Like many of you, when I heard the sad news about Weldon I was so heartsick and somehow it was so surreal! Weldon was always so available, can you still hear him say, "Hello, this is Welll...don"? Were you affected like I was when he wrote regarding his telephone number: "Please do not call, no one will answer", I have to say, my heart was in my throat!
After being in the truth since a child and knowing many, many very spiritual brothers and sisters, I must say that he was one of my most profound mentors. He taught us how to live, and how to love and how to evolve into a better person, just by being Weldon, by having a "quiet strength" and a persona of "calm energy". In his final letter Weldon spoke of "we little men", but for one, Weldon was not "a little man".
Many times I asked Weldon if I could sit at his feet some evenings and write his story! He said that a couple of others had offered, maybe one of you dear friends reading this Tribute were one of them. Weren't his stories endless? My husband Walter and I were able to travel in theocratic activities all over the world, and every time we had a new adventure, Weldon was our first "telephone stop". When we traveled, we never wanted to have the friends" indulge" us for a place to stay or eat, but we wanted to show hospitality to friends of Weldon's and get to make them our new friends! So, whether it was visiting the German Branch* or a small town in "who knows where", Weldon had a "contact", and we met so many friends, perhaps you who are reading this we have met through Weldon. Beside, whenever anything was new in the truth (and has it ever been lately), Walter and I called Weldon for "the theocratic scoop". The recent changes at the Bethels worldwide was something he was very fluid with, he always knew exactly what was going on at the Annual Meetings, but always staying within proper boundaries and very gracious with his compliments regarding any change.
Strangely, he called us about 10 days before December 11th, he wanted to make a trip up to Sacramento where we now live, and I had a chance to ask him "Weldon, was anyone (in the Truth) killed or hurt in the Paris attack?", he told me no. Anytime there was any kind of tragedy, (like the children killed in New Town, Conn.) hurricane, etc, we always knew that Weldon would have the story. What a loss for all of us, he was our "touchstone" to what was happening around the world, thus we feel very connected to you dear friends who are reading about Weldon and mourning this very, very, phenomenal brother. One of my foremost identities with Weldon is that, due to him, I too, go "outside the box" but he taught me to appreciate those who stay "inside the box" as well. Are we not rejoicing that Jehovah had such a treasure that gave Him such adoration and isn't Jehovah "yearning for the work of his hands" (Job 14:15) for our dear brother.
In closing for my tribute, I want to remember Weldon by implementing the legend that he left for us, care and reach out to those in need on every level, he did that for all of us, now it's our turn. At times he had struggles for being authentic, but he was a survivor, may we all be our best authentic selves.
We will make the trip to Santa Barbara on February 27th to remember, cry and plan together for his return.
*When we visited the German Branch in the 1990s, Weldon put us through to Ramon Templeton who serves on the Branch Committee (he and Weldon knew each other in California in the "old days"). What an introduction! Brother Templeton was very hospitable. Weldon loved when the December 15,2012 Watchtower (pages 17-21) came out with the Life Story of Brother Templeton and three of his friends in the article "Friends For Life and Only Getting Better". Weldon knew all four brothers and rejoiced in the wonderful accounts of their lives, he really got a kick out of that article :)