls leader, ‘Worthy Advisor.’ She graduated from Centralia High School in 1961 as class Salutatorian. Susan attended Centralia Community College for two years and transferred to Washington State University at Pullman, graduating with a Bachelor of Arts in Education and Teaching degree in 1965.

In 1965 Susan began her teaching career as a English and French instructor at Burlington Edison High School. After earning her fifth-year certificate at Western Washington University in early childhood education, she taught for the LaConner School District Head Start program, working with children and families in the Swinomish Community. Susan opened her own preschool, “Samish Island Preschool,” in 1973, and for twenty-five years brought happy learning to a generation of Samish Island children. Children were drawn to her and brought her joy. She followed her students' lives and their educational progress, keeping an album of photos and articles about them. Susan also taught for a number of years as coordinator and English instructor for a Japanese exchange summer program during the 1980’s. She encouraged her own daughters to be self-sufficient by attending college, following in her and her mother’s footsteps. Susan also established a scholarship for women entering college as older students at Centralia Community College and another for art students at Western Washington University. 

Susan married Fred Miller, a longtime Burlington resident, on July 5, 1967. Susan and Fred raised their three daughters Jeanene, Kristina (Krissy) and Abigail (Abby) on Samish Island, and were married for nearly fifty-three years. Susan devoted herself to her family, leading by example how to raise children for a grounded, self-fulfilled life. Cooking, art projects, making what was needed, holiday traditions and homemade gifts were core elements of the family life that Sue created. Family was central to her life.

Susan was a quiet leader and catalyst in the community, the one who spoke directly and honestly to get things done. She organized “Playday” groups for local mothers and their young children, in addition to arranging regular ‘coffee time’ for her preschool’s parents. Networks of longtime friends originated from these groups. She was a founder of the Samish Island Arts Festival, which she organized for many years and participated in all twenty-three years since its inception. She and Fred co-authored and edited Samish Island: A History From the Beginning to the 1970’s, contributing all profits to scholarships and the Samish Island Community Club. 

Throughout her life, Susan expressed her artistic talents prolifically. Susan reflected the beauty of nature around her in her art: designing stained glass windows and lamp-shades, fabric art, needle point, basketry, pottery, quilts, wall hangings and more.  Susan fashioned her  home into a comfortable and aesthetically rich haven filled with art and surrounded by roses and other flowers. Susan had unlimited creativity; she always had a project in the works and others in her mind. Susan also advocated for arts education. 


She loved reading novels and solving sudoku and crossword puzzles. She was a devoted Mariners fan; many of her quilts were made watching the games. The last twelve years, Susan was a cookie-baking, Halloween-costume-making, art-project-arranging grandma who talked politics with and loved her grandson, Torin, with endless depth. 


Susan’s quiet but direct manner, love, and artistry live on in the hearts of her family and many others: her husband, Fred; daughters Jeanene and Kristina (Darren Kavanagh); sister, Leslie Hayertz (Brian Jelgerhuis), and brother Glenn Hayertz (Robin); grandson, Torin Kavanagh; aunt, Georgine Herring; sister-in-law, Marilynne Halkola; nieces, Meg Hayertz (Alan Clark), Amy Hayertz, Erica Wingard (Iain), Brenda Hanson Taylor; nephews, Keith Hanson (Cindy) and Jacob Hayertz (Zina), Eric Hayertz, Carl Hayertz, and many cousins, great nieces and great-nephews. 


She is preceded in death by her parents, Verne and Mercedes Hayertz; her daughter Abigail Miller Busche and son-in-law Ryan Busche; and by her brother David Hayertz. 


Susan’s family would like to thank the doctors and staff of Skagit Valley Hospital for their significant efforts and for the caring way in which they supported both her and the family during Susan’s last days. 


The family also appreciates the way the community has expressed their deep affection and respect for the gifts Susan offered her community and her presence in their lives. 


Artist. Teacher. Mother. Community mainstay. Role model. Advocate. She gave her best and will be remembered through her many contributions and in the lives of those she nurtured. 


Please remember Susan by contributing to the Abigail Miller Bushe Art Scholarship at WWU, by donating to your local food bank or groups promoting women’s health and self-sufficiency, by holding your loved ones close, by believing in your own artistry and by bringing the beauty of art into your lives.


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February 19
Mom made us feel  special each birthday,  I remember one where she created a hoop skirt for a new doll suspended over a wire frame with a pink frilly dress. Each girl at my party pulled their party favor from under the dolls skirts with a ribbon. Only looking back do I realize that she likely spent hours creating something unique for us each year. I never missed going on an expensive outing. I didn’t even think of it. 

From Friends/Neighbors/Preschool Family

July 11, 2020
My boys and I enjoyed many wonderful years of SueMiller School. They loved their time with her! What a treasure to be able to march down the trail to the schoolhouse on the beach.  I cherish all those great memories of moms' coffee hour, field trips, and graduation on the beach in Bayview.  
One of my favorite stories was when [my son] was very new to preschool.  [He] didn't like to sing during longtime.  When he was barely 3 years old he came home one day and said that he liked SueMiller School because she told him "That's okay, you don't have to sing....you can just enjoy listening to the joyful music." It meant so much to me that she respected who he was as a little boy.  Sue and I reconnected in later years at the art festivals and thankfully we all have beautiful stained glass ornaments and pot holders to hold her memory with us.  Sue was such a kind and gentle lady, an amazing teacher and so supportive of our children and us as moms...we were so very fortunate to have her in our lives.  What a gift we were given!

From Crickett

July 11, 2020
"...Stacey was in Sue's preschool with Krissy, and Troy was best buds with Abby. Later Wendy and Abby were close friends, so we have known each other for about 40 years.  We would talk about the unique adventures we all had living so far from town and going to preschool where moms could share coffee before we left the kids with her and then we would meet for the playday group another time in the week.  We seldom know friends in a neighborhood who could be so unique from one another and raise our children in such different ways, but we all enjoyed each other and our kids for years.  Sue made such a difference because the preschool was almost a foundation for the moms and when requested our prayers as well.  Sue will be missed, but we will all certainly remember her."

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